Does true love still exist on earth? (91)
StillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 PostsTrue love can exist if it exists in your heart
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maryrachelle: I can't tell you how many plants I have had in my life that no matter what you did and how well you took care of them,withered away and died.Working hard at something is no guarantee that you will succeed.
life has no guaranties, hell i was lucky to wake up today... it takes 2....
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maryrachelle: First of all there is no such thing as soul mates.Think of it this way if there were truly only one person for each of us and we found them,then six months into the relationship they get killed in a car crash,does that mean we have to go the rest of our lives without true love? No of course not.We can find love many times in our lives.We are not limited to one time and one person.
I completely dissagree. I believe we do have soul mates. In fact I believe we have more than one. A soul mate to me is someone who comes into our life that causes us to learn and grow. Someone who touches us on a soul level. I also believe in true love. I love my kids for example with the purest of true love. Can peeps feel that for one another? Of course they can. Look around you, there are examples everywhere. Miracles are small things that occur around us every day. Peeps miss them while waiting for them to appear in great flashing neon lights.
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i am not really a love-master. so i have no idea if true love really exists
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nanagibs: I keep asking myself if true love still exist because i believe in love only, I eat,pray and sleep in love but i am still yet to find my soulmate.
blessed may you be ...
can we talk about me now...
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maryrachelle: I can't tell you how many plants I have had in my life that no matter what you did and how well you took care of them,withered away and died.Working hard at something is no guarantee that you will succeed.
well, it is possible to over water too, sometimes too much is no good, but if your plants could/would talk to you and you would/could listen, then maybe they would still be with you ?
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oranges2apples: read all of my post... research, reciprocation, maintenance....
i know a lot of couples still together
you get out what you put in, but it takes 2 and a lot of patients and understanding... effort IMP
i know a lot of couples still together
you get out what you put in, but it takes 2 and a lot of patients and understanding... effort IMP
No thanks not interested in reading all of your post.I can't belive you would think that I would actually take the time to drudge through every single post you have ever made.My you think alot of yourself don't you.
I have a hard time believing that you know "alot" of couples still together who were each others first love at 15 or 16.That is very rare.The first time I fell in love I was 15.I adored him,but our relationship ended long ago.I see him around from time to time and no way would I want anything to do with him now.
Two people can work at something all they want it doesn't mean it will work.Life is change.
Based on where each of us is in our lives there is a group of people who we are compatible with.Not just one.
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mariespoodles: True love does exist...
it's everywhere the ego is not...
it is anywhere where fear does not rot ...
it is everywhere that the eye does not see...
it is there just for you and for me...
oh... I'm sorry
thought this was the poetry thread
nanagibs... look within... IMO and experience, I have observed that if you truly have an attitude of love inside, you will discover that a soul mate kinda love is only an extension of how you truly feel about yourself... LOVE reflects love and FEAR reflects fear...
if this sounds simple enough it's coz it is simple...
life is simple... it's us humans that make it complicated with our ego... just by thinking, feeling and acting through our ego, fear and doubt, we alter our inner peace and understanding of ourselves and others big time...
I have four rules I live by and they are:1. Always be true to your word
2. Never take things personal
3. Never assume
4. Always do your best
... if this doesn't find me true love with another, then at least I'll be saying, I have inner peace, love and harmony within...
this thought alone makes me happy ... to achieve the soul mate kinda love wouldn't be a necessity for me but a bonus ... in the meantime and always, my attitude keeps me feeling good about myself
it's everywhere the ego is not...
it is anywhere where fear does not rot ...
it is everywhere that the eye does not see...
it is there just for you and for me...
oh... I'm sorry
thought this was the poetry thread
nanagibs... look within... IMO and experience, I have observed that if you truly have an attitude of love inside, you will discover that a soul mate kinda love is only an extension of how you truly feel about yourself... LOVE reflects love and FEAR reflects fear...
if this sounds simple enough it's coz it is simple...
life is simple... it's us humans that make it complicated with our ego... just by thinking, feeling and acting through our ego, fear and doubt, we alter our inner peace and understanding of ourselves and others big time... I have four rules I live by and they are:1. Always be true to your word
2. Never take things personal
3. Never assume
4. Always do your best
... if this doesn't find me true love with another, then at least I'll be saying, I have inner peace, love and harmony within...
this thought alone makes me happy ... to achieve the soul mate kinda love wouldn't be a necessity for me but a bonus ... in the meantime and always, my attitude keeps me feeling good about myself
Best post I have read since joining CS!!!!
Explained beautifully!!!
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venusenvy: I completely dissagree. I believe we do have soul mates. In fact I believe we have more than one. A soul mate to me is someone who comes into our life that causes us to learn and grow. Someone who touches us on a soul level. I also believe in true love. I love my kids for example with the purest of true love. Can peeps feel that for one another? Of course they can. Look around you, there are examples everywhere. Miracles are small things that occur around us every day. Peeps miss them while waiting for them to appear in great flashing neon lights.
I already stated in my post that we can find love more then one time in our lives so really I am not sure what you "completely disagree with".Apparently based on your belief that we can have more then one love in our lives you "completely" agree with me.
