How Many Tears Have You Shed ( Archived) (121)

Oct 14, 2010 8:20 PM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
jaguardancer
jaguardancerjaguardancerSan Ignacio, Cayo Belize32 Threads 2 Polls 490 Posts
When my love decided she no longer wanted to share her life with me I have to admit I was set back for quite sometime and yes even shed some tears. Well I shed more than some. I was wondering just how long other people shed their tears. I was not one to sing thank God and greyhound she's gone. I really missed her. crying
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Oct 14, 2010 8:24 PM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
jaguardancer: When my love decided she no longer wanted to share her life with me I have to admit I was set back for quite sometime and yes even shed some tears. Well I shed more than some. I was wondering just how long other people shed their tears. I was not one to sing thank God and greyhound she's gone. I really missed her.


Like you, with my first divorce, I lost count of the tears.

With the second divorce, there were tears, but didn't seem to be as many.

Makes me wonder if it gets fewer, and fewer...the more we experience it over and over...

-John-
cheers
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Oct 14, 2010 8:27 PM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
jaguardancer
jaguardancerjaguardancerSan Ignacio, Cayo Belize32 Threads 2 Polls 490 Posts
TheresMyFriend: Like you, with my first divorce, I lost count of the tears.

With the second divorce, there were tears, but didn't seem to be as many.

Makes me wonder if it gets fewer, and fewer...the more we experience it over and over...

-John-
Well my Friend I was maried 25 the first time 20 the second time and I do not feel I shall go that route again The tears fell longer the second time. There will be no thirds.
crying
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Oct 14, 2010 8:34 PM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
jaguardancer: Well my Friend I was maried 25 the first time 20 the second time and I do not feel I shall go that route again The tears fell longer the second time. There will be no thirds.


I guess that's where the difference comes in at, with people.

I'm looking for my 3rd...and hope that there is something to the saying: "3rd time is a charm"!

I used to have the same way of thinking after my 1st, as you do now.

But, I was able to convince myself, that life goes on, the world still turns, the sun continues to rise in the morning.

So, who was I to forgo a possible happiness with that special someone.

I figure with what time I have left...it just might be the best 10-20 years I'll ever have.

Good luck in your decision, and wish you the best of happiness as well.

cheers
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Oct 15, 2010 12:32 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
LILLYLADY
LILLYLADYLILLYLADYunknown, Ohio USA27 Threads 1,293 Posts
I was only married for 3 yrs but cried with my divorce. Cried out of anger for being taken advantage of as a fool. I went into marriage blind as I was naive enough to think that it was true love. Well maybe love from my end giving it but not receiving it in return.

No way will I even venture into it for a second time. It is better to be a lover in love and be faithful to each other. But you don't need the wedding to have the best years of your life ahead of you with a special person. Unless of course you both feel the same way.

Guess I'm afraid that once they marry you, they will change. I want the honeymoon to last forever so I don't want to get married and have anything ruined again. If they stray, I will not cry.

In my case...once stung....twice afraid. I won't travel down that road again.sad flower
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Oct 15, 2010 12:42 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
yalda66
yalda66yalda66shiraz, Iran1 Threads 17 Posts
i have no experience on these things cause i m only 23 years old but i can just say it makes me sad just by reading it..

its so hard to spends alife with someone and shared everything and then just try to forget about it..

my father and my mother divorced when i was nine and my mother lives in england since then,i know they both had a difficult time and as well we had..

but now everything is ok..so i think u shoul go for it again and enjoy ur life.
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Oct 15, 2010 12:56 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
oftentimes i cry for the silliest things ....blues
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Oct 15, 2010 1:07 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
In My Lifetime, about 55 Gallons....



About half of that in Relationships....sad flower


Stand Tall....


Have Faith, have Hope.....


Thats the Best I can Offer...comforthandshake
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Oct 15, 2010 1:11 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
ballerina9
ballerina9ballerina9belfast, Antrim Ireland1,404 Posts
plainlyjune: oftentimes i cry for the silliest things ....
i cried when my hamster died blues



uh oh
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Oct 15, 2010 1:12 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
ballerina9: i cried when my hamster died
oh shoot... blues
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Oct 15, 2010 1:13 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
plainlyjune: oftentimes i cry for the silliest things ....


Glad I'm not the only sniveller - I'm easily moved to tears. My daughter laughs at me when we watch films together, the meany.

Jac xxx wave
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Oct 15, 2010 1:14 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
ballerina9: i cried when my hamster died


Been there, done that, all the neighbours saw me when I buried it.

doh

Jac xxx
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Oct 15, 2010 1:14 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
jac379: Glad I'm not the only sniveller - I'm easily moved to tears. My daughter laughs at me when we watch films together, the meany.

Jac xxx
i hear ya... i cried in schindler's list uh oh




and spiderman.....blues
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Oct 15, 2010 1:25 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
ballerina9
ballerina9ballerina9belfast, Antrim Ireland1,404 Posts
jac379: Been there, done that, all the neighbours saw me when I buried it.
Jac xxx
mine too....they came to the funeral lol... two of mine now have fully tiled graves side by side with little headstones in my garden doh


they died of old age.....and were spoiled rotten there whole lives....i miss themblues


i got the two youngest ones still....but theyr over two years old now......uh oh
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Oct 15, 2010 1:27 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
ballerina9
ballerina9ballerina9belfast, Antrim Ireland1,404 Posts
plainlyjune: oh shoot...
i have a hamster obssesion help


uh oh laugh
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Oct 15, 2010 1:40 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
ballerina9: ok so just trust you to lower the tone
im selling your vids on ebay right now pimpmaster


Just make sure there's a check in the mail with my cut writing smoking
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Oct 15, 2010 1:43 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
OdieEido
OdieEidoOdieEidoAuckland, New Zealand11 Posts
This was cleared up in 1966.

It's 96 tears.

Cry Cry Cry now crying
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Oct 15, 2010 2:48 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
jaguardancer: When my love decided she no longer wanted to share her life with me I have to admit I was set back for quite sometime and yes even shed some tears. Well I shed more than some. I was wondering just how long other people shed their tears. I was not one to sing thank God and greyhound she's gone. I really missed her.
I've been going through it for 10 months going on 11 but I wasnt married to him..Was just off and on seeing each other for 2 years. It takes time to heal..Would be great if they had a pill to take for heartache..lol.. how long have you two been broke up?
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Oct 15, 2010 3:11 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
I always cry at the X Factor when i see the sheer delight on the faces of the folks that get fab comments from the judges...crying

Over the past 10 years i have done a power of crying,now ive built a dam..grin
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Oct 15, 2010 3:52 AM CST How Many Tears Have You Shed
ballerina9
ballerina9ballerina9belfast, Antrim Ireland1,404 Posts
Desertguy49: No more ice cream for you...
I buy the ice cream NOW flex


tongue
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