This member contacted me on Jan 28 2010, stating that she liked my profile.
After exchanging messages for a few days, we agreed to meet on Sunday the 13th of Feb. A couple of days before the meeting, she messaged to say that she had a work conflict and could only meet on Monday the 14th. I rearranged my calander to fit her request.
After braving 6:30 traffic on Valentimes day, I made it to Grand Indonesia, the mall she requested for our meeting.
She is a lovely girl, aside from one discolored and slightly bent front tooth.
We chatted for about 10 minutes, and she asked if I would like to see a movie with her. She expressed interest in my work and asked about my trips to the gardens in Bogor. Everything seemed to be going well.
Then she asked if I mined waiting while she went to the bath room. She never returned. After finishing the Fortune magazine that she had left on the table, I sms'd to politey ask if I was being abandoned. She never responded.
She may seem like a nice girl, but her social graces are only skin deep. If you don't mind shallow, inconsiderate, and cowardly girls, then send her a message. Otherwise don't waste your time.
You are totally out of order. What you are doing is gossiping, and the person you are gossiping about is not even online. I find it absolutely disgraceful!
Also, please check the following forum rules again:
19. Thread title may not include a member’s username. Topic may not be a question or information about a Connecting Singles member. This is gossip and is not allowed.
21. You may not use the forum to accuse, ‘expose’ or gossip about other members. You may not include copies of mail you receive from or about others, or about the site.
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
invinciblemuse: You are totally out of order. What you are doing is gossiping, and the person you are gossiping about is not even online. I find it absolutely disgraceful!
Also, please check the following forum rules again:
19. Thread title may not include a member’s username. Topic may not be a question or information about a Connecting Singles member. This is gossip and is not allowed.
21. You may not use the forum to accuse, ‘expose’ or gossip about other members. You may not include copies of mail you receive from or about others, or about the site.
are we supposed to slag off the girl or what? or express our sympathy to OP..
invinciblemuse: You are totally out of order. What you are doing is gossiping, and the person you are gossiping about is not even online. I find it absolutely disgraceful!
Also, please check the following forum rules again:
19. Thread title may not include a member’s username. Topic may not be a question or information about a Connecting Singles member. This is gossip and is not allowed.
21. You may not use the forum to accuse, ‘expose’ or gossip about other members. You may not include copies of mail you receive from or about others, or about the site.
Since I've been on here I've at least seen people break rule #19 & #21 a good share of the time.I love self apointing mods.
All i can say,she had a lucky escape. Your actions on here are not that of a gentleman,and you should be deeply ashamed of what you have written here. Whatever the circumstances,it was between the lady in question and yourself. Stop whining,grow a backbone and take it on the chin.
time4fun4u: All i can say,she had a lucky escape. Your actions on here are not that of a gentleman,and you should be deeply ashamed of what you have written here. Whatever the circumstances,it was between the lady in question and yourself. Stop whining,grow a backbone and take it on the chin.
This member contacted me on Jan 28 2010, stating that she liked my profile.
After exchanging messages for a few days, we agreed to meet on Sunday the 13th of Feb. A couple of days before the meeting, she messaged to say that she had a work conflict and could only meet on Monday the 14th. I rearranged my calander to fit her request.
After braving 6:30 traffic on Valentimes day, I made it to Grand Indonesia, the mall she requested for our meeting.
She is a lovely girl, aside from one discolored and slightly bent front tooth.
We chatted for about 10 minutes, and she asked if I would like to see a movie with her. She expressed interest in my work and asked about my trips to the gardens in Bogor. Everything seemed to be going well.
Then she asked if I mined waiting while she went to the bath room. She never returned. After finishing the Fortune magazine that she had left on the table, I sms'd to politey ask if I was being abandoned. She never responded.
She may seem like a nice girl, but her social graces are only skin deep. If you don't mind shallow, inconsiderate, and cowardly girls, then send her a message. Otherwise don't waste your time.
time4fun4u: All i can say,she had a lucky escape. Your actions on here are not that of a gentleman,and you should be deeply ashamed of what you have written here. Whatever the circumstances,it was between the lady in question and yourself. Stop whining,grow a backbone and take it on the chin.
It would seem that this was a polite way of letting you down. I may not have been so polite. I once went on a date with a narcissist and after getting away from him I counted my blessings. Oh, that's right, I met him on CS, yet I had the good taste NOT to write a thread about him or tell anyone who asked about the date that it was a nightmare. I said it was fine, end of story.
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
midnight_angel_1: It would seem that this was a polite way of letting you down. I may not have been so polite. I once went on a date with a narcissist and after getting away from him I counted my blessings. Oh, that's right, I met him on CS, yet I had the good taste NOT to write a thread about him or tell anyone who asked about the date that it was a nightmare. I said it was fine, end of story.
Go to Amazon and buy then read the book, She's not that into dude. Why are MF'ing someone from CS? You never been stood up? I'll bet you have. Calm down and take a higher road.
She might have thought you were to old she might have felt scared who knows but at the very least she could just come up with something and say I have to go. Who knows maybe it was better for you she just left.
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This member contacted me on Jan 28 2010, stating that she liked my profile.
After exchanging messages for a few days, we agreed to meet on Sunday the 13th of Feb. A couple of days before the meeting, she messaged to say that she had a work conflict and could only meet on Monday the 14th. I rearranged my calander to fit her request.
After braving 6:30 traffic on Valentimes day, I made it to Grand Indonesia, the mall she requested for our meeting.
She is a lovely girl, aside from one discolored and slightly bent front tooth.
We chatted for about 10 minutes, and she asked if I would like to see a movie with her. She expressed interest in my work and asked about my trips to the gardens in Bogor. Everything seemed to be going well.
Then she asked if I mined waiting while she went to the bath room. She never returned. After finishing the Fortune magazine that she had left on the table, I sms'd to politey ask if I was being abandoned. She never responded.
She may seem like a nice girl, but her social graces are only skin deep. If you don't mind shallow, inconsiderate, and cowardly girls, then send her a message. Otherwise don't waste your time.