im So opposite of this...i WANT to talk about everything...i think i beat it to death though....i dont feel understood...no matter how many times i say how i feel...THAT is what gets frustrating
i dont know if its me and/or my wording...or if the guy is just THAT dense....i think its me though and i dunno what to do to make it different.
When one's angry, most likely the other one is too. Happens every day, all over the word. you disagree, work something out and move on. Or , just, yes dear, uh huh, you're right , I'm sorry. Otherwise she might try to kill you , after you fall asleep.
When a woman is angry I would prefer that she stop for a moment gather her thoughts and approach me without the anger.
I can be very dense. I have a difficult time understanding someone when they are angry because they communicate differently, or because I just see the Fog of Anger and not the reasons behind it.
I know I don't communicate very well when I'm angry. I will usually want some space to think it through.
but thats just it....im not talking in anger...im quite calm and just want to talk about whats bothering me...and sometimes i bring up the same things...OVER and OVER...but i havent felt the issue resolved in my heart.
i think i communicate well enough to not have question about what i think or feel....im direct and honest and i prefer not to communicate in harsh words and angry tones.
When I am angry and you are the source of that you best let me sort through and diffuse. Poking at me when I am that pissed...is not a good idea...That being said.... I don't get that pissed very often...good thing...otherwise I might be dead from an aneurysm cause it sure feels like something is going to blow in there!
Women never forget, she'll remind you when she found a blonde hair in the truck ten years ago. But the do forget that you have five sisters , all blonde
not nagging really....yes i have done that before im sure...but this one thing im talking about specifically isnt a nagging type of thing...its just something that means WAY much to me...and im not getting through or he just doesnt see how much or how important it is...
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i dont know if its me and/or my wording...or if the guy is just THAT dense....i think its me though and i dunno what to do to make it different.