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venusenvy: I completely dissagree. I believe we do have soul mates. In fact I believe we have more than one. A soul mate to me is someone who comes into our life that causes us to learn and grow. Someone who touches us on a soul level. I also believe in true love. I love my kids for example with the purest of true love. Can peeps feel that for one another? Of course they can. Look around you, there are examples everywhere. Miracles are small things that occur around us every day. Peeps miss them while waiting for them to appear in great flashing neon lights.
I already stated in my post that we can find love more then one time in our lives so really I am not sure what you "completely disagree with".Apparently based on your belief that we can have more then one love in our lives you "completely" agree with me.
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maryrachelle: No thanks not interested in reading all of your post.I can't belive you would think that I would actually take the time to drudge through every single post you have ever made.My you think alot of yourself don't you.
I have a hard time believing that you know "alot" of couples still together who were each others first love at 15 or 16.That is very rare.The first time I fell in love I was 15.I adored him,but our relationship ended long ago.I see him around from time to time and no way would I want anything to do with him now.
Two people can work at something all they want it doesn't mean it will work.Life is change.
Based on where each of us is in our lives there is a group of people who we are compatible with.Not just one.
I have a hard time believing that you know "alot" of couples still together who were each others first love at 15 or 16.That is very rare.The first time I fell in love I was 15.I adored him,but our relationship ended long ago.I see him around from time to time and no way would I want anything to do with him now.
Two people can work at something all they want it doesn't mean it will work.Life is change.
Based on where each of us is in our lives there is a group of people who we are compatible with.Not just one.
i was talking about this thread, so have a nice day....
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StillOfTheNight: True love can exist if it exists in your heart
If you want to be loved, love.
Senneca.
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maryrachelle: No thanks not interested in reading all of your post.I can't belive you would think that I would actually take the time to drudge through every single post you have ever made.My you think alot of yourself don't you.
I have a hard time believing that you know "alot" of couples still together who were each others first love at 15 or 16.That is very rare.The first time I fell in love I was 15.I adored him,but our relationship ended long ago.I see him around from time to time and no way would I want anything to do with him now.
Two people can work at something all they want it doesn't mean it will work.Life is change.
Based on where each of us is in our lives there is a group of people who we are compatible with.Not just one.
I have a hard time believing that you know "alot" of couples still together who were each others first love at 15 or 16.That is very rare.The first time I fell in love I was 15.I adored him,but our relationship ended long ago.I see him around from time to time and no way would I want anything to do with him now.
Two people can work at something all they want it doesn't mean it will work.Life is change.
Based on where each of us is in our lives there is a group of people who we are compatible with.Not just one.
i'm always puzzled at the compatibility stuff...
i, personally, don't want to be compatible with the person i love...
the compatibility is something i search for in my friends...
the person i love has to give me emotions...
i don't need a helper to realize my goals or to enjoy my hobby...
and if some kind of compatibility is required it only concerns some characterial traits...
age, common interest, religion, education are not compatibility features in my opinion
i search emotions to share nothing else...
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maryrachelle: No thanks not interested in reading all of your post.I can't belive you would think that I would actually take the time to drudge through every single post you have ever made.My you think alot of yourself don't you.
I have a hard time believing that you know "alot" of couples still together who were each others first love at 15 or 16.That is very rare.The first time I fell in love I was 15.I adored him,but our relationship ended long ago.I see him around from time to time and no way would I want anything to do with him now.
Two people can work at something all they want it doesn't mean it will work.Life is change.
Based on where each of us is in our lives there is a group of people who we are compatible with.Not just one.
I have a hard time believing that you know "alot" of couples still together who were each others first love at 15 or 16.That is very rare.The first time I fell in love I was 15.I adored him,but our relationship ended long ago.I see him around from time to time and no way would I want anything to do with him now.
Two people can work at something all they want it doesn't mean it will work.Life is change.
Based on where each of us is in our lives there is a group of people who we are compatible with.Not just one.
First off if you are not courteous enough to read someones post how can you comment? As a matter of fact I CAN give you many examples of people loving each other for the long haul. My best friend has been married for 25 yrs. My oldest daughter is getting married next month to her high school sweetheart after 13 yrs together. Just because it hasnt manifested in your life, doesnt make you the proto-type for all to live by. Speaking of being rather "full of oneself"
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maryrachelle: I already stated in my post that we can find love more then one time in our lives so really I am not sure what you "completely disagree with".Apparently based on your belief that we can have more then one love in our lives you "completely" agree with me.
I dissagree with your statement that there is no such thing as soul mates...once again I might suggest that perhaps you should read the comments you are responding to
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lucynad: i'm always puzzled at the compatibility stuff...
i, personally, don't want to be compatible with the person i love...
the compatibility is something i search for in my friends...
the person i love has to give me emotions...
i don't need a helper to realize my goals or to enjoy my hobby...
and if some kind of compatibility is required it only concerns some characterial traits...
age, common interest, religion, education are not compatibility features in my opinion
i search emotions to share nothing else...
i, personally, don't want to be compatible with the person i love...
the compatibility is something i search for in my friends...
the person i love has to give me emotions...
i don't need a helper to realize my goals or to enjoy my hobby...
and if some kind of compatibility is required it only concerns some characterial traits...
age, common interest, religion, education are not compatibility features in my opinion
i search emotions to share nothing else...
Can you really choose ,who you gonna love ???
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Boban1: Can you really choose ,who you gonna love ???
no, i can't...
i don't choose to love...
as i said i choose my friends
love happens...
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I was told once that love is just a feeling but it's a choice.
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