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Oct 21, 2010 7:34 PM CST when the love is gone...
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
HotrodLarrys: When One of the two stops!


c-mon Larry...don't stop...sad flower
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Oct 21, 2010 7:39 PM CST when the love is gone...
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
JAN_is: It is a difficult question because some of us refuse to give up or want to work on any problems arising in our relationships before saying goodbye. It also depends on how long two people have been together.

I know, I was married for over 25 years and we divorced because we had grown apart and wanted different things in life. However, we married again just a year later because we couldn´t accept our love had died. Mistake I know, and we divorced a second time a year later, but it was worth a try and we remain friends. This I think is lacking in relationships today, people give up too easily.


I don't know that it was a mistake. You probably learned something...
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Oct 21, 2010 7:41 PM CST when the love is gone...
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
nice_and_easy: up to when one knows when to move on and give up???i wanna know....


when you cry more than you laugh and the emotions of your heart aren't in it anymore..it's time to move on to better things.
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Oct 21, 2010 7:54 PM CST when the love is gone...
afterbam: c-mon Larry...don't stop...



Im Not the Quitter!tongue

snooty playball
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Oct 21, 2010 8:09 PM CST when the love is gone...
rune8
rune8rune8South, W.A, Western Australia Australia14 Threads 1,065 Posts
If you have any doubts! The very moment you think its not working and you want out, that split second. Then run! Unless deep down the little voice says work it out. Give it time.
Everyone is different in how they cope emotionally. The trick is finding the happy medium. Once you get the happy medium where you meet in the middle then everything will fall in place it all takes time and sorting. That is my experience in the world of romance so far. I am still learning!!
But I have walked away all the time, run!!!!. My motto. "When the going gets tough the tough get going"
Not again! See it through till the end! One way or the other.





teddybear
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Oct 21, 2010 8:13 PM CST when the love is gone...
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Im Not the Quitter!


grin
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Oct 23, 2010 12:08 PM CST when the love is gone...
mugsup1980
mugsup1980mugsup1980somerset, Kentucky USA3 Threads 10 Posts
The first 3 sounds like what i went though my realtionship was 8 years and she started to find friend guys and do other stupid stuff.dunno
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Oct 23, 2010 12:14 PM CST when the love is gone...
mugsup1980
mugsup1980mugsup1980somerset, Kentucky USA3 Threads 10 Posts
afterbam: 1-When no Messages or calls
2-When he starts calling you by your name
3-when he begins to frequent other friendships
4-when sick, and don't notify you
5-when his mother begins to have comucacion you



This was what i was talking about doh
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Oct 23, 2010 12:33 PM CST when the love is gone...
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
nice_and_easy: up to when one knows when to move on and give up???i wanna know....


When you feel nothing for that person its time to walk away.wave
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Oct 23, 2010 1:23 PM CST when the love is gone...
midnight_angel_1
midnight_angel_1midnight_angel_1Northwest, Tennessee USA1 Threads 399 Posts
When you are not getting out of a relationship what you are putting in, then things will never change. We all deserve to be happy. grin
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Oct 23, 2010 2:31 PM CST when the love is gone...
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
mugsup1980: This was what i was talking about


yeap..the first impression 's when he/her call u by ur name...conversing time to move on....cheers
no feeling, no pain...cool
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Oct 23, 2010 2:43 PM CST when the love is gone...
manu1010
manu1010manu1010chandigarh, Chandigarh India18 Threads 74 Posts
nice_and_easy: up to when one knows when to move on and give up???i wanna know....
Life is a book of beautiful mystery. you never know which page will bring a gud twist in the life, keep on reading bcoz happiness comes when it is least....comfort
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Oct 23, 2010 2:45 PM CST when the love is gone...
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
I haven't got a clue........... its been so long now .............
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Oct 23, 2010 2:48 PM CST when the love is gone...
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
manu1010: Life is a book of beautiful mystery. you never know which page will bring a gud twist in the life, keep on reading bcoz happiness comes when it is least....


