Why? (22)

Feb 20, 2011 1:35 PM CST Why?
craized
craizedcraizedEnnis, Clare Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 1,473 Posts
Do people have such concerns over upsetting others by making the right decision by them. confused

I dated someone lovely guy, he had doubts so we ended it I think since it was early days I think this is perfectly acceptable! My ego is bruised sure no one likes rejection but .... why is he looking for constant reassurance! that I'm fine when in truth he was the one unhappy confused
Feb 20, 2011 1:39 PM CST Why?
sylvester001
sylvester001sylvester001Dublin, Ireland23 Threads 785 Posts
craized: Do people have such concerns over upsetting others by making the right decision by them.

I dated someone lovely guy, he had doubts so we ended it I think since it was early days I think this is perfectly acceptable! My ego is bruised sure no one likes rejection but .... why is he looking for constant reassurance! that I'm fine when in truth he was the one unhappy


It sounds like your unhappy about it now tho...
Feb 20, 2011 1:41 PM CST Why?
craized
craizedcraizedEnnis, Clare Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 1,473 Posts
sylvester001: It sounds like your unhappy about it now tho...


Of course! grin
Feb 20, 2011 1:44 PM CST Why?
sylvester001
sylvester001sylvester001Dublin, Ireland23 Threads 785 Posts
craized: Of course!


So theres no point worrying now,Just move on and you will find someone else
Feb 20, 2011 1:50 PM CST Why?
GalwayGuy35
GalwayGuy35GalwayGuy35galway, Galway Ireland25 Threads 1,537 Posts
Probably because even though he ended it he feels he might have hurt your feelings as from what i gather you liked him. Dont think theres anything wrong with checking someone is ok.
Feb 20, 2011 1:58 PM CST Why?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
craized: Do people have such concerns over upsetting others by making the right decision by them.

I dated someone lovely guy, he had doubts so we ended it I think since it was early days I think this is perfectly acceptable! My ego is bruised sure no one likes rejection but .... why is he looking for constant reassurance! that I'm fine when in truth he was the one unhappy


He's afraid you'll tell his wife!grin
Feb 20, 2011 2:00 PM CST Why?
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
craized: Do people have such concerns over upsetting others by making the right decision by them.

I dated someone lovely guy, he had doubts so we ended it I think since it was early days I think this is perfectly acceptable! My ego is bruised sure no one likes rejection but .... why is he looking for constant reassurance! that I'm fine when in truth he was the one unhappy


There could be many reasons for his behaviour but does it really matter? Just ignore the twit and move on.
Feb 20, 2011 2:53 PM CST Why?
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
Did you ever try tucking a vest into a thong?

teddybear
Feb 20, 2011 2:57 PM CST Why?
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
skinnyminnypink: Did you ever try tucking a vest into a thong?


Pink pill AM uh oh
Feb 20, 2011 2:59 PM CST Why?
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
70Libra: Pink pill AM


All out, D ....



Just tried .. it does not work ...



very mad
Feb 20, 2011 3:00 PM CST Why?
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
skinnyminnypink: All out, D ....
Just tried .. it does not work ...

The white and the red together so.


professor No blue ones at this time of night though... cause naughty dreams!!
Feb 20, 2011 3:01 PM CST Why?
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
craized: Do people have such concerns over upsetting others by making the right decision by them.

I dated someone lovely guy, he had doubts so we ended it I think since it was early days I think this is perfectly acceptable! My ego is bruised sure no one likes rejection but .... why is he looking for constant reassurance! that I'm fine when in truth he was the one unhappy


maybe he is just a decent guy and is making sure you are not hurt by his actions dunno
If it was me, I would thank him for his concern, reassure him I am okay and move on grin
bouquet
Feb 20, 2011 3:03 PM CST Why?
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
70Libra: The white and the red together so. No blue ones at this time of night though... cause naughty dreams!!


Naughty dreams ... those would be mid afternoon dreams?? or early evening dreams???


tongue
Feb 20, 2011 3:04 PM CST Why?
craized
craizedcraizedEnnis, Clare Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 1,473 Posts
skinnyminnypink: Did you ever try tucking a vest into a thong?


If only it get that far! rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 20, 2011 3:05 PM CST Why?
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
skinnyminnypink: Naughty dreams ... those would be mid afternoon dreams?? or early evening dreams???


Ah stop rolling on the floor laughing

Knocked my socks off.... literally!!
Feb 20, 2011 3:07 PM CST Why?
craized
craizedcraizedEnnis, Clare Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 1,473 Posts
sylvester001: So theres no point worrying now,Just move on and you will find someone else


I think eh making it difficult for me! I'm happy with his decision as I'm very much a beliver that we do whats right by us but ehhh why rub it in like?
Feb 20, 2011 3:07 PM CST Why?
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
70Libra: Ah stop

Knocked my socks off.... literally!!


MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!

laugh

banana
Feb 20, 2011 3:45 PM CST Why?
Orla2010
Orla2010Orla2010Dublin, Ireland110 Threads 32 Polls 2,167 Posts
craized: thanks I have done just that but he's persistent I've reassured him but he's still texting and calling I've asked him to stop and not to have any concern so hopefully he'll lose that sense of guilt attached aww bless him I do think he's being considerate but for me... it sucks


It sounds like he does feel very guilty...or maybe is he trying to see how much you like him???confused
Feb 20, 2011 9:24 PM CST Why?
forestshaks
forestshaksforestshaksgalway/dublin, Galway Ireland435 Posts
Godsgift: He's afraid you'll tell his wife!


The wife found out that's why he ran off laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 21, 2011 10:48 AM CST Why?
Godsgift: He's afraid you'll tell his wife!
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