How Many Tears Have You Shed ( Archived) (121)

Yer im a classic cry baby.

I've cried an ocean for myself and others. Must be soft that way.

no problem at all. you like them small and furry

i dont cry no more it been 8 year's am ready to be in relationship but wont settle for less. want the right one.

These are my favourite parts of this bit of writing

Maybe God intended for us to meet a few wrong people before we meet the right one so that when we finally meet that person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back. Don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't be content it grew in yours.

Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Dont' go for wealth even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

May you have enough trials to make you strong, enough happiness to make you sweet, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.

Always put yourself in other shoes, if you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Hapiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

Sometimes things happen to you and they may seem horrible, painful and unfair. But in reflection, you realize that witout overcoming those obstacles you will never have realized your potential, strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, great loss, and sheer stupidity, occur to test the limits of your soul

A safe and comfortable but dull ife does not give you anything. Your experiences create who you are. You can learn a lot from them.

If someone hurt or betrays, or break your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not because they love you but because they teach you to love and open your heart and eyes to thing you would have never seen or felt before.

Make everyday count, appreciate every moment and take them from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Tell yourself that you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't, no one else will believe in you.

You can make of your life anything you wish, create your own life, and then go out and live it.

No one is perfect in this world.

I'm not that sure about, but I think most women are working differently

no, hold on, just want to talk about myself...

the tears I lost, were running within my marriage or relationship
so only when they already ran dry, I did the final step to break up the relationship

the tears I lost were never seen of them, as they just closed their eyes of it, maybe they thought, that they have me anyway and I wont leave anyway
and for sure, I'm not the one who does not talk about, what does lie on my heart, what hurts me, whatever...

but always, I had the feeling, I was just talking against a wall
my worries, my words were never heard

so it was a process while I've been in a relationship, until I left
and actually was quite surprised, that the men seemed to fall out of the blue when I really did leave

why didn't they ever care about before, before, when I was still fighting for the relationship

afterwards it was too late for me for to go back

as I just know, if I would (could) go back, it would just be the same as before again

when I got divorced, 6 years ago now, I spent myself a holiday over to Ireland and did a deal with my lawyer, that I have not to be present at the court
I got a text message of here, that it was done, when I was sitting in a pub in Dublin, enjoying a Guinness on my own
...I staight ordered a next and was just happy, that it was over, finally

I know, that might sounds quite cold
but actually, so often I felt much lonelier and lost within a relationship, than I ever felt when I was really lonely

if I'm missing someone? maybe
but then, I just switch to use my reason and know, there is no reason forto feel lonely sometimes when you really are is okay to me
but to feel lonely when you shouldn't do, it just hurts too much