women with kids (54)
anniebaby: So would it stop you if you really liked the girl I'm just curious
probably not, id give things a go.. i love kids and kids love me but been able to give them back is fine but when ur in a relationship with a girl who has kids there in your life for aslong as your with that girl.. i suppose a short answer for you is i dont no until i was in the situation
Theoneucanthate: probably not, id give things a go.. i love kids and kids love me but been able to give them back is fine but when ur in a relationship with a girl who has kids there in your life for aslong as your with that girl.. i suppose a short answer for you is i dont no until i was in the situation
Well I don't know about everyone but lots of people dont introduce the kids to early for that reason
if it dont work no one gets to badly hurt
anniebaby: Well I don't know about everyone but lots of people dont introduce the kids to early for that reason
if it dont work no one gets to badly hurt
yep i no...i no a girl in particular, gorgeous girl who has a lovely lil one year old kid and the father jus ditched her and the kid because he couldnt ditch his booze and drug lifestyle.. shes on her own now, often speak to her but she said like what u said, when she gets with a guy again she will make sure hes right for her and is intent on staying around before introducing him to her lil ladif it dont work no one gets to badly hurt
Did it twice over the years and in both cases the women expected me to pay for the rearing of the kid when the father(s) didn't pay a red cent.
To be honest I wouldn't ever feel the same about a kid who wasn't mine anyway so won't go down that route again.
To be honest I wouldn't ever feel the same about a kid who wasn't mine anyway so won't go down that route again.
Theoneucanthate: met a girl out last night and started chatting to her about different things and she said to me that every lad runs a mile when she tells them that shes a single mother so the question is guys, would ye date a girl that has a child/children?
Obviously this doesnt apply to me now as my children are almost grown and are independant.
But when I first separated they were 2, 5 and 8, was never actually an issue with anyone I dated.
Maybe its an age thing, I was in my 30s at that stage and the majority of guys I dated had children also.
stanley8m: I think lions have the right idea, when they meet a lioness with cubs for another lion, they eat them and that encourages the lioness to devote more time to her new relationship..
Jesus that made laugh out loudTheoneucanthate: met a girl out last night and started chatting to her about different things and she said to me that every lad runs a mile when she tells them that shes a single mother so the question is guys, would ye date a girl that has a child/children?
Never bothered me.
If you pretend to like the kids the rewards are massive
Glatlol: Obviously this doesnt apply to me now as my children are almost grown and are independant.
But when I first separated they were 2, 5 and 8, was never actually an issue with anyone I dated.
Maybe its an age thing, I was in my 30s at that stage and the majority of guys I dated had children also.
cool.. it prob is an age thing. would you date a man now that doesnt have kids?But when I first separated they were 2, 5 and 8, was never actually an issue with anyone I dated.
Maybe its an age thing, I was in my 30s at that stage and the majority of guys I dated had children also.
Theoneucanthate: cool.. it prob is an age thing. would you date a man now that doesnt have kids?
Would do and have done.
I wouldnt however date a guy who had young children, been there and done that, time for me now.
anniebaby: So would it stop you if you really liked the girl I'm just curious
If the young lad had some cool X-Box games, I'd consider it.
MADDOG69: If the young lad had some cool X-Box games, I'd consider it.
Boys and their toys
Glatlol: Would do and have done.
I wouldnt however date a guy who had young children, been there and done that, time for me now.
yep i understand that!! I wouldnt however date a guy who had young children, been there and done that, time for me now.
its much easier for a single mother to date a bloke that has kids as he understands the planning that goes into making time for each other and making sure kids are looked after.. i dont think i could date someone that doesnt have kids.. suppose thats just my opinion..
but if he was to make the effort and understand that he doesnt come first then
but if he was to make the effort and understand that he doesnt come first then
yummyMum84: its much easier for a single mother to date a bloke that has kids as he understands the planning that goes into making time for each other and making sure kids are looked after.. i dont think i could date someone that doesnt have kids.. suppose thats just my opinion..
but if he was to make the effort and understand that he doesnt come first then
i have to come first, u do no that dont u but if he was to make the effort and understand that he doesnt come first then
Theoneucanthate: i have to come first, u do no that dont u
its much better if the woman come's first 
baldydude: its much better if the woman come's first
yummyMum84: i do know that... but im sorry..you have to take a ticket and wait..
ok ill stand in the line but i havnt all day 
baldydude: its much better if the woman come's first
The lad obviously thinks it's a race. Probably trying to beat his personal best.
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So would it stop you if you really liked the girl I'm just curious