When Do YOU Walk Away?? (10)
When it comes to relationships I'm definitely a "rip the band-aid off " quickly , then a peel- it-off- fibre -by- fibre kind of person.
No regrets
Don't look back. Don't look for blame....
No reason to stay and every reason to leave.
Its over.
No regrets
Don't look back. Don't look for blame....
No reason to stay and every reason to leave.
Its over.
Its that moment in the relationship when you look at them.. or wake up and think.. know what?? this just isn't working anymore. I find that once I've made that decision for myself I'm calm, rational and able to end it quickly and as respectfully as I can.. most times tho.. its because I've realized the guy was a moron and so then .. I just end it. lol.
If I knew that things were over or I was not interested enough to continue to pursue the relationship, I would have a discussion with the man and explain my reasoning. I would then say "goodbye". L.
In all the relationships...I knew it was over..the reason i stayed and dragged it out is because i wanted to make sure that he and I both knew there was nothing left but ashes...
I didn't want at some future point to second guess myself as to whether or not i did the right thing, if there was something more i could have done to save the relationship, or done differently...I would have already satisfied myself that i had done ALL that i could have...
Reasoning??...Man...in the same sentence???...Surely you jest!!!
I didn't want at some future point to second guess myself as to whether or not i did the right thing, if there was something more i could have done to save the relationship, or done differently...I would have already satisfied myself that i had done ALL that i could have...
Reasoning??...Man...in the same sentence???...Surely you jest!!!
i walk when she hits me. lol
For real.....
I never leave after a fight. i always try to work things out. Everybody disagrees, its how you fight and agrue that is relevant. Disagreeing in a relationship, but still in a respectful way, is healthy in my opinion.
If i left i would explain why...i think i would owe that at the very least to the person whom i had been involved with.
With my ex we mutually agreed to end it for the most part.....it was time for both of us to move on.
For real.....
I never leave after a fight. i always try to work things out. Everybody disagrees, its how you fight and agrue that is relevant. Disagreeing in a relationship, but still in a respectful way, is healthy in my opinion.
If i left i would explain why...i think i would owe that at the very least to the person whom i had been involved with.
With my ex we mutually agreed to end it for the most part.....it was time for both of us to move on.
I wish it could be this way with all people...
If a relationship is over..its over...and really i don't have a problem with saying that I'm not what the need or want...I do not fulfill their life in the way they need to be satisfied...but i want them to tell me that...
I don't want to second guess people..I don't want them to "settle" on me..I also don't want them to make my life a living hell...so if its not working out...just say so...
I do think men really are the ones that have problems ending relationships though...just a personal observation
If a relationship is over..its over...and really i don't have a problem with saying that I'm not what the need or want...I do not fulfill their life in the way they need to be satisfied...but i want them to tell me that...
I don't want to second guess people..I don't want them to "settle" on me..I also don't want them to make my life a living hell...so if its not working out...just say so...
I do think men really are the ones that have problems ending relationships though...just a personal observation
We have to remember everybody is unique. No two people are the same.
Some are good communicators, some are not.
I really think this has a lot to do with one's value's system. If they believe in having some class and explaining why they are leaving they will. If they dont then....that tells me a lot! This really comes down to men in general not expressing themselves.
Some are good communicators, some are not.
I really think this has a lot to do with one's value's system. If they believe in having some class and explaining why they are leaving they will. If they dont then....that tells me a lot! This really comes down to men in general not expressing themselves.
i just leave, no real hard feelings on either side. once im done, im done. i dont look back
i walk away the very moment something in my heart says " this is all wrong " and i don't try to work things out, because i believe that a good relationship involves a great friendship with openness, communication, understanding and commitment!!! The moment that turns to WORK, then something is wrong altogether
Of-course,,, if he is a GREAT GUY, you can bet i will be thinking twice before i turn the other cheek!! SO i guess it all depends on who and when because sometimes it is easier to walk away and at other times you tend to linger
Of-course,,, if he is a GREAT GUY, you can bet i will be thinking twice before i turn the other cheek!! SO i guess it all depends on who and when because sometimes it is easier to walk away and at other times you tend to linger
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I've been in a abusive relationship for a few years and I know for sure that the moment I feel controled and not respected now it is over. I'm not gonna listen again to somebodys broken promisses......