why do people send messages (36)
sally101: and are then totally incapable of holding a 2 way conversation? Even allowing for predictive text and lack of punctuation - I am tired of sending replies only to get a one liner in return. So I try again and by the 3rd message I wonder why I'm bothering. You can't hold a conversation on your own - yet they expect a reply ...
but generally ignore any questions you might have asked.
Do they just want to see that little box go red?
but generally ignore any questions you might have asked.
Do they just want to see that little box go red?
What do you want to talk about Sally ? I will have a sensible conversation with you
sally101: and are then totally incapable of holding a 2 way conversation? Even allowing for predictive text and lack of punctuation - I am tired of sending replies only to get a one liner in return. So I try again and by the 3rd message I wonder why I'm bothering. You can't hold a conversation on your own - yet they expect a reply ...
but generally ignore any questions you might have asked.
Do they just want to see that little box go red?
but generally ignore any questions you might have asked.
Do they just want to see that little box go red?
my mails like this "Hi, How are you?"
from men. to lazy to write more 
more info please!!!
darren9030: What do you want to talk about Sally ? I will have a sensible conversation with you
Thanks hun but it's guys initiating conversations and then having nothing to say that I'm talking about ... but when I need an ear to chew I'll come looking for you ...
I don't feel so bad now about what i write ......sally101: Thanks hun but it's guys initiating conversations and then having nothing to say that I'm talking about ... but when I need an ear to chew I'll come looking for you ...
OK S - my above reply wasn't to this btw
Tell me about it, the women are the worst...have to drag everything out of 'em like getting blood from a stone so it 
In response to: and are then totally incapable of holding a 2 way conversation? Even allowing for predictive text and lack of punctuation - I am tired of sending replies only to get a one liner in return. So I try again and by the 3rd message I wonder why I'm bothering. You can't hold a conversation on your own - yet they expect a reply ...
but generally ignore any questions you might have asked.
Do they just want to see that little box go red?
but generally ignore any questions you might have asked.
Do they just want to see that little box go red?
hi how was your day???
what am i supposed to say..well i went to work and this boitch said this .
i came home and the water is gone again....then the kids started arguing about... sharina: hi how was your day??? what am i supposed to say..
well i went to work and this boitch said this . i came home and the water is gone again....then the kids started arguing about...
well i went to work and this boitch said this . i came home and the water is gone again....then the kids started arguing about...
I don't mind that as an opening msg as long as they talk after that. I reply to one guy and his next msg is "ah rite". Now that is blood from a stone
then the ones that i think i'm getting on well with suddenly start ignoring me!!!! i have never been dumped so many times in my life 
sally101: and are then totally incapable of holding a 2 way conversation? Even allowing for predictive text and lack of punctuation - I am tired of sending replies only to get a one liner in return. So I try again and by the 3rd message I wonder why I'm bothering. You can't hold a conversation on your own - yet they expect a reply ...
but generally ignore any questions you might have asked.
Do they just want to see that little box go red?
but generally ignore any questions you might have asked.
Do they just want to see that little box go red?
I just don't bother even starting to get into mailing over and back. If someone isn't going to make an effort, don't see why I should reply, just because they said, 'hi, how are you'. If I was to mail someone, I'd take time to think about what I'm mailing them, make it personal and give them something to go on.
so what do you all look for in a mail so
jimbo79: so what do you all look for in a mail so
well some inclination that they have at least spent a minute reading your profile....most profiles dont take that long to read..
at least they would know if you had kids or not ..what you worked at..hobbies... then start the conversation with some question about the above...
now dont go checking me out jimbo..
Ladies, ye gotta realise sending the initial mail is quite hard. There are fairly limited options such as
1. Something funny - potential of looking like a spa
2. Ask a question about their profile - boring and unimaginative
3. Something about themselves - arrogant and self centred
4. Something about the world/life - again, potential to look like a spa
5. Compliments - something a woman always loves but on a site like this, boring and unimaginative
So many guys settle with simple "hi, how are you" mails.
Personally I take the risk and go for one of the above depending on what sense I get from a girls profile.
In retrospect, I don't know if I have ever got a mail from a girl that hasn't been either "hi how are you" or "I really like your profile"
1. Something funny - potential of looking like a spa
2. Ask a question about their profile - boring and unimaginative
3. Something about themselves - arrogant and self centred
4. Something about the world/life - again, potential to look like a spa
5. Compliments - something a woman always loves but on a site like this, boring and unimaginative
So many guys settle with simple "hi, how are you" mails.
Personally I take the risk and go for one of the above depending on what sense I get from a girls profile.
In retrospect, I don't know if I have ever got a mail from a girl that hasn't been either "hi how are you" or "I really like your profile"
TwinkleStar_70: my mails like this "Hi, How are you?" from men. to lazy to write more more info please!!!
Well at least it's better than "How r u ?"
jimbo79: jees you have embarrassed me now
Name and shame...sugar77: He messaged back...
Can i at least clean your shoes then....
Can i at least clean your shoes then....
A for effortJohnnyT: A for effort
God loves a tryer...JohnnyT: Ladies, ye gotta realise sending the initial mail is quite hard. There are fairly limited options such as
1. Something funny - potential of looking like a spa
2. Ask a question about their profile - boring and unimaginative
3. Something about themselves - arrogant and self centred
4. Something about the world/life - again, potential to look like a spa
5. Compliments - something a woman always loves but on a site like this, boring and unimaginative
So many guys settle with simple "hi, how are you" mails.
Personally I take the risk and go for one of the above depending on what sense I get from a girls profile.
In retrospect, I don't know if I have ever got a mail from a girl that hasn't been either "hi how are you" or "I really like your profile"
1. Something funny - potential of looking like a spa
2. Ask a question about their profile - boring and unimaginative
3. Something about themselves - arrogant and self centred
4. Something about the world/life - again, potential to look like a spa
5. Compliments - something a woman always loves but on a site like this, boring and unimaginative
So many guys settle with simple "hi, how are you" mails.
Personally I take the risk and go for one of the above depending on what sense I get from a girls profile.
In retrospect, I don't know if I have ever got a mail from a girl that hasn't been either "hi how are you" or "I really like your profile"
I'll second that, the ladies are very unimaginative
Whattimeisit: I'll second that, the ladies are very unimaginative
Come on then, where are yas
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but generally ignore any questions you might have asked.
Do they just want to see that little box go red?