this guy started to talk to me a few days back.i told him straight out that i had to use the computer at the library.he left a message two days ago.i wasn't able to use the computer untill today.in his message,since i didn't reply quick enough,he told me to not write to him any more.......should i try to explain or just forget it?????
If he's not patient enough, and understanding of the situation you can do better than him and he's not worth your time. Keep your chin up, and move forward!
It is most likely that it will happen again and next time it may be something else .. Could you put up with it ..? He will be needing a lot of explaining .. If you can put up with it .. Yes . May be that he is a nice guy with a little experience . You need to know him a little bit more to make a definite decision ..What do you think ?
Mike1162Over the Rainbow, Pennsylvania USA1,694 posts
Yes, explain it too him and be sure to remind him that you indeed told him about this. Then say something to the effect of: I'm glad we had the opportunity to meet and I will not bother you again.
SirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK4,138 posts
Hello...
Prof and Ron are right, this guy has judged you in a cruel way without giving you a chance, he is either very childish or else controlling, neither of which are condusive to any sort of relationship.
when the road is rough in the early stages, it doesnt often get better. he may also have another reason for calling it off, as well. shake the dust from yor hem & dance becuz its monday!
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