Communicating on Internet Dating Sites ( Archived) (17)

Oct 12, 2011 2:35 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
Do you ever wonder if you're doing Internet Dating correctly or is there something you're missing?
Here's some tips:

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Oct 12, 2011 3:14 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
feelinglost
feelinglostfeelinglostMarooned on a rock, Canary Islands Spain8 Threads 4 Polls 100 Posts
Does it really matter if what you do is correct or not if at the end of the day you find what it is you are looking for?
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Oct 12, 2011 3:48 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
a44dreamer: Do you ever wonder if you're doing Internet Dating correctly or is there something you're missing?
Here's some tips:



Well, I can't open the link, I'm at work, so I can't tell if I'm doing it right or not.
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Oct 12, 2011 4:07 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
All the tips in the world aren´t going to help. Why try to be somebody you are not simply to gain online online brownie points? It all comes out in the wash in the end.

Honesty, and being as you are offline, is the only worthwhile advice in my opinion.
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Oct 12, 2011 11:05 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
feelinglost: Does it really matter if what you do is correct or not if at the end of the day you find what it is you are looking for?

That's true but I notice that some people join dating sites and just sit there and wait for someone to come along. Others may not return emails regularly enough or when they do they hardly say anything worth reading.laugh
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Oct 12, 2011 11:12 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
JAN_is: All the tips in the world aren´t going to help. Why try to be somebody you are not simply to gain online online brownie points? It all comes out in the wash in the end.

Honesty, and being as you are offline, is the only worthwhile advice in my opinion.

It's not about earning Brownie points just being able to communicate better might help. A lot of people are new to Internet Dating and dating can be more puzzling than it was some years ago. I'm lucky in that I found someone special here, but it took a lot of work to get where we are so communication is a key factor.cheers
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Oct 13, 2011 6:50 AM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
feelinglost
feelinglostfeelinglostMarooned on a rock, Canary Islands Spain8 Threads 4 Polls 100 Posts
a44dreamer: That's true but I notice that some people join dating sites and just sit there and wait for someone to come along. Others may not return emails regularly enough or when they do they hardly say anything worth reading.



Lots of people just send one liners!!
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Oct 13, 2011 1:30 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
feelinglost: Lots of people just send one liners!!


Make

it

a

few-liners.laugh
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Oct 13, 2011 1:35 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
a44dreamer: Do you ever wonder if you're doing Internet Dating correctly or is there something you're missing?
Here's some tips:



I do wander. For the most of the times, my impression is that I don’t understand anything. grin

Though I doubt that anyone’s advice would help here.

Internet is a medium for them who can express their thoughts in written. So if you can’t do that (even if you have thoughts), all counseling would be in vain.

laugh
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Oct 13, 2011 2:29 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Tulefel: I do wander. For the most of the times, my impression is that I don’t understand anything.

Though I doubt that anyone’s advice would help here.

Internet is a medium for them who can express their thoughts in written. So if you can’t do that (even if you have thoughts), all counseling would be in vain.


Hmmmm. Not sure about that Tulefel. I think I´d rather many of the men who write to me here kept their thoughts to themselves. rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 13, 2011 2:43 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
JAN_is: Hmmmm. Not sure about that Tulefel. I think I´d rather many of the men who write to me here kept their thoughts to themselves.


wave
Oh, they are just too shy to share their thoughts.

grin
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Oct 13, 2011 11:34 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
feelinglost: Lots of people just send one liners!!

Some like to be short and direct approach.laugh
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Oct 13, 2011 11:39 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
Tulefel: I do wander. For the most of the times, my impression is that I don’t understand anything.

Though I doubt that anyone’s advice would help here.

Internet is a medium for them who can express their thoughts in written. So if you can’t do that (even if you have thoughts), all counseling would be in vain.


It can be puzzling as you say some people prefer talking than writing. Some like pictures, links to music or poemsthumbs up
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Oct 13, 2011 11:40 PM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
JAN_is: Hmmmm. Not sure about that Tulefel. I think I´d rather many of the men who write to me here kept their thoughts to themselves.

I know what you mean I've had a few mails that went straight in the trash.rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 14, 2011 12:08 AM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
manOfewwords
manOfewwordsmanOfewwordsLongview, Texas USA30 Threads 756 Posts
as long as I've been doing it, I'm sure I'm doing it wrong devil
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Oct 14, 2011 5:36 AM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
as long as I've been doing it, I'm sure I'm doing it wrong[/quote
We can only be ourselvesprofessor beer
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Oct 14, 2011 6:36 AM CST Communicating on Internet Dating Sites
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
feelinglost: Lots of people just send one liners!!


I usually bail on the one liner people or the ones that say they can only discuss certain things. Losers . . .doh
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