The First Move... (41)
I've had this very discussion with others previously.....we came to the conclusion that the 'romance' stood a better chance if the man made the 1st move. Not meaning we wouldn't make the 1st move.....just from our experience....the relationship lasted longer.
i always make the first move but i have to really like the person first.
Tigerlily79: ok, so I know from being on the forums that I'm old fashioned in my ideas when it comes to romance and dating but just curious becoz I like the guy to make the first move and make the suggestions and...well, you know, actually make the first move to show how he feels
Do others feel the same or have the table turned totally, and if they have, do men prefer that ??
Do others feel the same or have the table turned totally, and if they have, do men prefer that ??
It's a guys job to chase. We are designed for it. There's an old saying that goes something like 'Guys are the chasers, whilst women are the choosers'.
Steve5150: It's a guys job to chase. We are designed for it. There's an old saying that goes something like 'Guys are the chasers, whilst women are the choosers'.
i like it
will i chased guy b4 and looked where that got me 
, so i'm letting guys do it nowI would make the first move but it is nice for a guy to do it..or whats really nice is when youve been on a nice date and you get a bunch of flowers the next day..
holiday11: i like it will i chased guy b4 and looked where that got me , so i'm letting guys do it now
Good for you holiday11. Nature has it in us to chase. It would look really odd in a pub to see women persuing men in every nook and cranny out in the bars out on the town.
i would like the guy to make the first move but sometimes it doesnt happen
Steve5150: It's a guys job to chase. We are designed for it. There's an old saying that goes something like 'Guys are the chasers, whilst women are the choosers'.
I agree men are natural hunters
Steve5150: Good for you holiday11. Nature has it in us to chase. It would look really odd in a pub to see women persuing men in every nook and cranny out in the bars out on the town.
i wouldnt give a xxxxx who tought that
why should we care what people think
Steve5150: It's a guys job to chase. We are designed for it. There's an old saying that goes something like 'Guys are the chasers, whilst women are the choosers'.
Well, I agree, that would be my way of thinking but in like manner, don't think a woman should take advantage of the situation and make a guy feel bad or keep him waiting either which can often happen
Tigerlily79: ok, so I know from being on the forums that I'm old fashioned in my ideas when it comes to romance and dating but just curious becoz I like the guy to make the first move and make the suggestions and...well, you know, actually make the first move to show how he feels
Do others feel the same or have the table turned totally, and if they have, do men prefer that ??
Do others feel the same or have the table turned totally, and if they have, do men prefer that ??
Most women fear to make the first move on guys but i reckon if a woman make a first move on me, and being a different race if she comes up and shows interests, i would know she's definately liberal woman conversing:
L1977C: I would make the first move but it is nice for a guy to do it..or whats really nice is when youve been on a nice date and you get a bunch of flowers the next day..
omg, totally romantic, there's just no one out there like that any more, your lucky if they're a gentleman at all
few and far between, but the ones that are...worth the wait 
Steve5150: It's a guys job to chase. We are designed for it. There's an old saying that goes something like 'Guys are the chasers, whilst women are the choosers'.
Here's another one:
A man chases a woman until she catches him!
Tigerlily79: omg, totally romantic, there's just no one out there like that any more, your lucky if they're a gentleman at all few and far between, but the ones that are...worth the wait
It was a one off
L1977C: I agree men are natural hunters
If you can't hunt you end up with no meat, And we men we love the meat thing
sometimes its hard to read the signals especially when its not face to face . when is harmless flirting get serious etc . Personally as someone who was out of the game for over 5 years I'm finding it difficult to read people . so to conclude i say if he doesn't ask go for it . you only live once and all them other sayings . ps how do you spell cleeshay 
JohnnyCasper: sometimes its hard to read the signals especially when its not face to face . when is harmless flirting get serious etc . Personally as someone who was out of the game for over 5 years I'm finding it difficult to read people . so to conclude i say if he doesn't ask go for it . you only live once and all them other sayings . ps how do you spell cleeshay
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Do others feel the same or have the table turned totally, and if they have, do men prefer that ??