Does Playing Hard To Get Really Work? (47)
i think myself if its all about getting someone into bed then it is a game, i just think its good to take it slow sometimes, and with me its not about sleeping with someone... but i think u know at the end of the day if its going anywhere,if its all one sided the chasing, or if one party shows no interest then ur bashing ur head against a wall,and ur heading for a whole world of heart ache j.m.o
ohnuts1: i think myself if its all about getting someone into bed then it is a game, i just think its good to take it slow sometimes, and with me its not about sleeping with someone... but i think u know at the end of the day if its going anywhere,if its all one sided the chasing, or if one party shows no interest then ur bashing ur head against a wall,and ur heading for a whole world of heart ache j.m.o
skippyguy: heck that would be good,...neva that much honesty sometimes though...al though it was funny this chick turned up at our table after soccer saturday ..knew one of us...she was talking away (quite...umm intoxicated), and she was talking of herself stalking another guy..in a manner of speaking, i was surprised when she said...she was waiting outside the nightclub and guy came from inside and said to her what do you want...and she said im waiting to root you..
yes generally we women have a wonderful way with words when we're totally smashed
Heya Nuts... hows the car??Shell225: Heya Nuts... hows the car??
give it a quick service lastnight
all sortedohnuts1: give it a quick service lastnight all sorted
Im glad its sorted now, its been mucking you round
ohnuts1: give it a quick service lastnight all sorted
If you referred to your car as "her" rather than "it", you would've had people flicking back to page 2 in a heartbeat
Nuts
Shell
Anyone else reading this ..
serene56: If you referred to your car as "her" rather than "it", you would've had people flicking back to page 2 in a heartbeat Nuts
Shell
Anyone else reading this ..
Shell
Anyone else reading this ..
heya sweets,I think he's called his car alot of names in the last few days, incredibly colourful ones, but 'her' wasnt one of them
Shell225: heya sweets,I think he's called his car alot of names in the last few days, incredibly colourful ones, but 'her' wasnt one of them
Sheesh, problems huh
Cars are a pain in the butt when they're mucking up hey
Glad to hear it's sorted nuts
starcrossfish: If you 'don't know' that person is playing game's with you, then your stuffed!!
Playing 'hard to get'...could be her way of getting to know you 1st
You could be right, giving me flirtatious stares and looks but taking off while I'm usually busy. I've never actually been able to chat to this lady and have never seen her until yesterday and then again today.Playing 'hard to get'...could be her way of getting to know you 1st
normalguy68: You could be right, giving me flirtatious stares and looks but taking off while I'm usually busy. I've never actually been able to chat to this lady and have never seen her until yesterday and then again today.
*Insert wise looking guru here*
Ahhh the age old question... was it a flirtatious stare, or had she forgotten her reading glasses and was trying work out the sign behind your head????
Maybe she's shoplifting and thats why she takes off when you get distracted
skippyguy: hmmm difficult to answer, and i think alot of that come down to mixed messages...but nevatheless, i can *recall* situations where i can only think its been a game to some, for various reasons and some not worth going into......we all have different circumstances, and experineces, gosh seriously i can even recall where i had been talking with a person for sometime, who had a fake pic of herself..(long time ago now..), who played this sort of on off game half the time...nevathe less a person i was gonna meet, wether this is hard to get or hard to fathom, the only outcome seems to be hurt
weather there is deeper issues or watevr going on...i just know things were not explained, realities, not realized
i certainly try not to label, but at times i run on wat info i have, and i am certainly not hostile in nature..lol
it is easy to categorize people, and there is always 2 sides to a story...
Actually at times iv heard woman comparing other woman as game players, in the term of its way of the world....get with the program..so to speak..lol
Anyways this wild n wonderful world has many ways, and many people, im just one :)
Sounds like a bored housewife playing up online pretending to be single, but just there for the online banter and not willing to go further because of her situation.weather there is deeper issues or watevr going on...i just know things were not explained, realities, not realized
i certainly try not to label, but at times i run on wat info i have, and i am certainly not hostile in nature..lol
it is easy to categorize people, and there is always 2 sides to a story...
Actually at times iv heard woman comparing other woman as game players, in the term of its way of the world....get with the program..so to speak..lol
Anyways this wild n wonderful world has many ways, and many people, im just one :)
Shell225: *Insert wise looking guru here*
Ahhh the age old question... was it a flirtatious stare, or had she forgotten her reading glasses and was trying work out the sign behind your head????
Maybe she's shoplifting and thats why she takes off when you get distracted
You might be onto something there, doh!Ahhh the age old question... was it a flirtatious stare, or had she forgotten her reading glasses and was trying work out the sign behind your head????
Maybe she's shoplifting and thats why she takes off when you get distracted
Never was that good at reading the signs.
normalguy68: You might be onto something there, doh!
Never was that good at reading the signs.
Never was that good at reading the signs.
I guess an option is... next time she comes into the shop and stares at you, then goes to leave.... you yell out HEY YOU!!! If she starts running .. sorry she's stealing from you
Shell225: I guess an option is... next time she comes into the shop and stares at you, then goes to leave.... you yell out HEY YOU!!! If she starts running .. sorry she's stealing from you
She might also be running 'cos she got a closer look and said yeeek, what was I thinking?normalguy68: She might also be running 'cos she got a closer look and said yeeek, what was I thinking?
knock her specs off her head.. then your face will be like one of those misty photoshopped pics
she'll think your lovely, whilst she's shoving the latest Mills and Boon down her jacket ..
Shell225: knock her specs off her head.. then your face will be like one of those misty photoshopped pics
she'll think your lovely, whilst she's shoving the latest Mills and Boon down her jacket ..
I do have a spare set of Rose Coloured Glasses that could fix that problem.she'll think your lovely, whilst she's shoving the latest Mills and Boon down her jacket ..
normalguy68: I do have a spare set of Rose Coloured Glasses that could fix that problem.
Ireadalot: I think there's a bit of danger labelling someone hard to get. Lots of people are shy and like to for a friendship and feel respected as a person before they jump right in with both feet. As star said, taking things slow can be importsnt, especially with little kids. You don't want to introduce them to someone you aren't sure of
I think this counts for me. I am very shy,also a blusher.
I also don't want to come across as too easy.
I think its probably my downfall, but I just not that forward in that way.
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i would not label...sometimes these things become more prominent with time, and every circumstance is different, its about distinguishing realities, maybe more so whos for real, and whos a player, Shy is different again, i dont think hard to get...are scared of putting themselves out there, i have total respect for those who wish to take there time...as long as they are true to there words :)