HELP (23)

first date in ages tonight any advice especially from the lads ,,like do,s and donts on a girls part ,,
but all advice welcome

aww great, atleast some of us get dates...lol
Just be yourself and relax...dont talk too much and stay on subjects your most comfortable with(dnt talk about politics or ressecion)...and if you dont like the guy, please just get up and walk away..dont waste your time...... Good luck :)

Don't talk about your ex all night.

Just kidding be yourself and hope it goes well.

DO laugh at his jokes
DONT talk about an ex
DO smile
DONT look at your phone
DO tell him he looks good
DONT stick around if he's a gee-bag
DO have fun
DONT get drunk

bit harsh! surely most people with an ounce of humanity in them would stay a bit and chat and see what the person is like?
Unless the guy is a total pig, I would stay and see what craic there was in him. I could never be that dismissive and cruel to just get up and leave because I don't like the packaging!

to blazing fire: I hope you have a great night.....see it as a bit of fun with someone you must at least like a little if you have organised to meet up....hope it goes really well

all dates are different so there are no set rules, personally i don't mind hearing about someones ex as it gives an insight into where they are coming from, it also shows an openness just don't go on about them all night, do ask questions it's nice to know your date is interested in your story, other than that just play it cool

Hmmm, let's see. .

Tell him you like his perfume and ask him where he gets it.

Try to fart audibly a few times, shows you're comfortable around him.

Talk about your kids and show alot of pictures. If you don't have kids, borrow pictures of a friends, or relatives kids and insist you're their favourite Aunt.

Stare at his shoes long enough for him to notice, then ask him how much they cost.

Tell him you never put out on the first date unless the guy is loaded. That way he knows you've got class.

Ask him where he sees himself in 5 years. Then ask him where he sees you in 5 years. That'll quickly clear up whether or not he has any psychic ability.

Tell him you don't expect a gift for Valentines Day, but that expensive gifts usually show that people care - follow that up with a long silence. Look at his shoes again if you must.

Make sure to tell him that you don't want to get tied down too soon - You usually leave the S+M for the third date.

A few sambuca shorts to look sharp
Eat lot of raw garlic and onions, loads of men love smell women,