first move- who should make it (29)

love is a game so start playing its your move or is it who should make the first move male or female

In the real world I never make the first move, I suppose I'm a bit old fashioned. However it is much easier to make the first move, as a woman, online, its all somehow a little less personal.

if you cant see the person its easier to make the right moves but face to face i think the man should ask for the first date.

Hmm, thats pure upbringing I think...for me a man has to be able to read my eyes and do the first move...after all he is the hunter from nature... saying that I do have friends that do the first move and men seam to like that...
Whats wrong and whats right? none of them...it goes down always to how you feel best with your self!!
Eleni

It never a challenge , not that am an expert yet ,, I sometimes believe that people do connect (if I may say) in an out of human way ,,
I am not sure if you people have heard about this young woman (it’s a true story by the way I think sometime in the late 80’s) ,, I think she was from Texas and the guy was from either South Carolina or North Carolina ,, I don’t remember their names yet he was an artist who just painted a certain picture of a female that he never seen her in his life .. he wasn’t making any money so he was living with his mother and he was an organs donor .. and the female was a gorgeous blind young lady that was in an urgent need of a specific organ in her brain ,, out of the blue moon the young man goes out and he gets hit by a car and dies and he was the perfect match for required organ for the young female ,, so she get the surgery and she surprises the doctor that she got her sight (which the doctor were not working on) .. so after a while she decides to visit the mother of the artist who passed away and gave her the organ and when she goes there the mother recognize her for the painting that her son was doing ,, he never painting anything but this young woman ,, I saw the painting and a lot of people could say that artist can paint something that looks like all women ,, but this one was like a photo ,,

So back to my point there is a way that people connect and perceive the need for a move and trust if any of the doesn’t approve of any move the other partner will just know it from the get go..

Elia

it depends on the prsonality of each one. I prefer women to make their first move sa i am shy! Make me feel more comfortable.

It's nice that a man make the first move.
But if i see that nothing is moving i don't mind to make the move.

stupid men like me who afraid rejections, cant make a move easily...they need a prosperous ground to actually make their move first...sadly someone like me can miss plenty of chances...