Understanding men's thinking! (35)
BloomsDublin, Offaly Ireland3 Threads 44 PostsCan anyone tell me why, in a 3 year relationship, when both parties were happy to, not ever get married- both having been there before, that a guy would complain that the woman was too emotionally involved? Is he a commitment phobic or just lost interest. He always said he was happy in the relationship!
Blooms: Can anyone tell me why, in a 3 year relationship, when both parties were happy to, not ever get married- both having been there before, that a guy would complain that the woman was too emotionally involved? Is he a commitment phobic or just lost interest. He always said he was happy in the relationship!
how old Is he as a matter of interest am just curious
sounds like he lost interest....
Mummy: sounds like he lost interest....
bluebelle4000: how old Is he as a matter of interest am just curious
Hi bluebelle4000, he's 50 same as me.
bluebelle4000: how old Is he as a matter of interest am just curious
Hi bluebelle4000, he's 50 same as me.
Blooms: Hi bluebelle4000, he's 50 same as me.
and again am just curious but by agreeing to never get married having been there before did he take that to mean that there wasnt a proper commitment... and now 3 years down the line is using that as a way to get out... its a tough one to call when you dont knwo all the details sorry .. jmo
Mid life crisis alert!!!
Blooms: Can anyone tell me why, in a 3 year relationship, when both parties were happy to, not ever get married- both having been there before, that a guy would complain that the woman was too emotionally involved? Is he a commitment phobic or just lost interest. He always said he was happy in the relationship!
Couldn't attempt to answer that based on the info you give. I don't even know what 'too emotionally involved' could mean without observing the situation. Has he been watching Opra? Strange language for a man.
bluebelle4000: and again am just curious but by agreeing to never get married having been there before did he take that to mean that there wasnt a proper commitment... and now 3 years down the line is using that as a way to get out... its a tough one to call when you dont knwo all the details sorry .. jmo
No we had agreed from the start to be up front if we had issues and that we both had our space, and to b exclusive to each other in our relationship.
howlingwolf: Couldn't attempt to answer that based on the info you give. I don't even know what 'too emotionally involved' could mean without observing the situation. Has he been watching Opra? Strange language for a man.
Thats what I thought, no not . Oprah, Jeremy Kyle, :-D but it still hurt. . I was ' mad about the boy' as . Erta Kitt used to sing!
Blooms: Hi bluebelle4000, he's 50 same as me.
probably going through the male changeleisure07: probably going through the male change
Has he talked about growing a pony tail and buying a motorcycle?
Blooms: Can anyone tell me why, in a 3 year relationship, when both parties were happy to, not ever get married- both having been there before, that a guy would complain that the woman was too emotionally involved? Is he a commitment phobic or just lost interest. He always said he was happy in the relationship!
Has the relationship broken down at this stage?
Lots of times relationships just become stale and need a shot across the bough to reboot. Do something different or unexpected.
Aim carefully.
Dub_accent68: Has the relationship broken down at this stage?
Lots of times relationships just become stale and need a shot across the bough to reboot. Do something different or unexpected.
Aim carefully.
Lots of times relationships just become stale and need a shot across the bough to reboot. Do something different or unexpected.
Aim carefully.
. No its over , . I finished it because he gave me nothing for my 50th birthday among other things. But i did love him and I didnt want to break it off. He left me with no option .
Blooms: . No its over , . I finished it because he gave me nothing for my 50th birthday among other things. But i did love him and I didnt want to break it off. He left me with no option .
He gave you nothing for your 50th ???
Well now that says it all... your well rid of him.. sorry to be blunt but it takes nothing to buy a card and a bunch of flowers
bluebelle4000: He gave you nothing for your 50th ???
Well now that says it all... your well rid of him.. sorry to be blunt but it takes nothing to buy a card and a bunch of flowers
Well now that says it all... your well rid of him.. sorry to be blunt but it takes nothing to buy a card and a bunch of flowers
Yeah! Thats what I said. But can you be 'too emotionally involved' in any relationship? That sounds wrong to me? I mean if your in a relationship with a guy and your totally commited to it 100% how can you be making a mistake? He had no other complaints except the usual one- my driving -and as I said he told me he was happy in the relationship so the two statements dont tally.
Blooms: Yeah! Thats what I said. But can you be 'too emotionally involved' in any relationship? That sounds wrong to me? I mean if your in a relationship with a guy and your totally commited to it 100% how can you be making a mistake? He had no other complaints except the usual one- my driving -and as I said he told me he was happy in the relationship so the two statements dont tally.
MEN!!!!!never go to them for help on a tuesday...
Lets be honest, the guy's bored out of the relationship and it could be both need space..Oh yes u can be 'too emotionally involved in any relationship' that it chokes u to death.
He was lying about being happy, probably found someone else..
But in saying this he might have a different story so i can't really judge..
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