ladies help (21)
trouble1belfast, Antrim Ireland18 Threads 4 Polls 827 Postshello everyone, i got this girl i wanna mail on a dif site, ok but in the past with all the mails i sent i got very little replys! i need to ask for your help, what do ye like hearing for a first msg! im a nice bloke but words arnt my speciality. (hi i seen your profile and think your cute, etc, etc, doesnt seam to work) ladies help me 
First what does her profile say?
trouble1: hello everyone, i got this girl i wanna mail on a dif site, ok but in the past with all the mails i sent i got very little replys! i need to ask for your help, what do ye like hearing for a first msg! im a nice bloke but words arnt my speciality. (hi i seen your profile and think your cute, etc, etc, doesnt seam to work) ladies help me
mails that usually keep me interested are funny/cheeky ones that make me laugh out loud...
trouble1: hello everyone, i got this girl i wanna mail on a dif site, ok but in the past with all the mails i sent i got very little replys! i need to ask for your help, what do ye like hearing for a first msg! im a nice bloke but words arnt my speciality. (hi i seen your profile and think your cute, etc, etc, doesnt seam to work) ladies help me
study her profile, pick something that stands out to you and sent her a witty or even slightly cheeky mail, she should respond to that I know I would
sugar77: mails that usually keep me interested are funny/cheeky ones that make me laugh out loud...
great minds and all that
trouble1: hello everyone, i got this girl i wanna mail on a dif site, ok but in the past with all the mails i sent i got very little replys! i need to ask for your help, what do ye like hearing for a first msg! im a nice bloke but words arnt my speciality. (hi i seen your profile and think your cute, etc, etc, doesnt seam to work) ladies help me
ask her something about her profile. i know i like it if someone mentions something in my profile cos i know then that they read my profile. mention something about her interests if there is any that ye have in common.
hope that helps a bit
Primula: study her profile, pick something that stands out to you and sent her a witty or even slightly cheeky mail, she should respond to that I know I would
ya thats what i was thinkin
trouble1: hello everyone, i got this girl i wanna mail on a dif site, ok but in the past with all the mails i sent i got very little replys! i need to ask for your help, what do ye like hearing for a first msg! im a nice bloke but words arnt my speciality. (hi i seen your profile and think your cute, etc, etc, doesnt seam to work) ladies help me
Know yer a nice bloke ...... make sure that you include stuff that shows you have read the profile and that you're interested in stuff she's interested in?????
Primula: great minds and all that
flick1980: ask her something about her profile. i know i like it if someone mentions something in my profile cos i know then that they read my profile. mention something about her interests if there is any that ye have in common.
hope that helps a bit
hope that helps a bit
good stuff
thanks everyone!!!!
JustLittleMe: First what does her profile say?
im going to check that out now! hahaha
thanks libra
Primula: study her profile, pick something that stands out to you and sent her a witty or even slightly cheeky mail, she should respond to that I know I would
Send something short but that shows that you have taken the
time to read her profile and the time to think up a reply and that would be fairly unique to her profile - so it doesn't sound like a standard line.
First make sure you are what she is looking for ie in the age group she specified, smoker or non-smoker, in a realistic traveling distance etc. No matter how clever, nice or witty your first message is if you don't fit what she want in a boyfriend you won't get anywhere. This may sound very obvious but you wouldn't believe the amount of guys who don't read profiles or totally disregard what you have stated you want or don't want. The 62 year old, divorced French auld fella who contacted me certainly didn't fit the 30-40, never married, non-smoking, no kids man I hope to meet!
After that I suppose just refer to her hobbies etc showing you have read her profile and think you might have something in common etc. Just keep it light as well.
After that I suppose just refer to her hobbies etc showing you have read her profile and think you might have something in common etc. Just keep it light as well.
jeez great at dishing out advixe but not taking our own
good luck Trouble
good luck Trouble
inprint: First make sure you are what she is looking for ie in the age group she specified, smoker or non-smoker, in a realistic traveling distance etc. No matter how clever, nice or witty your first message is if you don't fit what she want in a boyfriend you won't get anywhere. This may sound very obvious but you wouldn't believe the amount of guys who don't read profiles or totally disregard what you have stated you want or don't want. The 62 year old, divorced French auld fella who contacted me certainly didn't fit the 30-40, never married, non-smoking, no kids man I hope to meet!
After that I suppose just refer to her hobbies etc showing you have read her profile and think you might have something in common etc. Just keep it light as well.
After that I suppose just refer to her hobbies etc showing you have read her profile and think you might have something in common etc. Just keep it light as well.
Fair point! He was French after all!
Thanks everyone for your help, ill keep ye posted
trouble1: Thanks everyone for your help, ill keep ye posted
well how did you get on with your mail...
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