One of my best friends aproched me with a suggestion. His girl friend since six years was not good enough any more. He had found some one new to cheat with and their relationship had beem rocky so to say for year or so. Still living together but hardly communicating. I had an apartment that was emty so he wanted me to rent it to her and at the same time seduce her. Of course he wanted me to set the whole thing up so that he wouldn't be the bad guy. She was a friend of mine to and I felt sorry for her so I agreed. I showed her the apartment, had some tea and ended up in bed with her. She was quick to brake the news to my friend boasting how good lover I was and on top of that well endowed. My friend got kind of upset with me! It was his idea!!! I guess it's called a backfire. My point to this story is that I think it's very common that people stay in relationships while searching because at the end of the day it's pretty comfartable to have someone at home. Maybe it's actually the lover who gets cheated upon and not the spouse. Until the marriage/relationship is over.
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jovisst: ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? What are you writing?
LOL ;-))) that means you are so quick to fall for a woman :-))
Sister28: LOL ;-))) that means you are so quick to fall for a woman :-))
Nah! You didn't understand! I knew her for 6 years or so. Liked her a lot as a friend. I spent a month in Sweden with her, she spent a month in Miami with me. She was going to Navy school and later became a captain and I was living in the states. Distance to far and back then, no internet, just snail mail. Didn't even have a phone. So that relationship gradually went bust.
jovisst: Nah! You didn't understand! I knew her for 6 years or so. Liked her a lot as a friend. I spent a month in Sweden with her, she spent a month in Miami with me. She was going to Navy school and later became a captain and I was living in the states. Distance to far and back then, no internet, just snail mail. Didn't even have a phone. So that relationship gradually went bust.
okay Jovisst, :-))) im very bad at english lol, cant understand why i read yr 1st posting, i think like that way :-) lol ..
Jovisst is Forrest Hump, .. I will drive you crazy sometimes and bore you to death other times. I drive to fast and watch to much TV. Don't get me started on politics or enviroment, I'm like the energizer bunny, I will never stop.
OK if you are still interested after checking my profile out. Write me a note! Because I'm probably not going to make first contact. " lol hahaha :-))))
Sister28: okay Jovisst, :-))) im very bad at english lol, cant understand why i read yr 1st posting, i think like that way :-) lol ..
Jovisst is Forrest Hump, .. I will drive you crazy sometimes and bore you to death other times. I drive to fast and watch to much TV. Don't get me started on politics or enviroment, I'm like the energizer bunny, I will never stop.
OK if you are still interested after checking my profile out. Write me a note! Because I'm probably not going to make first contact. " lol hahaha :-))))
Wow! Did you remember that so perfectly or did you copy and paste from my profile. LOL
2intrigued: At the expense of losing a "good friend"
Numbero uno is still my friend! Numbero dos wich this thread was originally about, I gradually lost contact with mostly because of my relocation. He visited me afterwards and we went deep sea fishing together. We Swedes are not that dramatical. We are like a big family. LOL.
jovisst: Numbero uno is still my friend! Numbero dos wich this thread was originally about, I gradually lost contact with mostly because of my relocation. He visited me afterwards and we went deep sea fishing together. We Swedes are not that dramatical. We are like a big family. LOL.
Wonderful but it seems deranged to me...to each his own
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His girl friend since six years was not good enough any more.
He had found some one new to cheat with and their relationship had beem rocky so to say for year or so. Still living together but hardly communicating.
I had an apartment that was emty so he wanted me to rent it to her and at the same time seduce her. Of course he wanted me to set the whole thing up so that he wouldn't be the bad guy.
She was a friend of mine to and I felt sorry for her so I agreed.
I showed her the apartment, had some tea and ended up in bed with her.
She was quick to brake the news to my friend boasting how good lover I was and on top of that well endowed.
My friend got kind of upset with me! It was his idea!!!
I guess it's called a backfire.
My point to this story is that I think it's very common that people
stay in relationships while searching because at the end of the day it's pretty comfartable to have someone at home.
Maybe it's actually the lover who gets cheated upon and not the spouse.
Until the marriage/relationship is over.