Is frightening, because you don't know about the behaviour of the person. But the physics is something not important at all. However you feel terrified. I talk from experience. Each time was terrified and each time it finished great for me.
Once the person was late. And it finished very well, so. This is just without importance. Feeling created through mailing is the most important. If you already have the feeling, the rest is just some hours of getting familiar.
skippyguy: Would for instance if say...a guy arrived a little on the late side, would it completely, mess up the whole date in your view, of course im presuming this is not a blind-date but someone u have known for well a short time..??
skippyguy: Ok, im quite curious as to the views on this, perhaps it's my way of trying to percieve the female phyche, Who knows..lolbut Ladies in going into a date, do u have pre-conceived views, as to what u look for ...a list if u will..?, or is it all very off the cuff, and go with the flow..?, Would for instance if say...a guy arrived a little on the late side, would it completely, mess up the whole date in your view, of course im presuming this is not a blind-date but someone u have known for well a short time..??
I would go into a date with an open mind but if the guy can make me laugh its a bonus .. I would also make a person feel like they have known me for years with a continuous flowing conversation about anything but our past !! ( if the guy likes to talk thats a huge plus )
If the date is late i usually wait 15 mins ( meaning if he hasn't contacted me via text etc then i simply leave ..)
But if i did get i am sorry i am going to be late text ... then i would wait say up to half an hour and then leave if he doesn't arrive .
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
skippyguy: Ok, im quite curious as to the views on this, perhaps it's my way of trying to percieve the female phyche, Who knows..lolbut Ladies in going into a date, do u have pre-conceived views, as to what u look for ...a list if u will..?, or is it all very off the cuff, and go with the flow..?, Would for instance if say...a guy arrived a little on the late side, would it completely, mess up the whole date in your view, of course im presuming this is not a blind-date but someone u have known for well a short time..??
Late?? not a good start id say but always give the benefit of doubt, could be a traffic issue?? . But second date late a no no. I make an effort, am a punctual person so expect him to be. I dont ever have pre conceived ideas, just go with the flow, if the flow dont work for me nothing lost.
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Is frightening, because you don't know about the behaviour of the person.
But the physics is something not important at all. However you feel terrified. I talk from experience.
Each time was terrified and each time it finished great for me.
Once the person was late. And it finished very well, so.
This is just without importance. Feeling created through mailing is the most important. If you already have the feeling, the rest is just some hours of getting familiar.