Would u stop logging in to CS when u meet sum1? (40)
sammy7776Ballina, Donegal Ireland6 Threads 56 PostsOr would u continue to log in? One of the problems with meeting sum1 online compared to meeting sum1 in a niteclub is that there is more insecurity. If u meet sum1 but they continue to log in to CS does that mean that they aren't that interested in u and are still looking for sum1 else?
sammy7776: Or would u continue to log in? One of the problems with meeting sum1 online compared to meeting sum1 in a niteclub is that there is more insecurity. If u meet sum1 but they continue to log in to CS does that mean that they aren't that interested in u and are still looking for sum1 else?
Do you mean meet a few times and agree that you are only seeing each other?
skyblue43: Do you mean meet a few times and agree that you are only seeing each other?
Met up 2 weekends so it's early days
sammy7776: Met up 2 weekends so it's early days
Very early...I suppose it makes a difference if they are regular posters here and have made friends....if not there is no real reason to be logging in if you're giving it your best shot.. JMO
skyblue43: Very early...I suppose it makes a difference if they are regular posters here and have made friends....if not there is no real reason to be logging in if you're giving it your best shot.. JMO
Yeah I kinda think the same. Thanks!
let him see u flirting madly with a person here. if he is for real he'll get jealous.if he doesn't, dump him. hehe
cutiepie89: let him see u flirting madly with a person here. if he is for real he'll get jealous.if he doesn't, dump him. hehe
skyblue43: Very early...I suppose it makes a difference if they are regular posters here and have made friends....if not there is no real reason to be logging in if you're giving it your best shot.. JMO
There are lots of couples on here that just pop in for the forums and the banter.
cutiepie89: let him see u flirting madly with a person here. if he is for real he'll get jealous.if he doesn't, dump him. hehe
Or he could think shes not serious about him or think shes got a few on the go and dump her anyways. Best talk about it upfront and go from there
ladylumps: Or he could think shes not serious about him or think shes got a few on the go and dump her anyways. Best talk about it upfront and go from there
If they are both as insecure as that well I think they are on the rocky road anyway...
skyblue43: If they are both as insecure as that well I think they are on the rocky road anyway...
especially if they have to resort to playing games personnally I become very obsessive and have tendency to be insecure, never was good at sharing my toys so I say you should log out and see what he does (then you sneak back in, new profile)
You can then keep an eye on him without him knowing with your knew profile make a pass at him and see if he bites if so yeh know he is not totally and utterly committed and in love with you, where you are his everything, and the only thing on his mind 24/7, not alot to ask I feel anyway. Also stalking him is a good idea that way you get to see what he is doing when off line 
I have a spare mac if you need one.
If any potential dates are reading, off course I would never dream off doing any off the above.
Oh take your time, keep options open and let things progress naturally.
You can then keep an eye on him without him knowing
with your knew profile make a pass at him and see if he bites if so yeh know he is not totally and utterly committed and in love with you, where you are his everything, and the only thing on his mind 24/7, not alot to ask I feel anyway. Also stalking him is a good idea that way you get to see what he is doing when off line I have a spare mac if you need one. If any potential dates are reading, off course I would never dream off doing any off the above.
Oh take your time, keep options open and let things progress naturally.
In the mad scenario that folks here do get it together and become a couple, I reckon most would still come here for the banter and the social side of things as they've met friends here or at the meets. You might not see them here as often but they'd still come for the craic - I would! 
You might be jumping the gun a little too early, but in saying that, until you've had another couple of dates, you'll know for sure what his intentions are.
Hopefully, it turns into a happy ending, just give it a little while longer
You might be jumping the gun a little too early, but in saying that, until you've had another couple of dates, you'll know for sure what his intentions are.
Hopefully, it turns into a happy ending, just give it a little while longer
wittyone: I say you should log out and see what he does (then you sneak back in, new profile)
You can then keep an eye on him without him knowing with your knew profile make a pass at him and see if he bites if so yeh know he is not totally and utterly committed and in love with you, where you are his everything,
You can then keep an eye on him without him knowing with your knew profile make a pass at him and see if he bites if so yeh know he is not totally and utterly committed and in love with you, where you are his everything,
The wily ways of women wittyone: personnally I become very obsessive and have tendency to be insecure, never was good at sharing my toys so I say you should log out and see what he does (then you sneak back in, new profile)
You can then keep an eye on him without him knowing with your knew profile make a pass at him and see if he bites if so yeh know he is not totally and utterly committed and in love with you, where you are his everything, and the only thing on his mind 24/7, not alot to ask I feel anyway. Also stalking him is a good idea that way you get to see what he is doing when off line I have a spare mac if you need one.
If any potential dates are reading, off course I would never dream off doing any off the above.
Oh take your time, keep options open and let things progress naturally.
You can then keep an eye on him without him knowing with your knew profile make a pass at him and see if he bites if so yeh know he is not totally and utterly committed and in love with you, where you are his everything, and the only thing on his mind 24/7, not alot to ask I feel anyway. Also stalking him is a good idea that way you get to see what he is doing when off line I have a spare mac if you need one.
If any potential dates are reading, off course I would never dream off doing any off the above.
Oh take your time, keep options open and let things progress naturally.
I think getting a new profile is far too extreme! As is the stalking! Not really in2 the whole keep ur options open thing.
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