Many Ended Relationships (132)
HotrodLarrys: So As every Past Relationship that we have been in has Ended with some kind of an Ending
What Have "YOU" Changed about YOU, to Hope for a Final Sucessful advantage in Your Favor?
Or Have you Changed anything?
What Have "YOU" Changed about YOU, to Hope for a Final Sucessful advantage in Your Favor?
Or Have you Changed anything?
Nothing, no need to.
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Veritaas: Nothing, no need to.
Agreed. Actually I got a lot smarter.
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Veritaas: Nothing, no need to.
I feel we all have room to grow, and we all made mistakes along the way, so sometimes Soulsearching does good for us, as we all fall far short of Perfect...
I just feel it a Growing Process, No Mater what our age, their is much to learn about ourselves, and past experiences, and the Mistakes we all have made along the way.
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I think really, I just grew as I went. 
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Veritaas: Nothing, no need to.
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HotrodLarrys: I feel we all have room to grow, and we all made mistakes along the way, so sometimes Soulsearching does good for us, as we all fall far short of Perfect...
I just feel it a Growing Process, No Mater what our age, their is much to learn about ourselves, and past experiences, and the Mistakes we all have made along the way.
I just feel it a Growing Process, No Mater what our age, their is much to learn about ourselves, and past experiences, and the Mistakes we all have made along the way.
Just because a relationship ended, doesn't mean there is something we could have done more to salvage it or that it was our fault. If it wasn't our fault and there was nothing I could do to salvage it, I don't quite see how soulsearching would have done anything.
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I don't wish to look back at past relationships cause they happend and nothing I can do to fix them.
I care more about the present.
Nothing I wish to change.
I care more about the present.
Nothing I wish to change.
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JSuburbia: Just because a relationship ended, doesn't mean there is something we could have done more to salvage it or that it was our fault. If it wasn't our fault and there was nothing I could do to salvage it, I don't quite see how soulsearching would have done anything.
I guess my point is any relationship
takes two, and both Contribute to the outcome,
many times their is nothing we can do to change it,
tho their is not any such thing as one was TOTALLY PERFECT, and the other was 100% of the blaim, Maybe 90%, maybe 70 %,
and 80% may have been US, for making a bad choice from the start, just wanted to see how many truely acknowledge that we all play a role here...
Many of Mine were from MY BAD CHOICES!!!
So are you saying that you were 100% Right, and they were 100% wrong?
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HotrodLarrys: I guess my point is any relationship
takes two, and both Contribute to the outcome,
many times their is nothing we can do to change it,
tho their is not any such thing as one was TOTALLY PERFECT, and the other was 100% of the blaim, Maybe 90%, maybe 70 %,
and 80% may have been US, for making a bad choice from the start, just wanted to see how many truely acknowledge that we all play a role here...
Many of Mine were from MY BAD CHOICES!!!
So are you saying that you were 100% Right, and they were 100% wrong?
takes two, and both Contribute to the outcome,
many times their is nothing we can do to change it,
tho their is not any such thing as one was TOTALLY PERFECT, and the other was 100% of the blaim, Maybe 90%, maybe 70 %,
and 80% may have been US, for making a bad choice from the start, just wanted to see how many truely acknowledge that we all play a role here...
Many of Mine were from MY BAD CHOICES!!!
So are you saying that you were 100% Right, and they were 100% wrong?
As far as my last relationship? Yes, I was 100% right. It wasn't me that was sleeping around
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HotrodLarrys: So As every Past Relationship that we have been in has Ended with some kind of an Ending
What Have "YOU" Changed about YOU, to Hope for a Final Sucessful advantage in Your Favor?
Or Have you Changed anything?
What Have "YOU" Changed about YOU, to Hope for a Final Sucessful advantage in Your Favor?
Or Have you Changed anything?
I have completely changed my expectations and my choicing skills have vastly improved...I don't go for a certain "type" any longer..
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HotrodLarrys: I guess my point is any relationship
takes two, and both Contribute to the outcome,
many times their is nothing we can do to change it,
tho their is not any such thing as one was TOTALLY PERFECT, and the other was 100% of the blaim, Maybe 90%, maybe 70 %,
and 80% may have been US, for making a bad choice from the start, just wanted to see how many truely acknowledge that we all play a role here...
Many of Mine were from MY BAD CHOICES!!!
So are you saying that you were 100% Right, and they were 100% wrong?
takes two, and both Contribute to the outcome,
many times their is nothing we can do to change it,
tho their is not any such thing as one was TOTALLY PERFECT, and the other was 100% of the blaim, Maybe 90%, maybe 70 %,
and 80% may have been US, for making a bad choice from the start, just wanted to see how many truely acknowledge that we all play a role here...
