Lots of people, male and female, would and do rule out dating a person with a disability. Whether it be physical or otherwise.
That's their choice and far be it from me to criticise.
People have preferences in the same way as some prefer blondes over brunettes, tall over short, thin over chunky. I have preferences too, some people whether able bodied or not just don't rock my boat.
I'm not saying that some deliberately go for the disabled, or that others deliberately avoid them (us), but, there is no accounting for attraction and disgust/dislike.
People avoiding another poster just because they have a mutual ex. The I can do better people. The ones that think they are always right, even when proven wrong. Text speakers people who say things with 1000 words when 20 or so would suffice.
No point in doing the 'shooting fish in a barrel' approach. Try to tailor your email to the individual lady, one lady at a time, they are not fools and you'll find they talk to one another anyway. Be expressive but not explicit. Also, asking them to 'tell me about yourself' is a request nobody likes to get.
It must be the content of your emails mate, or you are 'targetting' the ladies that are looing for something else. I've had 100% replies. Are you reading their profiles and looking at the section where they say what they're looking for before you send the email? Age, Height, Body type etc?
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people who say things with 1000 words when 20 or so would suffice.
Paraplegic
RE: Disabilty
Lots of people, male and female, would and do rule out dating a person with a disability. Whether it be physical or otherwise.That's their choice and far be it from me to criticise.
People have preferences in the same way as some prefer blondes over brunettes, tall over short, thin over chunky. I have preferences too, some people whether able bodied or not just don't rock my boat.
I'm not saying that some deliberately go for the disabled, or that others deliberately avoid them (us), but, there is no accounting for attraction and disgust/dislike.