I have to ask Shrek...about...what happen with the last pageuh oh
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Oct 23, 2010 2:56 PM CST when the love is gone...
manu1010
manu1010manu1010chandigarh, Chandigarh India18 Threads 74 Posts
afterbam: I have to ask Shrek...about...what happen with the last page
Never design your character like a garden where anyone can walk,design your character like the sky where every one desire to reach....../you read and think professor
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Oct 23, 2010 3:26 PM CST when the love is gone...
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
manu1010: Never design your character like a garden where anyone can walk,design your character like the sky where every one desire to reach....../you read and think



uh oh

always the same book...but what about me...???uh oh
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Oct 23, 2010 4:48 PM CST when the love is gone...
Because you asked!
When a Person is Truehearted, and Gives their all to help the Relationship, and the other ignores your Desire learn and grow togather..... In Love.....


So When They REFUSE, to Learn and Grow Togather....

Pack up Your tears, and Move on.....

sad to say, MOST WONT LISTEN.....
Most dont want to hear what you say....
They despise you for Your efforts,
and think Your weakdoh

so repeat, repeat, repeat, repeat,

THEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!professor

Start making Better Choices before you get involved with them

Take some time, Learn who they are...

see if You can Agree....

Two cant walk togather, lest They Be Agreed....

If they agree....

One must Lead... In saying this the other Must follow!

for one to Follow, They must be Submissive... Willing....and KNOW they made a good choice in that partner...

Submission is the key to lasting love, Both submitting...

It is to learn a Humbled attitude.....

Problem here , Is Most WONT SUBMIT.....Sad but true

so They are hard, will not Give, or be flexable,

Then The Divorice...

crying

Unless BOTH, LEARN to be Submissive,

You shouldnt even be Looking For Lasting Love....

Because How can you move CONCRETE, it is LOCKED, and SET...
No Give.......No Flexability, No Chance!

It has taken My whole life to see this clearly....

Take some time to ponder on this... If You seek True Love!
Hotrod


Love isnt what you say, Its what you do!uh oh
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Oct 23, 2010 4:52 PM CST when the love is gone...
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Because you asked!
When a Person is Truehearted, and Gives their all to help the Relationship, and the other ignores your Desire learn and grow togather..... In Love.....So When They REFUSE, to Learn and Grow Togather....

Pack up Your tears, and Move on.....

sad to say, MOST WONT LISTEN.....
Most dont want to hear what you say....
They despise you for Your efforts,
and think Your weak

so repeat, repeat, repeat, repeat,

THEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Start making Better Choices before you get involved with them

Take some time, Learn who they are...

see if You can Agree....

Two cant walk togather, lest They Be Agreed....

If they agree....

One must Lead... In saying this the other Must follow!

for one to Follow, They must be Submissive... Willing....and KNOW they made a good choice in that partner...

Submission is the key to lasting love, Both submitting...

It is to learn a Humbled attitude.....

Problem here , Is Most WONT SUBMIT.....Sad but true

so They are hard, will not Give, or be flexable,

Then The Divorice...



Unless BOTH, LEARN to be Submissive,

You shouldnt even be Looking For Lasting Love....

Because How can you move CONCRETE, it is LOCKED, and SET...
No Give.......No Flexability, No Chance!

It has taken My whole life to see this clearly....

Take some time to ponder on this... If You seek True Love!
HotrodLove isnt what you say, Its what you do!


Larry...Marry me...sad flower If u love me...with this 's enough...sad flower
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Oct 23, 2010 4:54 PM CST when the love is gone...
MetalgirlPlush
MetalgirlPlushMetalgirlPlushSan Francisco, California USA15 Threads 875 Posts
nice_and_easy: how bout fixing things to be better next time???
Once its broken its broken theres no fixing lol
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Oct 23, 2010 5:48 PM CST when the love is gone...
afterbam: Larry...Marry me... If u love me...with this 's enough...


I didnt know this statement would lead to being Proposed to::blushing:
In Front of God and Everybodywow

Maybe You Should get to know me Better First????hmmm



Just a thought....wink

Tho I am Humbled, by Your Response.....flirty innocent



sigh
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