Many Ended Relationships (132)
In response to: So As every Past Relationship that we have been in has Ended with some kind of an Ending
What Have "YOU" Changed about YOU, to Hope for a Final Sucessful advantage in Your Favor?
Or Have you Changed anything?
I always believe that we think we are in a relationship, it would be better to have a one night with that person everydayWhat Have "YOU" Changed about YOU, to Hope for a Final Sucessful advantage in Your Favor?
Or Have you Changed anything?
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langleygirl: Lol ... you are such a rebel and you are WRONG!! Actually I see both your sides, and that is the point as well, is that there can possibly be more than one viewpoint. As well, you never stated that it was all relationships that ended in this way, but merely the last one so I'm taking an educated guess that you have certainly learned and grown from each experience.
bah, i could never argue w/ Langley
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viva007: I always believe that we think we are in a relationship, it would be better to have a one night with that person everyday
I think in part, that's very true.
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JSuburbia: bah, i could never argue w/ Langley
You may want to rethink that statement - seems there are a few that don't understand me lately! Come on - put up your dooks (sp) OMG - I can't even spell it! 
We could kiss and make up later! 
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It's Been 3yrs. now and im starting my life over and All you wonderful people on CS have help a lot by showing me I can still Laugh.
Thank you all.
Thank you all.
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jac379: I think in part, that's very true.
everyday start as a new one(stranger) with that person and try to know about her/him more and more 
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viva007: I always believe that we think we are in a relationship, it would be better to have a one night with that person everyday
Is that kinda like that movie "50 First Dates"?------ This thread is Archived ------
langleygirl: True, and its all about choices and perspective. Remind me not to look in your closet!
Ya dont open the door, you never know what might fall out,,
Actualy you have seen enought of my posts here you probably know about some of my skeletons, but the growing continues.
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JSuburbia: Because yeah, god forbid anyone NOT agree with you
seems about 3 people answered the thread question, in 4 pages, and a majority of the rest, just wasnt to say
they have nothing to change, and only come to turn an innocent thread question into a Zoo...
Maybe read the Question again....
Gotta go People, Have places to be...
I am not here to Criticise anyone, only showing that we, our choice, words, and actions, all play a part of the outcome of a relationship...and if we dont make some changes to ourselves, we are only hurting the Next Relationships before they ever start..
Thank You Lonelywoman for answering the Question...
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langleygirl: You may want to rethink that statement - seems there are a few that don't understand me lately! Come on - put up your dooks (sp) OMG - I can't even spell it! We could kiss and make up later!
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langleygirl: You may want to rethink that statement - seems there are a few that don't understand me lately! Come on - put up your dooks (sp) OMG - I can't even spell it! We could kiss and make up later!
If that is a guaranteed result of us arguing....I say we pick religion & politics as a subject
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langleygirl: Is that kinda like that movie "50 First Dates"?
in that case I think everyday we can even can divorse------ This thread is Archived ------
HotrodLarrys: seems about 3 people answered the thread question, in 4 pages, and a majority of the rest, just wasnt to say
they have nothing to change, and only come to turn an innocent thread question into a Zoo...
Maybe read the Question again....
Gotta go People, Have places to be...
I am not here to Criticise anyone, only showing that we, our choice, words, and actions, all play a part of the outcome of a relationship...and if we dont make some changes to ourselves, we are only hurting the Next Relationships before they ever start..Thank You Lonelywoman for answering the Question...
they have nothing to change, and only come to turn an innocent thread question into a Zoo...
Maybe read the Question again....
Gotta go People, Have places to be...
I am not here to Criticise anyone, only showing that we, our choice, words, and actions, all play a part of the outcome of a relationship...and if we dont make some changes to ourselves, we are only hurting the Next Relationships before they ever start..Thank You Lonelywoman for answering the Question...
Oddly 3 people agree with what I said
Just drop it Larry we aren't going to agree on it and at this point you're just getting childish about it to be quite honest by keeping the ball rolling.
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langleygirl: Is that kinda like that movie "50 First Dates"?
I love that movie, I work with people with tramatic brain injuries and that movie is right on the money, we even have a 10 second tom in our facility. On the bright side all I need is 3 good jokes and I can keep them laughing for hours.
