When my love decided she no longer wanted to share her life with me I have to admit I was set back for quite sometime and yes even shed some tears. Well I shed more than some. I was wondering just how long other people shed their tears. I was not one to sing thank God and greyhound she's gone. I really missed her.
jaguardancer: When my love decided she no longer wanted to share her life with me I have to admit I was set back for quite sometime and yes even shed some tears. Well I shed more than some. I was wondering just how long other people shed their tears. I was not one to sing thank God and greyhound she's gone. I really missed her.
Like you, with my first divorce, I lost count of the tears.
With the second divorce, there were tears, but didn't seem to be as many.
Makes me wonder if it gets fewer, and fewer...the more we experience it over and over...
TheresMyFriend: Like you, with my first divorce, I lost count of the tears.
With the second divorce, there were tears, but didn't seem to be as many.
Makes me wonder if it gets fewer, and fewer...the more we experience it over and over...
-John-
Well my Friend I was maried 25 the first time 20 the second time and I do not feel I shall go that route again The tears fell longer the second time. There will be no thirds.
jaguardancer: Well my Friend I was maried 25 the first time 20 the second time and I do not feel I shall go that route again The tears fell longer the second time. There will be no thirds.
I guess that's where the difference comes in at, with people.
I'm looking for my 3rd...and hope that there is something to the saying: "3rd time is a charm"!
I used to have the same way of thinking after my 1st, as you do now.
But, I was able to convince myself, that life goes on, the world still turns, the sun continues to rise in the morning.
So, who was I to forgo a possible happiness with that special someone.
I figure with what time I have left...it just might be the best 10-20 years I'll ever have.
Good luck in your decision, and wish you the best of happiness as well.
I was only married for 3 yrs but cried with my divorce. Cried out of anger for being taken advantage of as a fool. I went into marriage blind as I was naive enough to think that it was true love. Well maybe love from my end giving it but not receiving it in return.
No way will I even venture into it for a second time. It is better to be a lover in love and be faithful to each other. But you don't need the wedding to have the best years of your life ahead of you with a special person. Unless of course you both feel the same way.
Guess I'm afraid that once they marry you, they will change. I want the honeymoon to last forever so I don't want to get married and have anything ruined again. If they stray, I will not cry.
In my case...once stung....twice afraid. I won't travel down that road again.
jaguardancer: When my love decided she no longer wanted to share her life with me I have to admit I was set back for quite sometime and yes even shed some tears. Well I shed more than some. I was wondering just how long other people shed their tears. I was not one to sing thank God and greyhound she's gone. I really missed her.
I've been going through it for 10 months going on 11 but I wasnt married to him..Was just off and on seeing each other for 2 years. It takes time to heal..Would be great if they had a pill to take for heartache..lol.. how long have you two been broke up?
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