All the tips in the world aren´t going to help. Why try to be somebody you are not simply to gain online online brownie points? It all comes out in the wash in the end.
Honesty, and being as you are offline, is the only worthwhile advice in my opinion.
feelinglost: Does it really matter if what you do is correct or not if at the end of the day you find what it is you are looking for?
That's true but I notice that some people join dating sites and just sit there and wait for someone to come along. Others may not return emails regularly enough or when they do they hardly say anything worth reading.
JAN_is: All the tips in the world aren´t going to help. Why try to be somebody you are not simply to gain online online brownie points? It all comes out in the wash in the end.
Honesty, and being as you are offline, is the only worthwhile advice in my opinion.
It's not about earning Brownie points just being able to communicate better might help. A lot of people are new to Internet Dating and dating can be more puzzling than it was some years ago. I'm lucky in that I found someone special here, but it took a lot of work to get where we are so communication is a key factor.
feelinglostMarooned on a rock, Canary Islands Spain100 posts
a44dreamer: That's true but I notice that some people join dating sites and just sit there and wait for someone to come along. Others may not return emails regularly enough or when they do they hardly say anything worth reading.
I do wander. For the most of the times, my impression is that I don’t understand anything.
Though I doubt that anyone’s advice would help here.
Internet is a medium for them who can express their thoughts in written. So if you can’t do that (even if you have thoughts), all counseling would be in vain.
Tulefel: I do wander. For the most of the times, my impression is that I don’t understand anything.
Though I doubt that anyone’s advice would help here.
Internet is a medium for them who can express their thoughts in written. So if you can’t do that (even if you have thoughts), all counseling would be in vain.
Hmmmm. Not sure about that Tulefel. I think I´d rather many of the men who write to me here kept their thoughts to themselves.
Tulefel: I do wander. For the most of the times, my impression is that I don’t understand anything.
Though I doubt that anyone’s advice would help here.
Internet is a medium for them who can express their thoughts in written. So if you can’t do that (even if you have thoughts), all counseling would be in vain.
It can be puzzling as you say some people prefer talking than writing. Some like pictures, links to music or poems
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