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HotrodLarrys: seems about 3 people answered the thread question, in 4 pages, and a majority of the rest, just wasnt to say
they have nothing to change, and only come to turn an innocent thread question into a Zoo...
Maybe read the Question again....
Gotta go People, Have places to be...
I am not here to Criticise anyone, only showing that we, our choice, words, and actions, all play a part of the outcome of a relationship...and if we dont make some changes to ourselves, we are only hurting the Next Relationships before they ever start..Thank You Lonelywoman for answering the Question...
they have nothing to change, and only come to turn an innocent thread question into a Zoo...
Maybe read the Question again....
Gotta go People, Have places to be...
I am not here to Criticise anyone, only showing that we, our choice, words, and actions, all play a part of the outcome of a relationship...and if we dont make some changes to ourselves, we are only hurting the Next Relationships before they ever start..Thank You Lonelywoman for answering the Question...
Its a good one ,we all need to learn as we go along.
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JSuburbia: If that is a guaranteed result of us arguing....I say we pick religion & politics as a subject
Oh my now that would get things exciting.
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StressFree: Nobody should change anything about themselves to be "accepted" by anyone in the future. You are what you are, so be wise when choosing a partner who gives you the liberty to be you.
On the other hand, if one has immature, rude and destructive habits to oneself and to his/her's surrounding environment, then sure, change that asap---but not for anybody, but for oneself.
The trick is to find somebody who will accept you for who you are---with all the good and bad that is included in your package. You should not be a concept or an idea to anyone, and you should not compromise who you are in order to be something you are not so you can have a successful relationship. The society of projection haha.
Also, when looking for a cat, get a cat---not a bird
On the other hand, if one has immature, rude and destructive habits to oneself and to his/her's surrounding environment, then sure, change that asap---but not for anybody, but for oneself.
The trick is to find somebody who will accept you for who you are---with all the good and bad that is included in your package. You should not be a concept or an idea to anyone, and you should not compromise who you are in order to be something you are not so you can have a successful relationship. The society of projection haha.
Also, when looking for a cat, get a cat---not a bird
..... Right on Bro ....
But people can and do change, I've experienced this and then I've felt deceived in some way by it. I don't think any deception was intentional or planned on their part, it just emerged. Should I have bent and changed my principles in order to save the relationships ? No, I can't do that, what they had become I had no attraction to.
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scoutmaster: I love that movie, I work with people with tramatic brain injuries and that movie is right on the money, we even have a 10 second tom in our facility. On the bright side all I need is 3 good jokes and I can keep them laughing for hours.
yes that's a very good movie with which I started becoming a fan of Drew Barrymoore
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HotrodLarrys: seems about 3 people answered the thread question, in 4 pages, and a majority of the rest, just wasnt to say
they have nothing to change, and only come to turn an innocent thread question into a Zoo...
Maybe read the Question again....
Gotta go People, Have places to be...
I am not here to Criticise anyone, only showing that we, our choice, words, and actions, all play a part of the outcome of a relationship...and if we dont make some changes to ourselves, we are only hurting the Next Relationships before they ever start..Thank You Lonelywoman for answering the Question...
People did answer your question, maybe not in the manner in which you deem appropriate, but you can get a gist of where they are coming from and I'd hazard to say that most have done some self-discovery and changes. they have nothing to change, and only come to turn an innocent thread question into a Zoo...
Maybe read the Question again....
Gotta go People, Have places to be...
I am not here to Criticise anyone, only showing that we, our choice, words, and actions, all play a part of the outcome of a relationship...and if we dont make some changes to ourselves, we are only hurting the Next Relationships before they ever start..Thank You Lonelywoman for answering the Question...
Personally I don't need to rehash on a forum what changes I've made and truly how is that relevant? That type of discussion, if I ever do have it, would be private.
One change, I will say, is that I've learned to speak my mind more and not hold things in. Sometimes people may not like, disagree or whatnot, but its important for me to find my voice instead of stuffing everything inside. Some days I'm better at it then others and some days I need to learn to be quiet.
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Personaly I admit I have a few skeletons but for the most part I have learned, grown and moving forward.