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Jul 28, 2011 9:24 PM CST Sooooo tell me ......
romanticman4u
romanticman4uromanticman4ubrainerd, Minnesota USA11 Threads 7 Polls 494 Posts
I stay knowing someday I will be sucessful, my charm will over come some good hearted lady she will become addicted to me and will fall hopelessly in love , or vice versa
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Jul 28, 2011 10:19 PM CST Sooooo tell me ......
RadJAD
RadJADRadJADWaco, Texas USA2 Threads 18 Posts
curly28: I am on this site for the forums I haven't scanned the dating side of this site. I really enjoy the interaction with you guys a laugh and debate all good fun. I do belong to other sites I do get quiet a few interest from men in my home town, I am yet to meet the one, also get mail from lots of young boys that need to grow a brain Of course can't forget the scammers bless them. You see sweetie it happens to us all so don't beat yourself up and enjoy the forums. My theory is Bide your time chill and sooner rather than later your Mr right will emerge. Good luck


Thanks. I appreciate the input.
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Jul 28, 2011 10:21 PM CST Sooooo tell me ......
RadJAD
RadJADRadJADWaco, Texas USA2 Threads 18 Posts
Thank you.

I have posted in some of the forums for the past few weeks. I don't post to everything ... just things that I see where I could contribute something to the conversation.

As for a relationship ... I'm not getting any younger and if I'm going to find someone I am hoping to do so sooner rather than later because I will simply just opt to spend the rest of my life alone (with my extended family just no partner) if that is the case.

Thanks for the input!!!
jac379: No, sweet pea, you're not butt ugly, far from it and you're obviously bright by the way you write and therefore have much to offer.

As far as I'm concerned this internet dating malarcky is like finding a needle in a haystack, especially if you're realistic about the components that will make for a successful, long-term relationship for you.

I've not seen you on the forums before. Might I suggest you focus less on finding a relationship, join in the forums, have some fun and let people get to know you? Its a good platform for meeting people.

Its always nice to have new contributors in this wee community.
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Jul 28, 2011 10:23 PM CST Sooooo tell me ......
RadJAD
RadJADRadJADWaco, Texas USA2 Threads 18 Posts
curly28: Good morning almera. I tend to agree with RadJad that she is looking in her own back yard as she wants a relationship now not a drawn out one via the net then just maybe after a lot of expense re- travel a big IF to be or not to be. Not saying you can't meet someone from overseas but it is a lot harder for that to happen and she doesn't want to bother with that. Neither would I. Put that in the too hard basket. As for local dating sites most are all international now so not a lot of choices.


Thank you. That is pretty much how I feel. I would like it to be sooner rather than later. And yes, I find that most sites are international now.

I appreciate the input!!!
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Jul 28, 2011 11:09 PM CST Sooooo tell me ......
manOfewwords
manOfewwordsmanOfewwordsLongview, Texas USA30 Threads 756 Posts
for the forums...
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Jul 28, 2011 11:22 PM CST Sooooo tell me ......
wayward19
wayward19wayward19Vancouver, British Columbia Canada35 Threads 117 Posts
I'm on this site for entertainment and company. I like seeing what everyone is thinking and having fun. It would be nice to meet someone but I have no expectations. I think the older ladies here are far more intelligent than the younger girls who think they can manipulate and play games. Of course some guys think the same way about women. The best policy I believe is trust no one who makes promises without knowing who you really are.
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Jul 28, 2011 11:23 PM CST Sooooo tell me ......
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
RadJAD: What is it that keeps you on a dating site?

I know what brings you to join one. We are all looking for someone ... right?

But what keeps you here? Or on any other sites for dating?

RJ




I stay for the interaction.
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Jul 29, 2011 3:03 AM CST Sooooo tell me ......
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
Hi, RadJAD. You talk as if you see what is happening to me concerning the experiences on the dating sites. I mean, exactly the same things happen to me as they happen to you. I don't think that I am ugly, or stupid, or anything. I think that it must be some kind of destiny. If you believe in it. Somebody may say that destiny does not exist, that we create our destiny, but I don't think so. How do I create my destiny which is completely opposite to what I want in this feild of love relationship?

