Irish women... (126)
larsvegas: Ok, I'm a bit confused . I moved to Ireland 4 months ago and I have made the following experience a number of times since I'm here:
Meeting a woman who seems really interested (for a date or in a club). Then all of the sudden they turn around and take another guy (in a club) or they write me a message that they are now dating someone else (when dating).
Now if I wouldn't have had reasonable success with finding girlfriends outside of Ireland (from various countries) I would start to think that something is wrong with me. But this has only happened to me in Ireland with Irish women (and on numerous occasions)... My last experiance was meeting a girl for a date after which we both thought it was really great. We chatted quite often on MSn and she constantly told me how much she looks forward to seeing me again (which was supposed to be this Friday). She still told me that yesterday. Now I got a message saying 'sorry i found someone else'. Now this kind of thing can happen but since I'm in Ireland it happend all the time! What is that?!
Is there any secret I don't know about?!
Meeting a woman who seems really interested (for a date or in a club). Then all of the sudden they turn around and take another guy (in a club) or they write me a message that they are now dating someone else (when dating).
Now if I wouldn't have had reasonable success with finding girlfriends outside of Ireland (from various countries) I would start to think that something is wrong with me. But this has only happened to me in Ireland with Irish women (and on numerous occasions)... My last experiance was meeting a girl for a date after which we both thought it was really great. We chatted quite often on MSn and she constantly told me how much she looks forward to seeing me again (which was supposed to be this Friday). She still told me that yesterday. Now I got a message saying 'sorry i found someone else'. Now this kind of thing can happen but since I'm in Ireland it happend all the time! What is that?!
Is there any secret I don't know about?!
were you ever online on dating sites before you came to ireland????????????
yes. in sweden it is quite common. but this doesn't only happen on online dating sites...
larsvegas: Ok, I'm a bit confused . I moved to Ireland 4 months ago and I have made the following experience a number of times since I'm here:
Meeting a woman who seems really interested (for a date or in a club). Then all of the sudden they turn around and take another guy (in a club) or they write me a message that they are now dating someone else (when dating).
Now if I wouldn't have had reasonable success with finding girlfriends outside of Ireland (from various countries) I would start to think that something is wrong with me. But this has only happened to me in Ireland with Irish women (and on numerous occasions)... My last experiance was meeting a girl for a date after which we both thought it was really great. We chatted quite often on MSn and she constantly told me how much she looks forward to seeing me again (which was supposed to be this Friday). She still told me that yesterday. Now I got a message saying 'sorry i found someone else'. Now this kind of thing can happen but since I'm in Ireland it happend all the time! What is that?!
Is there any secret I don't know about?!
Meeting a woman who seems really interested (for a date or in a club). Then all of the sudden they turn around and take another guy (in a club) or they write me a message that they are now dating someone else (when dating).
Now if I wouldn't have had reasonable success with finding girlfriends outside of Ireland (from various countries) I would start to think that something is wrong with me. But this has only happened to me in Ireland with Irish women (and on numerous occasions)... My last experiance was meeting a girl for a date after which we both thought it was really great. We chatted quite often on MSn and she constantly told me how much she looks forward to seeing me again (which was supposed to be this Friday). She still told me that yesterday. Now I got a message saying 'sorry i found someone else'. Now this kind of thing can happen but since I'm in Ireland it happend all the time! What is that?!
Is there any secret I don't know about?!
Steer clear of the clubs
larsvegas: yes. in sweden it is quite common. but this doesn't only happen on online dating sites...
yer in a pub/club and the girl yer with goes off with another guy???????
im intrigued
how often does this happen??????????
Have all your experience been with girls from online or girls that you have met in person too?
larsvegas: yes. in sweden it is quite common. but this doesn't only happen on online dating sites...
i think you will find that type anywwhere, maybe you are just going for the wrong type of woman, it's best to let them know early on what you expectAadheen: Have all your experience been with girls from online or girls that you have met in person too?
both online and in person... maybe i have just been unlucky...
blipper2000: yer in a pub/club and the girl yer with goes off with another guy???????
im intrigued
how often does this happen??????????
im intrigued
how often does this happen??????????
this has happened twice in a club. although i have to say that they were a bit drunk.
I don't mean to say anything unfriendly but this last message has really disappointed me because we really got along well. And I was really sure she thought the same.
larsvegas: both online and in person... maybe i have just been unlucky...
