crazyblondeone: Just be careful and don't read too much into someone online until you meet him. He can be a multi-tasker and have a few ladies he is having an online relationship with. Just don't fall for him UNTIL you meet him in person.
I agree with that, and then It takes time even after you do meet them For their true colors to come out...
crazyblondeone: Just be careful and don't read too much into someone online until you meet him. He can be a multi-tasker and have a few ladies he is having an online relationship with. Just don't fall for him UNTIL you meet him in person.
invinciblemuse: Well, if someone says to me, before he knows anything about me, that I'm exactly what he's looking for, my alarm bells go off. It's just not realistic to claim that straight away.
I'm also cautious when I get tons of superficial compliments - it costs a guy nothing to say things that please a girl. It's far more complicated actually form a meaningful connection with her. JMO.
You can usually tell when a person is insincere, "over the top" complements, talking about a future together when you havent even met.
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