why is it so difficult to find something when your looking yet when your not looking it hits you when your off guard? I would love to find a great guy-for some reason when I am prepared to make changes I find nobody..but when I am not ready and have put my head in the clouds-BOOM! somebody comes along that I like and enjoy spending time with but when it starts getting serious I get nervous and don't know if thats what i want anymore so I distance myself until he's out of site...so once again I am alone. Do all women/men do this? Shy away when the big thing comes around-or am I just indecisive?
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