What do you do? (20)
NavymuffinMontrose, Colorado USA8 Threads 730 PostsWhat do you do when you've attempted so many times at love.Some continue I'm ready to throw the towel in.But, Navy you're only 18.Yes, I know but, love is probably the only thing I'll give up on.Every time I try I get lead on or rejected.I don't know.I guess my point of this forum is have any of you tried so many times and given up and if, so how have you handled it?Sorry to be a sad bear.
------ This thread is Archived ------
You're way to young to be giving up. May be too young to be worried about it. (JMO)
Get involved w/your job/career. Plenty of time to find your mate.
Get involved w/your job/career. Plenty of time to find your mate.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Hang in there and don't give up 
------ This thread is Archived ------
Navymuffin: What do you do when you've attempted so many times at love.Some continue I'm ready to throw the towel in.But, Navy you're only 18.Yes, I know but, love is probably the only thing I'll give up on.Every time I try I get lead on or rejected.I don't know.I guess my point of this forum is have any of you tried so many times and given up and if, so how have you handled it?Sorry to be a sad bear.
love finds you,its not some thing you can look for!------ This thread is Archived ------
Well if you wouldnt give up on other things in life, why on earth would you ever give up on love? Instead of chasing it so hard, let love find you. In the end the more you chase things, the more you chase them away 
------ This thread is Archived ------
I just cant help but think that in a few years you will remember these words and feel like a big fool because by that time you will have found love.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Only took me 49 years but I have found someone to spend the rest of my life with. I have never been married but that may change in the near future.
Believe me, you will find someone too and sooner than you think. Keep the faith!
Believe me, you will find someone too and sooner than you think. Keep the faith!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Hello Navy, Everyone did such a Great Job at explaining it, That all I have to do is say, Good Luck!
------ This thread is Archived ------
mbcasey: Only took me 49 years but I have found someone to spend the rest of my life with. I have never been married but that may change in the near future.
Believe me, you will find someone too and sooner than you think. Keep the faith!
Believe me, you will find someone too and sooner than you think. Keep the faith!
Hey mbcasey
Congradulations, Hope that works out Great For You...
------ This thread is Archived ------
Navy dont give up on finding love,i met the love of my life when i 37yrs old, at 37 i thought i would never fine the love of my life
off all places i met her at the car wash, long story.Dont be in a hurry enjoy yourself love well fine you, when it does woo. Talk about harmonic connection of soul
off all places i met her at the car wash, long story.Dont be in a hurry enjoy yourself love well fine you, when it does woo. Talk about harmonic connection of soul
------ This thread is Archived ------
Navymuffin: What do you do when you've attempted so many times at love.Some continue I'm ready to throw the towel in.But, Navy you're only 18.Yes, I know but, love is probably the only thing I'll give up on.Every time I try I get lead on or rejected.I don't know.I guess my point of this forum is have any of you tried so many times and given up and if, so how have you handled it?Sorry to be a sad bear.
Muffie, I know that you don't mean to give up on love. I say this because you have a lot of love in your heart, and you know this.
To give up on love, you will become bitter, angry, cold, empty and hard to be around with. You'd also want others to feel the same as you do and you certainly don't want that, do you?
Don't try at finding love, don't go chasing it. Because love is like a rainbow, when you try to chase after it...it always eludes you.
Instead, turn your attention to the love within you. Learn to love yourself first, respect yourself, your love, because you have it to give to others.
Do it for yourself--others will take notice!
------ This thread is Archived ------
YouMeUs: Muffie, I know that you don't mean to give up on love. I say this because you have a lot of love in your heart, and you know this.
To give up on love, you will become bitter, angry, cold, empty and hard to be around with. You'd also want others to feel the same as you do and you certainly don't want that, do you?
Don't try at finding love, don't go chasing it. Because love is like a rainbow, when you try to chase after it...it always eludes you.
Instead, turn your attention to the love within you. Learn to love yourself first, respect yourself, your love, because you have it to give to others.Well, I feel like if I love myself I feel selfish.idk I like to help others find love.I seem to have trouble with it myself.Idk...I'm tired of being lead on,rejected and other weird trickery.So it's gonna be hard for me to trust an interest.
Do it for yourself--others will take notice!
To give up on love, you will become bitter, angry, cold, empty and hard to be around with. You'd also want others to feel the same as you do and you certainly don't want that, do you?
Don't try at finding love, don't go chasing it. Because love is like a rainbow, when you try to chase after it...it always eludes you.
Instead, turn your attention to the love within you. Learn to love yourself first, respect yourself, your love, because you have it to give to others.Well, I feel like if I love myself I feel selfish.idk I like to help others find love.I seem to have trouble with it myself.Idk...I'm tired of being lead on,rejected and other weird trickery.So it's gonna be hard for me to trust an interest.
