Is it just me or is being single like being long term unemployed? You start feeling like your going to be single forever. How do you break out of it? I seem to be constantly chatted up by scammers, or girls who want me to see their web-cam shows. I am not interested in the adult sites where you can get a quick one-off legover, I am looking for companionship more than anything.
Andy2104: Is it just me or is being single like being long term unemployed? You start feeling like your going to be single forever. How do you break out of it? I seem to be constantly chatted up by scammers, or girls who want me to see their web-cam shows. I am not interested in the adult sites where you can get a quick one-off legover, I am looking for companionship more than anything.
Don't know the answers,but know what you mean.....guess you just have to keep the faith.....love comes when you least expect it, maybe we look to hard?
curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia5,450 posts
Andy2104: Is it just me or is being single like being long term unemployed? You start feeling like your going to be single forever. How do you break out of it? I seem to be constantly chatted up by scammers, or girls who want me to see their web-cam shows. I am not interested in the adult sites where you can get a quick one-off legover, I am looking for companionship more than anything.
I think you should try to stick to your home town for serious dating and meeting up. Not saying there aren't genuine folks everywhere, but just easier. Well I find that to be the case. If you just want to chat then chat to everyone around the world it's good for your heart.
I believe the longer you are on these dating sites the wiser you become. You will meet someone genuine and nice hang in there.
As for scammers you will learn to pick them out they aren't that smart. Good luck from a caring CS member.
Andy2104: Is it just me or is being single like being long term unemployed? You start feeling like your going to be single forever. How do you break out of it? I seem to be constantly chatted up by scammers, or girls who want me to see their web-cam shows. I am not interested in the adult sites where you can get a quick one-off legover, I am looking for companionship more than anything.
Maybe you could try to be more realistic in your search? I looked at your profile and noticed your looking for women starting at age 18? Your older than most of their fathers..I doubt many that age will be applying. sorry but along with other factors on your profile, i dont think its a very realistic expectation. I would also recommend some self improvements..ie> go to the gym, work out, get a new wardrobe and spruce up your dating appeal. Just some helpful advise..Along with a more realistic age range..
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Andy2104: Is it just me or is being single like being long term unemployed? You start feeling like your going to be single forever. How do you break out of it? I seem to be constantly chatted up by scammers, or girls who want me to see their web-cam shows. I am not interested in the adult sites where you can get a quick one-off legover, I am looking for companionship more than anything.
I like the analogy.
Yes, we've become relationship scrounging scum, sponging off respectable people in relationships who get taxed a ridiculous amount of snogs against their will.
We're just lazy not getting our own relationships and we should accept anything with minimum emotional return, even if its untenable to survival, so we can claim relationship status respectability.
We should be forced to go on relationship retraining programmes, starting with learning how to say, "Hello".
Now I understand the meaning of the term, friends with benefits.
Andy2104: Is it just me or is being single like being long term unemployed? You start feeling like your going to be single forever. How do you break out of it? I seem to be constantly chatted up by scammers, or girls who want me to see their web-cam shows. I am not interested in the adult sites where you can get a quick one-off legover, I am looking for companionship more than anything.
hmm I wondering if this is the only way you are trying to meet people? Try joining some local clubs in your area as well; get yourself out there to meet new people. Good luck to you.
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You start feeling like your going to be single forever.
How do you break out of it?
I seem to be constantly chatted up by scammers, or girls who want me to see their web-cam shows. I am not interested in the adult sites where you can get a quick one-off legover, I am looking for companionship more than anything.