Many of Mine were from MY BAD CHOICES!!!
So are you saying that you were 100% Right, and they were 100% wrong?
And that is the key Larry....Just because you may have made some bad choices in your previous relationship, doesn't mean that is fact for everyones. I don't have a problem with you owning up to your mistakes, but it's wrong to make out as if it is something that everyone casually has done. There are relationships where one person was 100% in the wrong, while the other was 100% in the right...Again just because this wasn't the case for you, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I'm not sure if you are looking for validation for the things you may have done, but by saying everyone has had a part in a relationship going bad is absolutely ludicrous, when again in fact, sometimes it's the fault of one person and one person alone.
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venusenvy: I think really, I just grew as I went.
Thats a Good answer...I think we all grow as we go,
tho we all have Charactor Defects, that WE cannot see,
Others can see, but not usually do we see inside of Ourselves...
We all tend to look OUTWARD, and allways see the Defects of everyone else, But not many look back the opposite way...
To Our Own Self..
Example, I pretended that I was a Neighbor of mine, looking at me from his eyes, and how he saw me, and only then could I see Flaws that I needed to fix within Myself...
this was years ago i did this...
Then I could see back INTO my life, and mistakes that I have also made along the way...
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JSuburbia: As far as my last relationship? Yes, I was 100% right. It wasn't me that was sleeping around
Me either Burby
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JSuburbia: As far as my last relationship? Yes, I was 100% right. It wasn't me that was sleeping around
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lilmamma71: I have completely changed my expectations and my choicing skills have vastly improved...I don't go for a certain "type" any longer..
And wheather you realise it or Not, It Shows, that you have gained a Level Of Maturity, that many will never find...
That a Big Cheers For You...I Respect your posts
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HotrodLarrys: Thats a Good answer...I think we all grow as we go,
tho we all have Charactor Defects, that WE cannot see,
Others can see, but not usually do we see inside of Ourselves...
We all tend to look OUTWARD, and allways see the Defects of everyone else, But not many look back the opposite way...To Our Own Self..
Example, I pretended that I was a Neighbor of mine, looking at me from his eyes, and how he saw me, and only then could I see Flaws that I needed to fix within Myself...
this was years ago i did this...
Then I could see back INTO my life, and mistakes that I have also made along the way...
tho we all have Charactor Defects, that WE cannot see,
Others can see, but not usually do we see inside of Ourselves...
We all tend to look OUTWARD, and allways see the Defects of everyone else, But not many look back the opposite way...To Our Own Self..
Example, I pretended that I was a Neighbor of mine, looking at me from his eyes, and how he saw me, and only then could I see Flaws that I needed to fix within Myself...
this was years ago i did this...
Then I could see back INTO my life, and mistakes that I have also made along the way...
You might, but I don't. I tend to see the good things in people first, and try to overlook all the "defects" as you put it, and do the same for myself as well.
I don't understand why some people seem to focus on the negatives in people, and in life, before the good things.
Nobody's perfect, and if that's what you're looking for, you'll always be unhappy.
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JSuburbia: As far as my last relationship? Yes, I was 100% right. It wasn't me that was sleeping around
I have never Slept arround either,
BUT
Maybe It was MY OWN FAULT, that I Chose that Person that DID...
I DID, play a part.....
I Made the BIG mistake...
By My Choices.
and sounds You and others did too...
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JSuburbia: As far as my last relationship? Yes, I was 100% right. It wasn't me that was sleeping around
I have never Slept arround either,
BUT
Maybe It was MY OWN FAULT, that I Chose that Person that DID...
I DID, play a part.....
I Made the BIG mistake...
By My Choices.
and sounds You and others did too...
so is it 100% THEIR fAULT ???????
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HotrodLarrys: I have never Slept arround either,
BUT
Maybe It was MY OWN FAULT, that I Chose that Person that DID...
I DID, play a part.....
I Made the BIG mistake...
By My Choices.
and sounds You and others did too... so is it 100% THEIR fAULT ???????
BUT
Maybe It was MY OWN FAULT, that I Chose that Person that DID...
I DID, play a part.....
I Made the BIG mistake...
By My Choices.
and sounds You and others did too... so is it 100% THEIR fAULT ???????
Wow sorry you're self esteem is so shot that you blame yourself for the shortcomings of others....
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What Have "YOU" Changed about YOU, to Hope for a Final Sucessful advantage in Your Favor?
Or Have you Changed anything?