Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta ( Archived) (22)

Feb 14, 2011 11:29 AM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
casualguru
casualgurucasualguruJakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 1 Posts


This member contacted me on Jan 28 2010, stating that she liked my profile.

After exchanging messages for a few days, we agreed to meet on Sunday the 13th of Feb. A couple of days before the meeting, she messaged to say that she had a work conflict and could only meet on Monday the 14th. I rearranged my calander to fit her request.

After braving 6:30 traffic on Valentimes day, I made it to Grand Indonesia, the mall she requested for our meeting.

She is a lovely girl, aside from one discolored and slightly bent front tooth.

We chatted for about 10 minutes, and she asked if I would like to see a movie with her. She expressed interest in my work and asked about my trips to the gardens in Bogor. Everything seemed to be going well.

Then she asked if I mined waiting while she went to the bath room. She never returned. After finishing the Fortune magazine that she had left on the table, I sms'd to politey ask if I was being abandoned. She never responded.

She may seem like a nice girl, but her social graces are only skin deep. If you don't mind shallow, inconsiderate, and cowardly girls, then send her a message. Otherwise don't waste your time.
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Feb 14, 2011 11:36 AM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
You are totally out of order. What you are doing is gossiping, and the person you are gossiping about is not even online. I find it absolutely disgraceful!

Also, please check the following forum rules again:

19. Thread title may not include a member’s username. Topic may not be a question or information about a Connecting Singles member. This is gossip and is not allowed.

21. You may not use the forum to accuse, ‘expose’ or gossip about other members. You may not include copies of mail you receive from or about others, or about the site.
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Feb 14, 2011 11:50 AM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
invinciblemuse: You are totally out of order. What you are doing is gossiping, and the person you are gossiping about is not even online. I find it absolutely disgraceful!

Also, please check the following forum rules again:

19. Thread title may not include a member’s username. Topic may not be a question or information about a Connecting Singles member. This is gossip and is not allowed.

21. You may not use the forum to accuse, ‘expose’ or gossip about other members. You may not include copies of mail you receive from or about others, or about the site.
are we supposed to slag off the girl or what?confused or express our sympathy to OP..confused
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Feb 14, 2011 11:53 AM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
cherrybrandy: are we supposed to slag off the girl or what? or express our sympathy to OP..


I would love the read the review she´d write for him!! very mad devil
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Feb 14, 2011 11:55 AM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
invinciblemuse: I would love the read the review she´d write for him!!
wonder,if hes got perfect teeth,hope she will say..laugh
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Feb 14, 2011 11:56 AM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
invinciblemuse: You are totally out of order. What you are doing is gossiping, and the person you are gossiping about is not even online. I find it absolutely disgraceful!

Also, please check the following forum rules again:

19. Thread title may not include a member’s username. Topic may not be a question or information about a Connecting Singles member. This is gossip and is not allowed.

21. You may not use the forum to accuse, ‘expose’ or gossip about other members. You may not include copies of mail you receive from or about others, or about the site.



Since I've been on here I've at least seen people break rule #19 & #21 a good share of the time.I love self apointing mods.laugh
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Feb 14, 2011 11:57 AM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
All i can say,she had a lucky escape.
Your actions on here are not that of a gentleman,and you should be deeply ashamed of what you have written here.
Whatever the circumstances,it was between the lady in question and yourself.
Stop whining,grow a backbone and take it on the chin.
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Feb 14, 2011 11:58 AM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ummm who are you to "review" anybody?? dunno
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Feb 14, 2011 12:15 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
Frankinstien
FrankinstienFrankinstienSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 1,521 Posts
time4fun4u: All i can say,she had a lucky escape.
Your actions on here are not that of a gentleman,and you should be deeply ashamed of what you have written here.
Whatever the circumstances,it was between the lady in question and yourself.
Stop whining,grow a backbone and take it on the chin.
I second that motion ! . . . .handshake
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Feb 14, 2011 12:22 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
casualguru: http://www.connectingsingles.com/MailViewIncoming.aspx?typ=4e89f059-8746-4e43-bfc4-745507ad82e1

This member contacted me on Jan 28 2010, stating that she liked my profile.

After exchanging messages for a few days, we agreed to meet on Sunday the 13th of Feb. A couple of days before the meeting, she messaged to say that she had a work conflict and could only meet on Monday the 14th. I rearranged my calander to fit her request.

After braving 6:30 traffic on Valentimes day, I made it to Grand Indonesia, the mall she requested for our meeting.

She is a lovely girl, aside from one discolored and slightly bent front tooth.

We chatted for about 10 minutes, and she asked if I would like to see a movie with her. She expressed interest in my work and asked about my trips to the gardens in Bogor. Everything seemed to be going well.

Then she asked if I mined waiting while she went to the bath room. She never returned. After finishing the Fortune magazine that she had left on the table, I sms'd to politey ask if I was being abandoned. She never responded.

She may seem like a nice girl, but her social graces are only skin deep. If you don't mind shallow, inconsiderate, and cowardly girls, then send her a message. Otherwise don't waste your time.



comfort
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Feb 14, 2011 12:23 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
time4fun4u: All i can say,she had a lucky escape.
Your actions on here are not that of a gentleman,and you should be deeply ashamed of what you have written here.
Whatever the circumstances,it was between the lady in question and yourself.
Stop whining,grow a backbone and take it on the chin.


Yes Sir..thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Feb 14, 2011 12:29 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
Thats why its called a greet and meet,to see if you like each other.Seems to me it wasn't a match made in heaven!laugh
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Feb 14, 2011 12:31 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
The girl doesn't like it happens get over it and move on...

Oh and posting it on here thats completely not on... how would you feel if she did the same about you ?
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Feb 14, 2011 12:31 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
Loving the irony in the magazine she left was 'Fortune' laugh


Guess it didn't tell his fortune grin
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Feb 14, 2011 12:34 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
Looking_Heart
Looking_HeartLooking_HeartSPRINGFIELD, Missouri USA15 Threads 5 Polls 592 Posts
venusenvy: Happy Valentines day Heart


happy valentines day teddybear lips wine
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Feb 14, 2011 1:11 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
that thread is a proof,that people actually still date..professor
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Feb 14, 2011 1:13 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
midnight_angel_1
midnight_angel_1midnight_angel_1Northwest, Tennessee USA1 Threads 399 Posts
It would seem that this was a polite way of letting you down. I may not have been so polite. I once went on a date with a narcissist and after getting away from him I counted my blessings. Oh, that's right, I met him on CS, yet I had the good taste NOT to write a thread about him or tell anyone who asked about the date that it was a nightmare. I said it was fine, end of story. scold
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Feb 14, 2011 1:18 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
midnight_angel_1: It would seem that this was a polite way of letting you down. I may not have been so polite. I once went on a date with a narcissist and after getting away from him I counted my blessings. Oh, that's right, I met him on CS, yet I had the good taste NOT to write a thread about him or tell anyone who asked about the date that it was a nightmare. I said it was fine, end of story.
where is the fun,if you dont do it?laugh


joke..bouquet
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Feb 14, 2011 1:20 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
getcarter
getcartergetcarterchicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 383 Posts
Go to Amazon and buy then read the book, She's not that into dude. Why are MF'ing someone from CS? You never been stood up? I'll bet you have. Calm down and take a higher road.
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Feb 14, 2011 6:04 PM CST Member Review: vanillaz in Jakarta
She might have thought you were to old she might have felt scared who knows but at the very least she could just come up with something and say I have to go. Who knows maybe it was better for you she just left.dunno
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