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Jun 23, 2011 9:12 PM CST how do you deal with...
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
... someone you really like, that talks about marriage way to early?
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Jun 23, 2011 9:17 PM CST how do you deal with...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
pikengren: ... someone you really like, that talks about marriage way to early?

popcorn popcorn
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Jun 23, 2011 9:20 PM CST how do you deal with...
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
yeah, that's what i'm saying.
been real quiet and respectful til now.
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Jun 23, 2011 9:22 PM CST how do you deal with...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
In response to: ... someone you really like, that talks about marriage way to early?


Be upfront and tell them how you feel.Simple
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Jun 23, 2011 9:23 PM CST how do you deal with...
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
Ccincy: Be upfront and tell them how you feel.Simple


yeah, but, there is always something.
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Jun 23, 2011 9:26 PM CST how do you deal with...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
pikengren: yeah, but, there is always something.


I understand but and here comes the but.Be firm but gentle.laugh
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Jun 23, 2011 9:28 PM CST how do you deal with...
mypurtyeyes
mypurtyeyesmypurtyeyescolumbus, Ohio USA31 Posts
Ccincy: I understand but and here comes the but.Be firm but gentle.

Good advice. I've run into the same thing several times.
cheering
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Jun 23, 2011 9:31 PM CST how do you deal with...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
mypurtyeyes: Good advice. I've run into the same thing several times.



My b/f has asked me to marry him but I said no.Evey so often he teases me about it but he fully understands my feelings.
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Jun 23, 2011 9:35 PM CST how do you deal with...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Why do some people make things so darn difficult when all they have to do is just right come out and tell that person something?


Not saying being mean and cruel or anything like that just be upfront/staight forward for goosh sakes.Us women aren't mind readers either.
Geesh.laugh laugh
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Jun 23, 2011 9:35 PM CST how do you deal with...
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
is this in general or is it you whose involved?
In response to: ... someone you really like, that talks about marriage way to early?
conversing
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Jun 23, 2011 9:37 PM CST how do you deal with...
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Jun 23, 2011 9:37 PM CST how do you deal with...
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Ccincy: My b/f has asked me to marry him but I said no.Evey so often he teases me about it but he fully understands my feelings.
Is it because you are waiting for me ? cool
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Jun 23, 2011 9:39 PM CST how do you deal with...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Jeeepers: Is it because you are waiting for me ?


I am, that's news to me.I must've slept through that one.rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 23, 2011 9:39 PM CST how do you deal with...
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Ccincy: I am, that's news to me.I must've slept through that one.
roll eyes
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Jun 23, 2011 9:42 PM CST how do you deal with...
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
pikengren: ... someone you really like, that talks about marriage way to early?


Tell her you want 4 or 5 children and want to get started as soon as possible.


That should scare her off! professor
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Jun 23, 2011 9:43 PM CST how do you deal with...
oldernwiser101
oldernwiser101oldernwiser101Hutchinson, Kansas USA1 Threads 121 Posts
Sounds like there is only one persons feelings you are concerned with in this relationship and they are not your own. How long if you do not voice your thoughts will it be before it builds inside you and causes you to feel resentment towards her? If she is truely someone special she will listen to your feelings and the two of you can reach a compromise that works for both parties if not then she has a hidden agenda and you are better off knowing now. Just how I would handle it if I was in your shoes.....
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Jun 23, 2011 9:46 PM CST how do you deal with...
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
pikengren: ... someone you really like, that talks about marriage way to early?


Sometimes there is an important issue as to why a lady won't re-marry after her husband passes on, and it's sometimes due to the husband retirement benefits provided to the widow after he's death. JMHO
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Jun 23, 2011 9:56 PM CST how do you deal with...
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
pikengren: ... someone you really like, that talks about marriage way to early?


Show her the prenup.....angel
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Jun 23, 2011 9:59 PM CST how do you deal with...
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
wave Hi sweet pea..

leigh2154: Show her the prenup.....


That actually happened to me. I met him on CS and the first time we went out he said "if you and I get married", I nearly fell off the chair. I told him it was too soon to even think about that. I knew then that he was in need of a wife and I knew why but I can't say here
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Jun 23, 2011 10:04 PM CST how do you deal with...
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
montecito: Hi sweet pea..
That actually happened to me. I met him on CS and the first time we went out he said "if you and I get married", I nearly fell off the chair. I told him it was too soon to even think about that. I knew then that he was in need of a wife and I knew why but I can't say here


Hey Monts!hug Remember that song called....Money, Money, Money, Moneeeeeeeeey!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


Am I close?!!???laugh
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