Why find love ? ( Archived) (25)

Apr 17, 2011 1:54 PM CST Why find love ?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
EagleWoman: Because LOVING is the most healing energy there is...

Because sharing makes beautiful experiences even more amazing...
Because sharing makes difficult moments appear less difficult...

Because LOVING doesn't stop when the other passes away...
And LOVING is the most healing energy there is...

LOVING doesn't hurt ... The actual energy and action of loving another does not hurt... it's the conditions we attach to love that hurt when they are not met ... (IE demanding that the other lives as long as we do so we don't miss them/demanding that the other love us a particular way etc...)
hi E/W....i could,nt have said it better.....when your alone .....really alone.....like myself....people dont understand ....the torment...the useual comments come up....(get out and enjoy yourself)yes i go out on the occastion.....but it,s the coming home to an empty home that hurts.......hurts like hell.......
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Apr 17, 2011 2:58 PM CST Why find love ?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Jeeepers: Why is it so desirable to want to fall in love with someone, love them with all of your heart, and grow old together leading to old age and death ? One will most likely go first, and the other is going to be devastated ? Is it worth it ?

I need to go now. Need my beauty rest.


Because we are human? People do move on after death, and look back on the relationship with love and appreciation. I think that is more than worth it, than to avoid a relationship for that kind of negative thinking.
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Apr 17, 2011 3:06 PM CST Why find love ?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
StressFree: Because we are human? People do move on after death, and look back on the relationship with love and appreciation. I think that is more than worth it, than to avoid a relationship for that kind of negative thinking.


Yes you´re right, people do move on, not so the married couples who lose their partner in their 70´s or 80´s generally though.

However, I agree that on the whole it´s worth the happiness one may experience, regardless of age.
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Apr 17, 2011 3:08 PM CST Why find love ?
Dr_Hfuhruhurr
Dr_HfuhruhurrDr_HfuhruhurrCork, Ireland15 Threads 1 Polls 987 Posts
love is for the weak laugh
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Apr 17, 2011 3:18 PM CST Why find love ?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
Dr_Hfuhruhurr: love is for the weak


hey dr H..wave

don't worry.....you'll grow older and you will change your mind.

I can assure you.

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