Problem... (89)

Apr 3, 2011 4:40 PM CST Problem...
larsvegas
larsvegaslarsvegasDublin, Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 286 Posts
Ok people, I have a little problem here:

I have been seeing a girl for the past 4 months. She just went to her homecountry for a couple of weeks. Now she somehow found out that I'm on this site today. Of course this is a good reason for her to be suspicious. But I have not contacted any woman on here for months nor do I intend to. Of course she won't believe me.

She deleted me from Facebook, isn't answering her phone, or replyinh to SMS. I don't have any other contact details. In fact now that I think about it I don't even know if she will return from Poland. I hope she will pick up the phone tomorrow.

Was I wrong with being on here?
Apr 3, 2011 4:43 PM CST Problem...
tallman51
tallman51tallman51Limerick, Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 3,327 Posts
I don't think you are wrong but she does have a point !!

Trust has to be earned !!

Just my 2 cents...........as they say !!

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Apr 3, 2011 4:44 PM CST Problem...
L1977C
L1977CL1977Cdublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 3,219 Posts
larsvegas: Ok people, I have a little problem here:

I have been seeing a girl for the past 4 months. She just went to her homecountry for a couple of weeks. Now she somehow found out that I'm on this site today. Of course this is a good reason for her to be suspicious. But I have not contacted any woman on here for months nor do I intend to. Of course she won't believe me.

She deleted me from Facebook, isn't answering her phone, or replyinh to SMS. I don't have any other contact details. In fact now that I think about it I don't even know if she will return from Poland. I hope she will pick up the phone tomorrow.

Was I wrong with being on here?

nope personally if I was seeing someone that long Id be off here...maybe its because you still have your looking for dating
Apr 3, 2011 4:44 PM CST Problem...
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
larsvegas: Ok people, I have a little problem here:

I have been seeing a girl for the past 4 months. She just went to her homecountry for a couple of weeks. Now she somehow found out that I'm on this site today. Of course this is a good reason for her to be suspicious. But I have not contacted any woman on here for months nor do I intend to. Of course she won't believe me.

She deleted me from Facebook, isn't answering her phone, or replyinh to SMS. I don't have any other contact details. In fact now that I think about it I don't even know if she will return from Poland. I hope she will pick up the phone tomorrow.

Was I wrong with being on here?

Did you meet her on here?
Apr 3, 2011 4:45 PM CST Problem...
larsvegas
larsvegaslarsvegasDublin, Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 286 Posts
tallman51: I don't think you are wrong but she does have a point !!

Trust has to be earned !!

Just my 2 cents...........as they say !!


She does have a point. I mean, I'm hanging around on a site called connectingsingles... But if it weren't for the forums I wouldn't be here anymore.
Apr 3, 2011 4:45 PM CST Problem...
larsvegas
larsvegaslarsvegasDublin, Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 286 Posts
70Libra: Did you meet her on here?


Different site
Apr 3, 2011 4:47 PM CST Problem...
Glengirl
GlengirlGlengirlConvoy, Donegal Ireland54 Threads 2 Polls 5,560 Posts
larsvegas: Ok people, I have a little problem here:

I have been seeing a girl for the past 4 months. She just went to her homecountry for a couple of weeks. Now she somehow found out that I'm on this site today. Of course this is a good reason for her to be suspicious. But I have not contacted any woman on here for months nor do I intend to. Of course she won't believe me.

She deleted me from Facebook, isn't answering her phone, or replyinh to SMS. I don't have any other contact details. In fact now that I think about it I don't even know if she will return from Poland. I hope she will pick up the phone tomorrow.

Was I wrong with being on here?


If you are only on here for the forums....not a problem, but you should have told her. I can understand why she's upset JMO
Apr 3, 2011 4:49 PM CST Problem...
tallman51
tallman51tallman51Limerick, Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 3,327 Posts
I think if she really cares about you, she will contact you.

I have had a similar experience.

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Apr 3, 2011 4:50 PM CST Problem...
TwinkleStar_70
TwinkleStar_70TwinkleStar_70Near carloe, Carlow Ireland14 Threads 2 Polls 1,230 Posts
she some how found out that I'm on this site today...
Mmmmmmmmmmm why she went on CS? was she joining or searching for you on here? dunno
Apr 3, 2011 4:50 PM CST Problem...
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
larsvegas: Ok people, I have a little problem here:

I have been seeing a girl for the past 4 months. She just went to her homecountry for a couple of weeks. Now she somehow found out that I'm on this site today. Of course this is a good reason for her to be suspicious. But I have not contacted any woman on here for months nor do I intend to. Of course she won't believe me.

She deleted me from Facebook, isn't answering her phone, or replyinh to SMS. I don't have any other contact details. In fact now that I think about it I don't even know if she will return from Poland. I hope she will pick up the phone tomorrow.

Was I wrong with being on here?


