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Dec 1, 2010 8:34 AM CST Not Even Close!!
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
If your "date" showed up and he/she was nothing like their picture/profile...would you continue with the evening? Would you be inclined to give them an opportunity to explain the "differences"?

How would you handle this situation?uh oh wow sigh
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Dec 1, 2010 8:37 AM CST Not Even Close!!
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
wikked: If your "date" showed up and he/she was nothing like their picture/profile...would you continue with the evening? Would you be inclined to give them an opportunity to explain the "differences"?

How would you handle this situation?


Ask them "Who are you?"wink
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Dec 1, 2010 8:38 AM CST Not Even Close!!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
It has happened to me,more then once.I now just meet for coffee or tea so i can make a quick departure if their not who they say they are.
If they don't love their self enough to be truthful about their looks,how can they love someone else.
A lie is a lie,no matter how you try to wrap it up!wave
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Dec 1, 2010 8:41 AM CST Not Even Close!!
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
I'm me, I'm me....laugh
Hi DF....wave hug
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Dec 1, 2010 8:43 AM CST Not Even Close!!
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
demonfairy: It has happened to me,more then once.I now just meet for coffee or tea so i can make a quick departure if their not who they say they are.
If they don't love their self enough to be truthful about their looks,how can they love someone else.
A lie is a lie,no matter how you try to wrap it up!


If you are staying for the coffee, is there any discussion about the fact that they are not who you think they are? Do you give them a chance to explain why?
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Dec 1, 2010 8:45 AM CST Not Even Close!!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
Desertguy49: I'm me, I'm me....
Hi DF....
laugh Hi cutie,good to see you.i am glad you are you!grin Hope all is well in your end of the world.hug wave
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Dec 1, 2010 8:46 AM CST Not Even Close!!
pierrot_le_fou
pierrot_le_foupierrot_le_fouRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia8 Threads 1 Polls 582 Posts
I'd tell her that I have HIV and I'm impotent uh oh
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Dec 1, 2010 8:47 AM CST Not Even Close!!
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
pierrot_le_fou: I'd tell her that I have HIV and I'm impotent


What if she looks better than expected?? tongue
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Dec 1, 2010 8:48 AM CST Not Even Close!!
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
wikked: Do you call them out on the lie...before you run?



Nope cant be bothered, dont need the complications and by lying hes already told me all I need to know dunno
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Dec 1, 2010 8:48 AM CST Not Even Close!!
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
pierrot_le_fou: I'd tell her that I have HIV and I'm impotent


Would your lie be any better/worse than her?dunno

(I'm assuming of course that that statement about you is not true?)
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Dec 1, 2010 8:48 AM CST Not Even Close!!
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
fart on commanduh oh
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Dec 1, 2010 8:49 AM CST Not Even Close!!
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
invinciblemuse: What if she looks better than expected??


Was wondering if anyone would consider that turn of eventhandshake
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Dec 1, 2010 8:49 AM CST Not Even Close!!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
wikked: If you are staying for the coffee, is there any discussion about the fact that they are not who you think they are? Do you give them a chance to explain why?

Of course,but i do it in a nice way.Some people still see their selfs in the mirror as they were 20 years ago.They can not except the fact that we all are getting older and change,nothing or no one stays the same.
One has put a up to date photo on his profile now,and i am glad.The other two have not!wave
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Dec 1, 2010 8:50 AM CST Not Even Close!!
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
plainlyjune: fart on command


uh oh hole super rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 1, 2010 8:50 AM CST Not Even Close!!
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
plainlyjune: fart on command


wow Wifey has some unexpected skills... super
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Dec 1, 2010 8:51 AM CST Not Even Close!!
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
demonfairy: Of course,but i do it in a nice way.Some people still see their selfs in the mirror as they were 20 years ago.They can not except the fact that we all are getting older and change,nothing or no one stays the same.
One has put a up to date photo on his profile now,and i am glad.The other two have not!



But did things work out with any of the guys that misrepresented themselves? dunno
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Dec 1, 2010 8:52 AM CST Not Even Close!!
pierrot_le_fou
pierrot_le_foupierrot_le_fouRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia8 Threads 1 Polls 582 Posts
wikked: Would your lie be any better/worse than her?

(I'm assuming of course that that statement about you is not true?)

oh c'mon... HIV and impotence... how probable is that? doh
I'm just checking to see if she's a dumb liar, or a smart liar liar grin
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Dec 1, 2010 8:52 AM CST Not Even Close!!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
venusenvy: But did things work out with any of the guys that misrepresented themselves?

I had no further contact with them,a lie is a lie,like you said.
Very nice to have you back my friend...hug teddybear wave
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Dec 1, 2010 8:53 AM CST Not Even Close!!
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
invinciblemuse: Wifey has some unexpected skills...
laugh laugh my cousin does something like put his hand in his armpits and squeeze and farting sound ensues.


hmmm.. i think i'll just make the date more interesting, like telling each other weird skills and talents and have fun while it lasts... (about 15 mins should be enough)applause
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Dec 1, 2010 8:56 AM CST Not Even Close!!
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
wikked: If your "date" showed up and he/she was nothing like their picture/profile...would you continue with the evening? Would you be inclined to give them an opportunity to explain the "differences"?

How would you handle this situation?


I had two dates where the camera had been more than kind to they guys. Well, I'm not too hung up on looks, so I had a pleasant time, and was fed and watered well for free. No problem. dunno
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