Well, in relation to online, it seems often people chat to a few to keep their options open. I think it also depends on what you have been talking about/looking for. As for clubs, well..often girls are just out to have fun and there is a lot of drink involved. Looks like you are going for the wrong type of girl.
larsvegas: this has happened twice in a club. although i have to say that they were a bit drunk.
I don't mean to say anything unfriendly but this last message has really disappointed me because we really got along well. And I was really sure she thought the same.
it just something that happens, its happened to me and its happened to loads of others here and will happen again. sometimes you just get a run of bad luck when it comes to dating i guess I don't mean to say anything unfriendly but this last message has really disappointed me because we really got along well. And I was really sure she thought the same.
larsvegas: this has happened twice in a club. although i have to say that they were a bit drunk.
I don't mean to say anything unfriendly but this last message has really disappointed me because we really got along well. And I was really sure she thought the same.
I don't mean to say anything unfriendly but this last message has really disappointed me because we really got along well. And I was really sure she thought the same.
I'm no expert whenit comes to women but as a non Irishman I have noticed something similar.
I'll be plodding along with a new aquaintance and we seem to get on, to understand each other and to enjoy each others company. I would even say we have emotional intimacy.
Then as soon as I express an interest in romance, I'm met with a cold shoulder and avoided like the plague!
I've sort of come to terms that for me, an Irish woman is just not really an option. They don't think the way other women think!
larsvegas: this has happened twice in a club. although i have to say that they were a bit drunk.
I don't mean to say anything unfriendly but this last message has really disappointed me because we really got along well. And I was really sure she thought the same.
I don't mean to say anything unfriendly but this last message has really disappointed me because we really got along well. And I was really sure she thought the same.
ive never had that happen to me
ya must be goin for the wrong type
thats brutal man
the cultural barrier could be a problem
irish women are mad my furry friend and have no shame these days
im not bein derogative im just sayin
times have changed in ireland datin wise
irish guys have gotten away with havin no shame for years so its only right women should have the right to be the same
jayses i hope that comes across diplomaticaly
but its true
20 years ago it was frowned upon if a girl drank a pint or even got drunk
now noone cares so women have defenetly changed
the bottom line is irish girls are stone mad which ois not neccesarily a bad thing
its just i think you comin from a different culture might be a problem for you
do you get me
blipper2000: ive never had that happen to me
ya must be goin for the wrong type
thats brutal man
the cultural barrier could be a problem
irish women are mad my furry friend and have no shame these days
im not bein derogative im just sayin
times have changed in ireland datin wise
irish guys have gotten away with havin no shame for years so its only right women should have the right to be the same
jayses i hope that comes across diplomaticaly
but its true
20 years ago it was frowned upon if a girl drank a pint or even got drunk
now noone cares so women have defenetly changed
the bottom line is irish girls are stone mad which ois not neccesarily a bad thing
its just i think you comin from a different culture might be a problem for you
do you get me
ya must be goin for the wrong type
thats brutal man
the cultural barrier could be a problem
irish women are mad my furry friend and have no shame these days
im not bein derogative im just sayin
times have changed in ireland datin wise
irish guys have gotten away with havin no shame for years so its only right women should have the right to be the same
jayses i hope that comes across diplomaticaly
but its true
20 years ago it was frowned upon if a girl drank a pint or even got drunk
now noone cares so women have defenetly changed
the bottom line is irish girls are stone mad which ois not neccesarily a bad thing
its just i think you comin from a different culture might be a problem for you
do you get me
You could have a point there. I'm half German and been in Germany quite a bit and have to say, there's a massive cultural difference. The whole dating thing is so different to here, don't know if a German guy would survive here, he'd get eaten alive
Godsgift: I'm no expert whenit comes to women but as a non Irishman I have noticed something similar.
I'll be plodding along with a new aquaintance and we seem to get on, to understand each other and to enjoy each others company. I would even say we have emotional intimacy.
Then as soon as I express an interest in romance, I'm met with a cold shoulder and avoided like the plague!
I've sort of come to terms that for me, an Irish woman is just not really an option. They don't think the way other women think!
hmmmm .... nd i thought it was just me that had that prob I'll be plodding along with a new aquaintance and we seem to get on, to understand each other and to enjoy each others company. I would even say we have emotional intimacy.
Then as soon as I express an interest in romance, I'm met with a cold shoulder and avoided like the plague!
I've sort of come to terms that for me, an Irish woman is just not really an option. They don't think the way other women think!
