carenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
venusenvy: Its really hard to judge without knowing both sides to the story here. I would say set your boundaries and thats it. Draw your line you will not cross and stick to it. You will respect yourself and she will respect you also. Good luck
SatelliteServer: how would U take it if your love was a constant money drain, missing out on real estate purchases, wrecked 2 vehicles, absolutely rude when asked why, telling you she will never listen to any man?
I think we both know deep down where this is leading. Get out while you still have your head intact brother.
maryrachelle: You can't stay with someone who is going to spend you into a hole.When you are a part of relationship,married or living together it is no longer my money or your money it is only "our" money.
venusenvy: Its really hard to judge without knowing both sides to the story here. I would say set your boundaries and thats it. Draw your line you will not cross and stick to it. You will respect yourself and she will respect you also. Good luck
Yes you are right I agree with you about 2 sides, I have looked from both points of view but I can't take it, I don't mess up my finances continuously.
SatelliteServer: how would U take it if your love was a constant money drain, missing out on real estate purchases, wrecked 2 vehicles, absolutely rude when asked why, telling you she will never listen to any man?
For me I would not take anything; I would be gone. It's disrespectful, irresponsible and selfish. I'd dump this person yesterday.
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