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BentalAttard, Majjistral Malta2 Threads 574 PostsSorry Tulefel but I don't get it. Did I write something wrong?
I was contacted by a woman supposedly living in France. Very keen. In fact was living with a man in the UK. Seeems he had bailed her out financially from France but she was fed up with the domestic routines. Wanted another man to reverse the move.
Any woman willing to use men like that should be avoided.
As to your friend let him meet her then see what happens! Though I think the EX bf needs to be an EX before she moves on.
Any woman willing to use men like that should be avoided.
As to your friend let him meet her then see what happens! Though I think the EX bf needs to be an EX before she moves on.
Bental: Sorry Tulefel but I don't get it. Did I write something wrong?
No, you as right as it’s possible to be. I just was trying to joke, and as usual it didn’t work.
I’ve seen posts here saying “I can’t be bother to explain what I meant…” It’s not me. I cán indeed be bothered to explain…
Some words in your post caught my eye, and I reacted. If you read James Elroy you’d understand the joke (I thought he’s popular writher, I’s wrong). It looks like you haven’t read him, hence my joke fell flat. In the future I promise not to react on your post here. Peace?
Of course that it is Peace!
Just because I am not conversant with James "what's his name", doesn't mean that you are wrong.
I welcome everyone's reaction to my post, especially you.
Just because I am not conversant with James "what's his name", doesn't mean that you are wrong.
I welcome everyone's reaction to my post, especially you.
maybe she wants someone's affection? maybe your friend does too ..
carenza: I would feel the same as you do Jo.
if my friend was dear to me, I would do anything to protect him of her from harm.
I find it strange that this woman is willing to come over to see him a man she doesn't really know, and stay for a week and already have the plan to live with him. I see it as an opportunity for her to start a new life easy. the fact that they really don't match in real life, is very present and that would worry me.
problem is, any many have said it already, it's not really your problem because it's your friends life and he has to decide what to do.
but at the same time, i think it wouldn't hurt to tell him what you think about all this and then let go.
the only thing you can do is to remain stand by and let things between them happen. when time comes, and your friend needs a friend because he is hurt, you are there for him
succes Jo!
Thanx for Your reply I guess it has a lot to do with the fact that i have been taken for a ride many times my self and I am a bit tainted when it comes to trusting others. I guess my friend is a lot special to me and I just would not like to see him hurt again as he is just getting over a previous relationship with a woman that used him in a big and bad way. I think the advice on here is right and I should just let him find out for himself.if my friend was dear to me, I would do anything to protect him of her from harm.
I find it strange that this woman is willing to come over to see him a man she doesn't really know, and stay for a week and already have the plan to live with him. I see it as an opportunity for her to start a new life easy. the fact that they really don't match in real life, is very present and that would worry me.
problem is, any many have said it already, it's not really your problem because it's your friends life and he has to decide what to do.
but at the same time, i think it wouldn't hurt to tell him what you think about all this and then let go.
the only thing you can do is to remain stand by and let things between them happen. when time comes, and your friend needs a friend because he is hurt, you are there for him
succes Jo!
If she already had her own place, would she still be interested? Or would she look closer to home for a new love interest. Maybe she prefers the area he lives in. He should suss her out and ask her to move nearer to him. He himself may be in rebound mode and is seeking a diversion/solace. If it goes ahead, I suggest he check out the legal ramifications of a live-in situation beforehand, particularly when it involves somebody he doesn't know.
mzetoile: If she already had her own place, would she still be interested? Or would she look closer to home for a new love interest. Maybe she prefers the area he lives in. He should suss her out and ask her to move nearer to him. He himself may be in rebound mode and is seeking a diversion/solace. If it goes ahead, I suggest he check out the legal ramifications of a live-in situation beforehand, particularly when it involves somebody he doesn't know.
So in the end it worked out as i thought.He was just about to go and fetch her all the way to the north of Spain with her cat's and all had to hire a car as she does not own one. She said she is looking for work on the coast. Well he had a change of mind deceided not to go...............Guess what no contact from her now and she used to call a few times a day.............?????????????????josingleinspain: So in the end it worked out as i thought.He was just about to go and fetch her all the way to the north of Spain with her cat's and all had to hire a car as she does not own one. She said she is looking for work on the coast. Well he had a change of mind deceided not to go...............Guess what no contact from her now and she used to call a few times a day.............?????????????????
Relax Jo.
Maybe it was like you thought (not knew), maybe not.
In any case, if the guy cannot think for himself, then he is going to depend on others to do it for him: and that's bad.
Just please don't say I told you so.
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