Should I be mad? or even am I mad? (35)
ferrari75: Sweet heart your number one in your life and dont ever forget that.You need to think of yourself and put yourself first.I hope it doesnt but this situation may end up destroying you if you let it go on to long.My advice would be to air your problems with him and get some answers,then move on.I hope I havnt hurt your feelings.The very best of luck and I hope everything works out the way its ment to
ah u haven't hurt my feelings, I asked for clarification and its very kind of u to take time to answer a stranger.
It's always sound advice when u hear u should start putting yourself first, something I rarely do and have been told in the past to start doing .
muinteoir83: When the person I am seeing has erased msgs on his fb wall to "prevent his ex gf from seeing them and getting hurt".
That we have to leave a nightclub over the weekend coz his ex's bf saw us there.
That the ex and him talk every day, that she still wants him but he doesn't want her....
Or am I having a sensitive day??
Sometimes it feels like I'm protecting an ex's feelings, but u know what, maybe at the expense of my own feelings....or is that irrational?
That we have to leave a nightclub over the weekend coz his ex's bf saw us there.
That the ex and him talk every day, that she still wants him but he doesn't want her....
Or am I having a sensitive day??
Sometimes it feels like I'm protecting an ex's feelings, but u know what, maybe at the expense of my own feelings....or is that irrational?
I would tell him you are taking a break from it for a few weeks until he has it sorted, if he has ex issues then they are going to effect your relationship, i was in his position before and if the girl i was seeing had taken that route it may have worked instead it caused friction and mistrust
jimbo79: I would tell him you are taking a break from it for a few weeks until he has it sorted, if he has ex issues then they are going to effect your relationship, i was in his position before and if the girl i was seeing had taken that route it may have worked instead it caused friction and mistrust
very sound advice
fifitheminx: simple thing..remove from fb ..and go to places she wont be,.
what is this modern day obsession with keeping every goddamn ex on fb..
they are an ex for a reason.
what is this modern day obsession with keeping every goddamn ex on fb..
they are an ex for a reason.
fifitheminx: simple thing..remove from fb ..and go to places she wont be,.
what is this modern day obsession with keeping every goddamn ex on fb..
they are an ex for a reason.
what is this modern day obsession with keeping every goddamn ex on fb..
they are an ex for a reason.
That's avoiding the issue, not dealing with it. Remember, he talks to his ex every day on the phone
Glengirl: That's avoiding the issue, not dealing with it. Remember, he talks to his ex every day on the phone
yeah i find that odd..
she dumped him..why would he be afraid of her being upset hes moved on..
all a bit dodge in fairness..
fifitheminx: yeah i find that odd..
she dumped him..why would he be afraid of her being upset hes moved on..
all a bit dodge in fairness..
she dumped him..why would he be afraid of her being upset hes moved on..
all a bit dodge in fairness..
I think the 2 women should go out for a few drinks togther ,, knock out the middleman altoghether
muinteoir83: When the person I am seeing has erased msgs on his fb wall to "prevent his ex gf from seeing them and getting hurt".
That we have to leave a nightclub over the weekend coz his ex's bf saw us there.
That the ex and him talk every day, that she still wants him but he doesn't want her....
Or am I having a sensitive day??
Sometimes it feels like I'm protecting an ex's feelings, but u know what, maybe at the expense of my own feelings....or is that irrational?
That we have to leave a nightclub over the weekend coz his ex's bf saw us there.
That the ex and him talk every day, that she still wants him but he doesn't want her....
Or am I having a sensitive day??
Sometimes it feels like I'm protecting an ex's feelings, but u know what, maybe at the expense of my own feelings....or is that irrational?
Must say, your being very kind to him, What he is doing is wrong and I don't feel he has got over his ex. If he had he would be out enjoying his time with you and that he had met a special woman like you! And not worrying about who see him out! or whats on his facebook page!! Get rid of him and find yourself a man, and you will!!! that will treat you right! Best of luck!!
another cornation street
jaysis
jaysisger48: I think the 2 women should go out for a few drinks togther ,, knock out the middleman altoghether
lol u think like me..!
Green_Sleeves: I think the other posters have said what I would have said with regard your BF and the EX.
However, I'm just wondering, if youre in a relationship then why are you looking for 'dating' and theres no mention of you being in a relationship in your profile? Its a little unfair if someone were interested in you only to contact you and be told you actually have a bf
But, what do I know
However, I'm just wondering, if youre in a relationship then why are you looking for 'dating' and theres no mention of you being in a relationship in your profile? Its a little unfair if someone were interested in you only to contact you and be told you actually have a bf
But, what do I know
at last someone who writes what I am thinking!
(I had to delete the rest of my comment 'cos it was a bit too true and I am very grumpy at the moment!)
jesus snowy if someone patted me on the head right now in real life they would lose their hand 
muinteoir83: When the person I am seeing has erased msgs on his fb wall to "prevent his ex gf from seeing them and getting hurt".
That we have to leave a nightclub over the weekend coz his ex's bf saw us there.
That the ex and him talk every day, that she still wants him but he doesn't want her....
Or am I having a sensitive day??
Sometimes it feels like I'm protecting an ex's feelings, but u know what, maybe at the expense of my own feelings....or is that irrational?
That we have to leave a nightclub over the weekend coz his ex's bf saw us there.
That the ex and him talk every day, that she still wants him but he doesn't want her....
Or am I having a sensitive day??
Sometimes it feels like I'm protecting an ex's feelings, but u know what, maybe at the expense of my own feelings....or is that irrational?
Hi Again! I could not help but wonder whats the story with you and this guy? I assume from you message here! That you are both dating? If so? Are you both still on here? and is that why he keeps in contact with his ex? Surley if your both together? why be on here?
I must again say, its seems from what you say! He is not over his ex, and you are mad to be allowing contact every day! Unless there are kids involved and even then! Everyday contact is just not right if he really has moved on. You should talk everything out with him if you really care about him?? And you both do the right thing! And either move on together and off this site as a couple! or let him to be with his ex, which sounds like he wants, cause you will only get hurt! If you let him have his cake on both sides. Sorry but just being straight up and honest!
I hope you're waiting fot this reply!!!!!!!!!!!! But I wouldn't go out with a dog.
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I'd feel like that too. Inadequate and perhaps even suspicious and overlooked. Not a good feeling.
simple thing..remove from fb ..and go to places she wont be,.
what is this modern day obsession with keeping every goddamn ex on fb..
they are an ex for a reason.