Aadheen: You could have a point there. I'm half German and been in Germany quite a bit and have to say, there's a massive cultural difference. The whole dating thing is so different to here, don't know if a German guy would survive here, he'd get eaten alive
well i'm dutch originaly, but there aint no gals eatin me 
blipper2000: ive never had that happen to me
ya must be goin for the wrong type
thats brutal man
the cultural barrier could be a problem
irish women are mad my furry friend and have no shame these days
im not bein derogative im just sayin
times have changed in ireland datin wise
irish guys have gotten away with havin no shame for years so its only right women should have the right to be the same
jayses i hope that comes across diplomaticaly
but its true
20 years ago it was frowned upon if a girl drank a pint or even got drunk
now noone cares so women have defenetly changed
the bottom line is irish girls are stone mad which ois not neccesarily a bad thing
its just i think you comin from a different culture might be a problem for you
do you get me
ya must be goin for the wrong type
thats brutal man
the cultural barrier could be a problem
irish women are mad my furry friend and have no shame these days
im not bein derogative im just sayin
times have changed in ireland datin wise
irish guys have gotten away with havin no shame for years so its only right women should have the right to be the same
jayses i hope that comes across diplomaticaly
but its true
20 years ago it was frowned upon if a girl drank a pint or even got drunk
now noone cares so women have defenetly changed
the bottom line is irish girls are stone mad which ois not neccesarily a bad thing
its just i think you comin from a different culture might be a problem for you
do you get me
yeah i get you... but i have met women from many countries but here things seem to be really different somehow. but yeah sometimes i feel like irish women are culturally more different from my own than say iranian, russian or american women (choose any country). it has been a rather confusing and sometimes painful experience.
Godsgift: I'm no expert whenit comes to women but as a non Irishman I have noticed something similar.
I'll be plodding along with a new aquaintance and we seem to get on, to understand each other and to enjoy each others company. I would even say we have emotional intimacy.
Then as soon as I express an interest in romance, I'm met with a cold shoulder and avoided like the plague!
I've sort of come to terms that for me, an Irish woman is just not really an option. They don't think the way other women think!
maybe you just got to be more blunt in how you approach it, when im dating i take it one at a time i expect whoever im dating to be the same i state it clearly that what they do is there own business but that if im just an option then remove me as an option because thats not how i do things I'll be plodding along with a new aquaintance and we seem to get on, to understand each other and to enjoy each others company. I would even say we have emotional intimacy.
Then as soon as I express an interest in romance, I'm met with a cold shoulder and avoided like the plague!
I've sort of come to terms that for me, an Irish woman is just not really an option. They don't think the way other women think!
Godsgift: I'm no expert whenit comes to women but as a non Irishman I have noticed something similar.
I'll be plodding along with a new aquaintance and we seem to get on, to understand each other and to enjoy each others company. I would even say we have emotional intimacy.
Then as soon as I express an interest in romance, I'm met with a cold shoulder and avoided like the plague!
I've sort of come to terms that for me, an Irish woman is just not really an option. They don't think the way other women think!
I'll be plodding along with a new aquaintance and we seem to get on, to understand each other and to enjoy each others company. I would even say we have emotional intimacy.
Then as soon as I express an interest in romance, I'm met with a cold shoulder and avoided like the plague!
I've sort of come to terms that for me, an Irish woman is just not really an option. They don't think the way other women think!
yeah i almost came to the same conclusion. the last one i met really gave me hope but that didn't last very long.
Aadheen: You could have a point there. I'm half German and been in Germany quite a bit and have to say, there's a massive cultural difference. The whole dating thing is so different to here, don't know if a German guy would survive here, he'd get eaten alive
what do you mean by that 'eaten alive'? i don't even know how dating in germany is, haven't lived there for 20 years. but what are the differences in your opinion? my past experiences have always confirmed my belief that people are people no matter where they are from but since i'm in ireland im not so sure anymore :).
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Meeting a woman who seems really interested (for a date or in a club). Then all of the sudden they turn around and take another guy (in a club) or they write me a message that they are now dating someone else (when dating).
Now if I wouldn't have had reasonable success with finding girlfriends outside of Ireland (from various countries) I would start to think that something is wrong with me. But this has only happened to me in Ireland with Irish women (and on numerous occasions)... My last experiance was meeting a girl for a date after which we both thought it was really great. We chatted quite often on MSn and she constantly told me how much she looks forward to seeing me again (which was supposed to be this Friday). She still told me that yesterday. Now I got a message saying 'sorry i found someone else'. Now this kind of thing can happen but since I'm in Ireland it happend all the time! What is that?!
Is there any secret I don't know about?!