Maybe just let her calm down for a few days and try contacting her again give her some space.I dont think your doing any harm on here if your only using the forums but then again i think they need to be of trust my ex used her dating site where we met to chat other people and i was grand over it.
Apr 3, 2011 4:51 PM CST Problem...
Glengirl
GlengirlGlengirlConvoy, Donegal Ireland54 Threads 2 Polls 5,560 Posts
TwinkleStar_70: she some how found out that I'm on this site today...
Mmmmmmmmmmm why she went on CS? was she joining or searching for you on here?


Good point thumbs up
Apr 3, 2011 4:51 PM CST Problem...
larsvegas
larsvegaslarsvegasDublin, Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 286 Posts
tallman51: I think if she really cares about you, she will contact you.

I have had a similar experience.


yeah maybe. Well, I'll try to call her again in the next days. All I can do at this stage.
Apr 3, 2011 4:51 PM CST Problem...
L1977C
L1977CL1977Cdublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 3,219 Posts
tallman51: I think if she really cares about you, she will contact you.

I have had a similar experience.
surely he knows where she works or at least one of her friends....
Apr 3, 2011 4:52 PM CST Problem...
L1977C
L1977CL1977Cdublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 3,219 Posts
larsvegas: yeah maybe. Well, I'll try to call her again in the next days. All I can do at this stage.

and change your profile???
Apr 3, 2011 4:52 PM CST Problem...
craized
craizedcraizedEnnis, Clare Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 1,473 Posts
larsvegas: Ok people, I have a little problem here:

I have been seeing a girl for the past 4 months. She just went to her homecountry for a couple of weeks. Now she somehow found out that I'm on this site today. Of course this is a good reason for her to be suspicious. But I have not contacted any woman on here for months nor do I intend to. Of course she won't believe me.

She deleted me from Facebook, isn't answering her phone, or replyinh to SMS. I don't have any other contact details. In fact now that I think about it I don't even know if she will return from Poland. I hope she will pick up the phone tomorrow.

Was I wrong with being on here?



It seems a tad bit extreme dunno
Apr 3, 2011 4:53 PM CST Problem...
MOSTY
MOSTYMOSTY& SHANNON, Limerick Ireland16 Threads 1 Polls 296 Posts
larsvegas: Ok people, I have a little problem here:

I have been seeing a girl for the past 4 months. She just went to her homecountry for a couple of weeks. Now she somehow found out that I'm on this site today. Of course this is a good reason for her to be suspicious. But I have not contacted any woman on here for months nor do I intend to. Of course she won't believe me.

She deleted me from Facebook, isn't answering her phone, or replyinh to SMS. I don't have any other contact details. In fact now that I think about it I don't even know if she will return from Poland. I hope she will pick up the phone tomorrow.

Was I wrong with being on here?


Comrade, take a breathe. What comes a round goes around. But where were you doing on dating site if you met some one for such long period?dunnodunno
Apr 3, 2011 4:54 PM CST Problem...
mollie90
mollie90mollie90Meath, Louth Ireland5 Threads 2,502 Posts
larsvegas: Different site




Did your friend sign off on her site ..dunno

I think after four months you should have explained you were still on here and why...at least then your friend could have decided if she was okay with this.

Maybe after she has calmed down ...she will return to you.


comfort
Apr 3, 2011 4:54 PM CST Problem...
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
larsvegas: Ok people, I have a little problem here:

I have been seeing a girl for the past 4 months. She just went to her homecountry for a couple of weeks. Now she somehow found out that I'm on this site today. Of course this is a good reason for her to be suspicious. But I have not contacted any woman on here for months nor do I intend to. Of course she won't believe me.

She deleted me from Facebook, isn't answering her phone, or replyinh to SMS. I don't have any other contact details. In fact now that I think about it I don't even know if she will return from Poland. I hope she will pick up the phone tomorrow.

Was I wrong with being on here?
i think after 4 months of seeing someone to be still on a dating site is wrong, this is a site for singles after all hence the name, i think if your serious about someone then you leave the dating sites, that would be a non negotiable for me
Apr 3, 2011 4:55 PM CST Problem...
TwinkleStar_70
TwinkleStar_70TwinkleStar_70Near carloe, Carlow Ireland14 Threads 2 Polls 1,230 Posts
ya profile,,,saying ya still single

change it...not lookng. not single ect.....or in a relationship...
Apr 3, 2011 4:55 PM CST Problem...
larsvegas
larsvegaslarsvegasDublin, Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 286 Posts
TwinkleStar_70: she some how found out that I'm on this site today...
Mmmmmmmmmmm why she went on CS? was she joining or searching for you on here?


I have no idea how she know's I'm here. maybe a friend? maybe a banner on some other site? maybe she searched? no idea.

In hindsight I should have told her. But I never thought of that. It's just some chatting on the forums when I don't have anything to do.
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