If your "date" showed up and he/she was nothing like their picture/profile...would you continue with the evening? Would you be inclined to give them an opportunity to explain the "differences"?
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
wikked: If your "date" showed up and he/she was nothing like their picture/profile...would you continue with the evening? Would you be inclined to give them an opportunity to explain the "differences"?
It has happened to me,more then once.I now just meet for coffee or tea so i can make a quick departure if their not who they say they are. If they don't love their self enough to be truthful about their looks,how can they love someone else. A lie is a lie,no matter how you try to wrap it up!
demonfairy: It has happened to me,more then once.I now just meet for coffee or tea so i can make a quick departure if their not who they say they are. If they don't love their self enough to be truthful about their looks,how can they love someone else. A lie is a lie,no matter how you try to wrap it up!
If you are staying for the coffee, is there any discussion about the fact that they are not who you think they are? Do you give them a chance to explain why?
wikked: If you are staying for the coffee, is there any discussion about the fact that they are not who you think they are? Do you give them a chance to explain why?
Of course,but i do it in a nice way.Some people still see their selfs in the mirror as they were 20 years ago.They can not except the fact that we all are getting older and change,nothing or no one stays the same. One has put a up to date photo on his profile now,and i am glad.The other two have not!
demonfairy: Of course,but i do it in a nice way.Some people still see their selfs in the mirror as they were 20 years ago.They can not except the fact that we all are getting older and change,nothing or no one stays the same. One has put a up to date photo on his profile now,and i am glad.The other two have not!
But did things work out with any of the guys that misrepresented themselves?
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines8,175 posts
invinciblemuse: Wifey has some unexpected skills...
my cousin does something like put his hand in his armpits and squeeze and farting sound ensues.
hmmm.. i think i'll just make the date more interesting, like telling each other weird skills and talents and have fun while it lasts... (about 15 mins should be enough)
wikked: If your "date" showed up and he/she was nothing like their picture/profile...would you continue with the evening? Would you be inclined to give them an opportunity to explain the "differences"?
How would you handle this situation?
I had two dates where the camera had been more than kind to they guys. Well, I'm not too hung up on looks, so I had a pleasant time, and was fed and watered well for free. No problem.
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How would you handle this situation?