I am on several dating sites, but here I find that forum is much better than on other sites that I am registered to. People here seem to be more interested in the similar things as I am. And I haven't found that participating on forum can raise chances to find somebody for dating. So, it is just amusement and same interests with the people on the forum that keeps me here.

Good luck to you!
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Jul 29, 2011 3:10 AM CST Sooooo tell me ......
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
i should toss in the towel, but i keep looking
this is the most interesting site i have been on,

i blame the women, but its my fault i KNOW geeeez
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Jul 29, 2011 3:13 AM CST Sooooo tell me ......
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
Iam looking for my soulmate, wonder if he is arround here uh oh and enjoying the forum and blog too coz sometimes by being in the forum really can makes me laugh grin
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Jul 29, 2011 3:19 AM CST Sooooo tell me ......
feelinglost
feelinglostfeelinglostMarooned on a rock, Canary Islands Spain8 Threads 4 Polls 100 Posts
Like you many join dating sites to find a partner however most of us don't find that person what we do find are some good friends that we chat to through the site. Of course we always live in hope.
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Jul 29, 2011 2:45 PM CST Sooooo tell me ......
RadJAD
RadJADRadJADWaco, Texas USA2 Threads 18 Posts
vyoleta: Hi, RadJAD. You talk as if you see what is happening to me concerning the experiences on the dating sites. I mean, exactly the same things happen to me as they happen to you. I don't think that I am ugly, or stupid, or anything. I think that it must be some kind of destiny. If you believe in it. Somebody may say that destiny does not exist, that we create our destiny, but I don't think so. How do I create my destiny which is completely opposite to what I want in this feild of love relationship?

I am on several dating sites, but here I find that forum is much better than on other sites that I am registered to. People here seem to be more interested in the similar things as I am. And I haven't found that participating on forum can raise chances to find somebody for dating. So, it is just amusement and same interests with the people on the forum that keeps me here.

Good luck to you!



Thanks for your response. I appreciate it.

Oh I will stay ... for the forums. I enjoy reading them, seeing what others have to say, etc and you are right ... this place has the best forums I have seen.

Thanks again.

RJ
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Jul 30, 2011 3:49 AM CST Sooooo tell me ......
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
RadJAD: What is it that keeps you on a dating site?

I know what brings you to join one. We are all looking for someone ... right?

But what keeps you here? Or on any other sites for dating?

I am just about to toss in the towel on them all. I have belonged to several. Nothing real has come from any of them.

I send emails ... get ignored. Someone expresses an interest ... I contact them and they decide to tell me they aren't interested? WTH?? They contacted me first.

I get emails from people 30 years younger than me. I am NOT interested in being someones mother/grandmother.

Or I get emails from people who are "not my type". Not to be mean but there are those who just don't appeal to you (or me) in any way shape or form.

Oh ... or I get emails from people who are clearly "not from this country" and are scammers. I delete them without responding. UGH!!!

So ... tell me. Do you have the same issues and if so, why stay?

I'm curious.

I tried staying on the sites because I had hope. Hope that someday someone would be interested in me and me in them and it would all work out.

So far ... hasn't happened and I'm losing hope that it ever will.

RJ


I dont' come on too much but I've met some nice people and we were not a match for dating, but we became friends personally. Its' been fun; I post sometimes on the forums even though it can get pretty clicky with some of the regulars; especially when you disagree with any of them. Kind of ridiculous but it takes all kinds.

I usually date locally.
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Jul 30, 2011 3:52 AM CST Sooooo tell me ......
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
mjames: I dont' come on too much but I've met some nice people and we were not a match for dating, but we became friends personally. Its' been fun; I post sometimes on the forums even though it can get pretty clicky with some of the regulars; especially when you disagree with any of them. Kind of ridiculous but it takes all kinds.

I usually date locally.

Your'e so pretty hug comfort
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