is it love...? (33)
gvmeu2springfield, Massachusetts USA13 Threads 73 Postsare you really in love or co-dependent? sounds like it, looks like, tastes like but... is it love? if you were to define your present relationship in terms of a beverage what beverage would it be..example a red bull perhaps that peps you only to end up crashing at the end of the day... or maybe a cognac smooth easy going down helps you feel warm and comfy... 
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gvmeu2: are you really in love or co-dependent? sounds like it, looks like, tastes like but... is it love? if you were to define your present relationship in terms of a beverage what beverage would it be..example a red bull perhaps that peps you only to end up crashing at the end of the day... or maybe a cognac smooth easy going down helps you feel warm and comfy...
Water in a kettle... just warming up!
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70Libra: Water in a kettle... just warming up!
now that one's original..... thanks and good life to you and yours
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gvmeu2: are you really in love or co-dependent? sounds like it, looks like, tastes like but... is it love? if you were to define your present relationship in terms of a beverage what beverage would it be..example a red bull perhaps that peps you only to end up crashing at the end of the day... or maybe a cognac smooth easy going down helps you feel warm and comfy...
I don't have a relationship of the love or co-dependent kind at the moment ...
But I have many other types with famiy and friends ...
The one with my children and grandchildren is like a hot chocolate; sweet, gooey comfortimng, warm and fills me up if I'm a little hungry (for love)!!!
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EagleWoman: I don't have a relationship of the love or co-dependent kind at the moment ...
But I have many other types with famiy and friends ...
The one with my children and grandchildren is like a hot chocolate; sweet, gooey comfortimng, warm and fills me up if I'm a little hungry (for love)!!!
the love of family can sustain anyone for any length of time, you are blessed to have those in your life. Some don't.But I have many other types with famiy and friends ...
The one with my children and grandchildren is like a hot chocolate; sweet, gooey comfortimng, warm and fills me up if I'm a little hungry (for love)!!!
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gvmeu2: the love of family can sustain anyone for any length of time, you are blessed to have those in your life. Some don't.
Yes I count my blessings every day for that and for much more
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EagleWoman: Yes I count my blessings every day for that and for much more
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gvmeu2: are you really in love or co-dependent? sounds like it, looks like, tastes like but... is it love? if you were to define your present relationship in terms of a beverage what beverage would it be..example a red bull perhaps that peps you only to end up crashing at the end of the day... or maybe a cognac smooth easy going down helps you feel warm and comfy...
I am not in love, YET!
and I am an independent person.
The beverage???
For a future relationships I wish it could be like
A glass of a mature Merlot wine!
(may be 2 glasses)
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gvmeu2: are you really in love or co-dependent? sounds like it, looks like, tastes like but... is it love? if you were to define your present relationship in terms of a beverage what beverage would it be..example a red bull perhaps that peps you only to end up crashing at the end of the day... or maybe a cognac smooth easy going down helps you feel warm and comfy...
For me it would be a good bowl a piss
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Conorco: For me it would be a good bowl a piss
It sounds bitter to me but my first language is not English.
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I rarely drink during the week, so mine would have to be a weekend fling. 
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gvmeu2: are you really in love or co-dependent? sounds like it, looks like, tastes like but... is it love? if you were to define your present relationship in terms of a beverage what beverage would it be..example a red bull perhaps that peps you only to end up crashing at the end of the day... or maybe a cognac smooth easy going down helps you feel warm and comfy...
Very good question and not one that many "ask" or even recognise.....
I have reproached myself on this, of course. I wouldn't want to get it wrong, its all important to a relationship.
I have concluded that I don't NEED a man in my life, in fact, I dont want A MAN in my life...... I have been mindful of co-dependency vs. love, yes.
The man in my life..... I don't NEED him (co-dependency), but I do WANT him in my life because I love him to bits. I am independent and self-sufficient.... but I love his company, he makes me laugh, he is fun, we have a great time and, most importantly, there is that CHEMISTRY! He is a terrific friend, lover, companion, confidant.....
He is with me because I want him to be AND because HE wants to be!
Is there any better reason?
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JAN_is: I rarely drink during the week, so mine would have to be a weekend fling.
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lifeisadream: It sounds bitter to me but my first language is not English.
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gvmeu2: bitter indeed
You've actually drank some then? yyyuuuuckky yucky, I don't understand people who do that, its unnatural, what do you think it is thats in you that allows you to do that?
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xxDandelionxx: Very good question and not one that many "ask" or even recognise.....
I have reproached myself on this, of course. I wouldn't want to get it wrong, its all important to a relationship.
I have concluded that I don't NEED a man in my life, in fact, I dont want A MAN in my life...... I have been mindful of co-dependency vs. love, yes.
The man in my life..... I don't NEED him (co-dependency), but I do WANT him in my life because I love him to bits. I am independent and self-sufficient.... but I love his company, he makes me laugh, he is fun, we have a great time and, most importantly, there is that CHEMISTRY! He is a terrific friend, lover, companion, confidant.....
He is with me because I want him to be AND because HE wants to be!
Is there any better reason?
for you and yours there's no better reason in the world...happy for youI have reproached myself on this, of course. I wouldn't want to get it wrong, its all important to a relationship.
I have concluded that I don't NEED a man in my life, in fact, I dont want A MAN in my life...... I have been mindful of co-dependency vs. love, yes.
The man in my life..... I don't NEED him (co-dependency), but I do WANT him in my life because I love him to bits. I am independent and self-sufficient.... but I love his company, he makes me laugh, he is fun, we have a great time and, most importantly, there is that CHEMISTRY! He is a terrific friend, lover, companion, confidant.....
He is with me because I want him to be AND because HE wants to be!
Is there any better reason?
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lifeisadream: I am not in love, YET!
and I am an independent person.
The beverage???
For a future relationships I wish it could be like
A glass of a mature Merlot wine!
(may be 2 glasses)
"yets" are always so good to look forward to especially the merlot kind...and I am an independent person.
The beverage???
For a future relationships I wish it could be like
A glass of a mature Merlot wine!
(may be 2 glasses)
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Conorco: You've actually drank some then? yyyuuuuckky yucky, I don't understand people who do that, its unnatural, what do you think it is thats in you that allows you to do that?
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gvmeu2: are you really in love or co-dependent? sounds like it, looks like, tastes like but... is it love? if you were to define your present relationship in terms of a beverage what beverage would it be..example a red bull perhaps that peps you only to end up crashing at the end of the day... or maybe a cognac smooth easy going down helps you feel warm and comfy...
I believe if yuu have to ask...then dah, no it's not
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gvmeu2: you don't actually believe we're about to discuss this do you...have a good day.
Well played
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