Sounds like there is only one persons feelings you are concerned with in this relationship and they are not your own. How long if you do not voice your thoughts will it be before it builds inside you and causes you to feel resentment towards her? If she is truely someone special she will listen to your feelings and the two of you can reach a compromise that works for both parties if not then she has a hidden agenda and you are better off knowing now. Just how I would handle it if I was in your shoes.....
pikengren: ... someone you really like, that talks about marriage way to early?
Sometimes there is an important issue as to why a lady won't re-marry after her husband passes on, and it's sometimes due to the husband retirement benefits provided to the widow after he's death. JMHO
That actually happened to me. I met him on CS and the first time we went out he said "if you and I get married", I nearly fell off the chair. I told him it was too soon to even think about that. I knew then that he was in need of a wife and I knew why but I can't say here
montecito: Hi sweet pea.. That actually happened to me. I met him on CS and the first time we went out he said "if you and I get married", I nearly fell off the chair. I told him it was too soon to even think about that. I knew then that he was in need of a wife and I knew why but I can't say here
Hey Monts! Remember that song called....Money, Money, Money, Moneeeeeeeeey!!
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