Do it for yourself--others will take notice!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Navymuffin: What do you do when you've attempted so many times at love.Some continue I'm ready to throw the towel in.But, Navy you're only 18.Yes, I know but, love is probably the only thing I'll give up on.Every time I try I get lead on or rejected.I don't know.I guess my point of this forum is have any of you tried so many times and given up and if, so how have you handled it?Sorry to be a sad bear.
you should learn your lesson and learn it well
------ This thread is Archived ------
Navymuffin: What do you do when you've attempted so many times at love.Some continue I'm ready to throw the towel in.But, Navy you're only 18.Yes, I know but, love is probably the only thing I'll give up on.Every time I try I get lead on or rejected.I don't know.I guess my point of this forum is have any of you tried so many times and given up and if, so how have you handled it?Sorry to be a sad bear.
Clean your closet and make sure your ducks are in a roll, and you will have perfection in your love, as long as your mate has the same!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Navymuffin: Well, I feel like if I love myself I feel selfish.idk I like to help others find love.I seem to have trouble with it myself.Idk...I'm tired of being lead on,rejected and other weird trickery.So it's gonna be hard for me to trust an interest.
To love yourself first, ensures that others will also love YOU. It increases your self-esteam, your self-worth. It can only be selfish if you choose for it to be.After reading some of your replies, I can see that you are hurt. Take some time to heal and remove the bittered doubts. You're only expending negative energies, and no one finds that attractive. It's the positive energies that most people can't resist!
And being lead on is never a good feeling, but, it is a learning factor in which you can take advantage of to better yourself.
The more you learn, the more you'll be able to safe-guard your heart. And once the right man comes along, you will be ready for him. He will come to you!
As for feeling rejected, welcome to the club! We all get rejected at least once in our lives (though I can no longer count the many times I've been rejected.)
But I see that as; There is a reason for everything. Look at rejection as being something that wasn't meant to be. Obviously the rejector wasn't the right one for you! The same applies for anyone that you may reject.
That you have noticed the "weird trickery", I'd say you're well on your way to establishing the avoidance if it, as you are more aware of its capabilities.
Trusting an interest is never easy, and of course caution should always be in the fore-front while first getting to know someone. That isn't to say that you should pick someone apart, trying to find reasons not to trust them.
The more experienced you get, the easier it will become to know when and who to trust. It will be easier to see the red flags, even without having to look for them.
------ This thread is Archived ------
YouMeUs: To love yourself first, ensures that others will also love YOU. It increases your self-esteam, your self-worth. It can only be selfish if you choose for it to be.
After reading some of your replies, I can see that you are hurt. Take some time to heal and remove the bittered doubts. You're only expending negative energies, and no one finds that attractive. It's the positive energies that most people can't resist!
And being lead on is never a good feeling, but, it is a learning factor in which you can take advantage of to better yourself.
The more you learn, the more you'll be able to safe-guard your heart. And once the right man comes along, you will be ready for him. He will come to you!
As for feeling rejected, welcome to the club! We all get rejected at least once in our lives (though I can no longer count the many times I've been rejected.)
But I see that as; There is a reason for everything. Look at rejection as being something that wasn't meant to be. Obviously the rejector wasn't the right one for you! The same applies for anyone that you may reject.
That you have noticed the "weird trickery", I'd say you're well on your way to establishing the avoidance if it, as you are more aware of its capabilities.
Trusting an interest is never easy, and of course caution should always be in the fore-front while first getting to know someone. That isn't to say that you should pick someone apart, trying to find reasons not to trust them.
The more experienced you get, the easier it will become to know when and who to trust. It will be easier to see the red flags, even without having to look for them.
Idk...I'm just gonna be out of the scene for a while.After reading some of your replies, I can see that you are hurt. Take some time to heal and remove the bittered doubts. You're only expending negative energies, and no one finds that attractive. It's the positive energies that most people can't resist!
And being lead on is never a good feeling, but, it is a learning factor in which you can take advantage of to better yourself.
The more you learn, the more you'll be able to safe-guard your heart. And once the right man comes along, you will be ready for him. He will come to you!
As for feeling rejected, welcome to the club! We all get rejected at least once in our lives (though I can no longer count the many times I've been rejected.)
But I see that as; There is a reason for everything. Look at rejection as being something that wasn't meant to be. Obviously the rejector wasn't the right one for you! The same applies for anyone that you may reject.
That you have noticed the "weird trickery", I'd say you're well on your way to establishing the avoidance if it, as you are more aware of its capabilities.
Trusting an interest is never easy, and of course caution should always be in the fore-front while first getting to know someone. That isn't to say that you should pick someone apart, trying to find reasons not to trust them.
The more experienced you get, the easier it will become to know when and who to trust. It will be easier to see the red flags, even without having to look for them.
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
s*xual skills
See It All The Time
Unions support Democrats!
The Real Stormy Story
Kultur-multur
Why is this shameful?
Are the ads on here as phony as some of the profiles?
One week of the most outrageous GOP leadership!
your favorite topic?
Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
8,279 Views
19 Comments
Created: Dec 2011
Last Viewed: Apr 25
Last Commented: Dec 2011
0 Likes