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Dec 14, 2010 5:54 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Life situations are difer day from day. Sometimes there is an annoing or just plain stupid person cross our life. Or sometimes there is a wish for something we really want but can't have and so on.

So my questions are Can you control yourself from harsh words, anger? For how long? Is to be an angry worth it?

In one word, What are your thoughts about anger?


Speak when you are angry and you will make
the best speech you will ever regret.
Ambrose Bierce

conversing
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Dec 14, 2010 5:55 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Konigsberg: Life situations are difer day from day. Sometimes there is an annoing or just plain stupid person cross our life. Or sometimes there is a wish for something we really want but can't have and so on.

So my questions are Can you control yourself from harsh words, anger? For how long? Is to be an angry worth it?

In one word, What are your thoughts about anger?Speak when you are angry and you will make
the best speech you will ever regret. Ambrose Bierce









How much it TAKES to stay patient sorry typo! doh
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Dec 14, 2010 5:58 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
pierrot_le_fou
pierrot_le_foupierrot_le_fouRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia8 Threads 1 Polls 582 Posts
Konigsberg: How much it TAKES to stay patient sorry typo!

Up to 10 cool

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Dec 14, 2010 6:00 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
I failed quite miserably in one instance to control my anger this very evening, but I also went back to resolve the issue. So, all is good, and that's what counts. devil angel
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Dec 14, 2010 6:01 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Konigsberg: How much it TAKES to stay patient sorry typo!


I´m a patient person, I have to be otherwise I couldn´t do the job of teaching. Of course I get angry sometimes, but I tend to bottle it inside rather than scream or shout.

If I were to have a hissy fit, in work for example, my colleagues would be absolutely gobsmacked. laugh
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Dec 14, 2010 6:01 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
counting backwards from works for me
10... gaaaahhhh
9.... nnyyaaaargghh
8... grrrrrr
7... hummmmmmmm
6... sigh
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Dec 14, 2010 6:03 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
JAN_is: I´m a patient person, I have to be otherwise I couldn´t do the job of teaching. Of course I get angry sometimes, but I tend to bottle it inside rather than scream or shout.

If I were to have a hissy fit, in work for example, my colleagues would be absolutely gobsmacked.


I should have added that I never ever get angry with students. I meant that I do feel angry at times in other situations.
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Dec 14, 2010 6:04 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I find it hard to control my temper because I was told it's not good to hold your anger in.I just let it go and then I feel much better.
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Dec 14, 2010 6:04 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
pierrot_le_fou
pierrot_le_foupierrot_le_fouRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia8 Threads 1 Polls 582 Posts
invinciblemuse: I failed quite miserably in one instance to control my anger this very evening, but I also went back to resolve the issue. So, all is good, and that's what counts.

Wish I were there to see it... laugh laugh
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Dec 14, 2010 6:05 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
pierrot_le_fou: Up to 10

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2...

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It is a looong counting professor laugh
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Dec 14, 2010 6:07 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
invinciblemuse: I failed quite miserably in one instance to control my anger this very evening, but I also went back to resolve the issue. So, all is good, and that's what counts.


So you have guts to admit you were wrong ( in being angry)?

Not many is cappable of it. thumbs up
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Dec 14, 2010 6:07 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
pierrot_le_fou: Wish I were there to see it...


Dammit - I thought you were fast asleep already! hole tongue
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Dec 14, 2010 6:12 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
Konigsberg: So you have guts to admit you were wrong ( in being angry)?

Not many is cappable of it.


Yeah, silly stuff should never get in the way of a good friendship.bouquet
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Dec 14, 2010 6:13 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Justmyself0069
Justmyself0069Justmyself0069Stanwood, Washington USA2 Threads 99 Posts
Anger isseus are why I chose not to start drinking.... I may be a scrooge but I do my best to keep calm. I would rather be known for being disagreeable, but not an inpaitent a**hole. It takes me a hole lot to bring me to anger. so I guess I do okay. but some people make it so hard.
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Dec 14, 2010 6:14 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
JAN_is: I´m a patient person, I have to be otherwise I couldn´t do the job of teaching. Of course I get angry sometimes, but I tend to bottle it inside rather than scream or shout.

If I were to have a hissy fit, in work for example, my colleagues would be absolutely gobsmacked.


You are like my mom, Jan! I have never seen her angry. Can you imagine this. Even when my father .... oh well it is a family stuff laugh

I think it doesn't do good to us to keep anger or frustaration inside .... it ruins something in a brain ( not sure what some research needs to be done)professor


When I feel that I need to ventilate my feelings ... I go somewere, in a places with no people and talk to myself uh oh

As for you never get angry with your students. Maaan! You need a medal or you are just a very professional teacher


Kudos to youhug
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Dec 14, 2010 6:15 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
I dont do the angry bit.Cant see the point,it is only yourself that suffers.I just deal with the issue in a controlled way.bouquet
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Dec 14, 2010 6:17 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Justmyself0069: Anger isseus are why I chose not to start drinking.... I may be a scrooge but I do my best to keep calm. I would rather be known for being disagreeable, but not an inpaitent a**hole. It takes me a hole lot to bring me to anger. so I guess I do okay. but some people make it so hard.


I think an a**hole is a key word. Those who get angry lose a battle. Which makes them a**hole wave
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Dec 14, 2010 6:17 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
time4fun4u: I dont do the angry bit.Cant see the point,it is only yourself that suffers.I just deal with the issue in a controlled way.


Controled? How? conversing
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Dec 14, 2010 6:20 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Konigsberg: Controled? How?
I dont let any emotions interfere with my decisions or actions,and therefor whatever i do is done in a calculated way.bouquet
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Dec 14, 2010 6:21 PM CST ~How much it taks to stay patient? ~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
invinciblemuse: Yeah, silly stuff should never get in the way of a good friendship.


I wish I had a friend who if I ever will get angry I could tell anything I feel at that moment .... and he or she would just sit back and listen and never get pissed at me. And after we will have a cup of tea with pastries. Is it a fantasy? conversing
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