Why is it..... (24)

Aug 13, 2011 4:16 PM CST Why is it.....
SPMoore
SPMooreSPMooreFoxrock, Dublin Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 189 Posts
when somebody asks you where you met your other half, and you say "online", they go "oh right"

Is it really still such a taboo way of meeting someone these days?
Aug 13, 2011 4:17 PM CST Why is it.....
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
SPMoore: when somebody asks you where you met your other half, and you say "online", they go "oh right"

Is it really still such a taboo way of meeting someone these days?


to some yes

to other the cudnt care

i dont lie about where i met him
Aug 13, 2011 4:18 PM CST Why is it.....
sharina
sharinasharinadublin, Dublin Ireland38 Threads 2 Polls 3,166 Posts
SPMoore: when somebody asks you where you met your other half, and you say "online", they go "oh right"

Is it really still such a taboo way of meeting someone these days?

i wouldnt let it bother me..they probably think its all wierdos online ..laugh

why are you not in the church tonight..i thought you were going??
Aug 13, 2011 4:19 PM CST Why is it.....
fitandfun79
fitandfun79fitandfun79Laois, Leix Ireland62 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
SPMoore: when somebody asks you where you met your other half, and you say "online", they go "oh right"

Is it really still such a taboo way of meeting someone these days?


yea.. still is... not as much as say 10 years ago, but there's still a certain taboo about online dating... why you think so many people have no profile pics??
Aug 13, 2011 4:22 PM CST Why is it.....
Green_Sleeves
Green_SleevesGreen_SleevesCarlow, Ireland174 Threads 37 Polls 4,812 Posts
SPMoore: when somebody asks you where you met your other half, and you say "online", they go "oh right"

Is it really still such a taboo way of meeting someone these days?


Perhaps its just not 'natural', give it another 100 years or so and it'll be accepted and possibly the norm.

Ok, I know people will say 'its no different that meeting someone in a bar' but I think it is very different and un-natural, I guess as humans we work on physical contact, give off messages, interact with others on a human basis that we are drawn too, interested in, feel threatened by etc etc. Internet, well, anyone can be anyone, thus I'd imagine why so many are nervous of it and untrusting.
Aug 13, 2011 4:24 PM CST Why is it.....
TEASE
TEASETEASETIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland116 Threads 1 Polls 2,679 Posts
Green_Sleeves: Perhaps its just not 'natural', give it another 100 years or so and it'll be accepted and possibly the norm.

Ok, I know people will say 'its no different that meeting someone in a bar' but I think it is very different and un-natural, I guess as humans we work on physical contact, give off messages, interact with others on a human basis that we are drawn too, interested in, feel threatened by etc etc. Internet, well, anyone can be anyone, thus I'd imagine why so many are nervous of it and untrusting.


you ought to be ashamed of yourself mumbling
Aug 13, 2011 4:26 PM CST Why is it.....
Green_Sleeves
Green_SleevesGreen_SleevesCarlow, Ireland174 Threads 37 Polls 4,812 Posts
TEASE: you ought to be ashamed of yourself


Ah sit down and stop waving your stick around grandad

laugh
Aug 13, 2011 4:28 PM CST Why is it.....
TEASE
TEASETEASETIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland116 Threads 1 Polls 2,679 Posts
Green_Sleeves: Ah sit down and stop waving your stick around grandad


laugh
Aug 13, 2011 4:32 PM CST Why is it.....
SPMoore
SPMooreSPMooreFoxrock, Dublin Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 189 Posts
Green_Sleeves: Perhaps its just not 'natural', give it another 100 years or so and it'll be accepted and possibly the norm.

Ok, I know people will say 'its no different that meeting someone in a bar' but I think it is very different and un-natural, I guess as humans we work on physical contact, give off messages, interact with others on a human basis that we are drawn too, interested in, feel threatened by etc etc. Internet, well, anyone can be anyone, thus I'd imagine why so many are nervous of it and untrusting.


but it not like you would normally have a full blown relationship all online and never meet lol, your inital contact is online but then you meet up, just as you would in a bar etc, thats what I would tell people anyways
Aug 13, 2011 4:36 PM CST Why is it.....
NewIn2010
NewIn2010NewIn2010County, Galway Ireland15 Threads 196 Posts
Green_Sleeves: Perhaps its just not 'natural', give it another 100 years or so and it'll be accepted and possibly the norm.

Ok, I know people will say 'its no different that meeting someone in a bar' but I think it is very different and un-natural, I guess as humans we work on physical contact, give off messages, interact with others on a human basis that we are drawn too, interested in, feel threatened by etc etc. Internet, well, anyone can be anyone, thus I'd imagine why so many are nervous of it and untrusting.


I totally disagree. I find if I meet a man in a bar he's generally "had a few" and is definitely not himself. I much prefer on-line dating. Of course there are game players etc but just as many as in the pub. This way you get a chance to meet a man, chat a little, get to know him and then decide. I've found that most men are more "themselves" on line. Unfortunately, the down side can be that when you do meet up they can often become shy and it takes more patience to get them to relax...
Aug 13, 2011 4:55 PM CST Why is it.....
SereneGreen
SereneGreenSereneGreenWexford, Ireland190 Threads 5 Polls 2,899 Posts
I think there is still a misconception about internet dating;
It is that someone who has to go online to meet somebody is a bit desperate if they can't/don't meet people the "normal" way like everyone else. I found that the older generation inparticular feel that way ie parents maybe or older family. JMO teddybear
Aug 13, 2011 5:07 PM CST Why is it.....
SPMoore
SPMooreSPMooreFoxrock, Dublin Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 189 Posts
SereneGreen: I think there is still a misconception about internet dating;
It is that someone who has to go online to meet somebody is a bit desperate if they can't/don't meet people the "normal" way like everyone else. I found that the older generation inparticular feel that way ie parents maybe or older family. JMO


thats it exactly, i get the question - is she normal? erm i hope so haha
Aug 13, 2011 5:10 PM CST Why is it.....
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
SPMoore: thats it exactly, i get the question - is she normal? erm i hope so haha
i got asked that but it was more because he agreed to go out with me not cause of where we met uh oh laugh
Aug 13, 2011 5:11 PM CST Why is it.....
TEASE
TEASETEASETIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland116 Threads 1 Polls 2,679 Posts
salanky: i got asked that but it was more because he agreed to go out with me not cause of where we met


laugh

I believe it rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

tongue
Aug 13, 2011 5:12 PM CST Why is it.....
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
TEASE: I believe it
what can i say im so unique it takes a special fella to cope with me laugh
Aug 13, 2011 5:14 PM CST Why is it.....
TEASE
TEASETEASETIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland116 Threads 1 Polls 2,679 Posts
salanky: what can i say im so unique it takes a special fella to cope with me


special as in challenged id say laugh
Aug 13, 2011 5:15 PM CST Why is it.....
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
TEASE: special as in challenged id say
your just jealous cause someone beat you to it tongue laugh
Aug 13, 2011 5:16 PM CST Why is it.....
TEASE
TEASETEASETIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland116 Threads 1 Polls 2,679 Posts
salanky: your just jealous cause someone beat you to it


now you said it comfort
Aug 13, 2011 5:16 PM CST Why is it.....
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
TEASE: now you said it
hehe i knew it laugh
Aug 13, 2011 5:18 PM CST Why is it.....
TEASE
TEASETEASETIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland116 Threads 1 Polls 2,679 Posts
salanky: hehe i knew it



you caught me out there alright doh roll eyes
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