SatelliteServer: how would U take it if your love was a constant money drain, missing out on real estate purchases, wrecked 2 vehicles, absolutely rude when asked why, telling you she will never listen to any man?
Given the ability to choose a partner, why would you consider someone who demonstates all these characteristics that you yourself are able to see? If "your friend" were interested in someone such as this = what would you advise them? I guess, it makes me wonder why, you'd be willing to settle for less and perhaps these types of relationships that you debilberately choose says alot about how you feel about your own self worth.
langleygirl: Given the ability to choose a partner, why would you consider someone who demonstates all these characteristics that you yourself are able to see? If "your friend" were interested in someone such as this = what would you advise them? I guess, it makes me wonder why, you'd be willing to settle for less and perhaps these types of relationships that you debilberately choose says alot about how you feel about your own self worth.
Refer to above answers of waking up with something you can't wipe off, it's called fear of horrible lizzards out there
How does having to go to work to make more money cause someone keeps F89k'n it up seem joyous?
This might sound harsh ..but I hope you learnt your lesson from it..look..money can buy a lot of things and give security but it cannot buy real and honest feelings for a person. that is something you have to realize..and if you flash your cash around, you'll attract ..sure but not the right crowd.. be glad it is over..take some time away from it all and then see what it is you want to do..just be aware that to some money is a magnet and they will feign anything to get a slice of the cake..JMHO
SatelliteServer: how would U take it if your love was a constant money drain, missing out on real estate purchases, wrecked 2 vehicles, absolutely rude when asked why, telling you she will never listen to any man?
Love ,some love here plz Money , some money here plz Me ,i am already here
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
You can't stay with someone who is going to spend you into a hole.When you are a part of relationship,married or living together it is no longer my money or your money it is only "our" money.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
maryrachelle: You can't stay with someone who is going to spend you into a hole.When you are a part of relationship,married or living together it is no longer my money or your money it is only "our" money.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
maryrachelle: How is that old school?If two people are living together then one persons out of control spending and debts will inevitably affect the other.
How does having to go to work to make more money cause someone keeps F89k'n it up seem joyous?
You are just upset right now. The breakup is new and might not last. I am sure there are some good things that have kept you two together. Am not sure how long you have been together? But I can assure I do not know many men who do not feel like women waste money. I will not expand on that, but it is so. Do you know alot of women feel the same way about men Hope all works out and you are happy with how ever the cards end up.
SatelliteServer: how would U take it if your love was a constant money drain, missing out on real estate purchases, wrecked 2 vehicles, absolutely rude when asked why, telling you she will never listen to any man?
sounds like my ex husband.. LOL..except for he wont listen to any "woman" I left him so end of that chapter.. lol
Its really hard to judge without knowing both sides to the story here. I would say set your boundaries and thats it. Draw your line you will not cross and stick to it. You will respect yourself and she will respect you also. Good luck
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