Wheelchair bound (35)
Cheers all 
I'd be a hypocrite If I said I would dimiss the idea completely seeing as I do have a disability. For me it would have more to do with chemistry and the person's attitude. Some people can be a bit self absorbed, bitter (angry at the world because they have a disability) and full of self pity. I know that sounds harsh of me to say that but its true. I would have no time for someone like that whether they had a disability or not. If their disability is rudeness or ignorance then I think I'd pass. The thing is a lot of people have a disability in some way whether it be dyslexia or poor eyesight or something more serious.
I think its hard to know how you would react unless you are faced with that situation. Some people can't handle it and some don't see it as a problem.
The other thing that I wanted to point out is that it could happen to anyone, whether it be from a car accident or be struck down with a disease or illness (God forbid). Its a morbid thought but its true. I wouldn't like to think I would judge someone on the basis of that.
I don't want to sound flippant but it's all relevant to situations - I have 2 small kids and my partner has 2 stroppy teens and an older child. Plus the ex'es and the families. And we live opposite sides of Ireland, trying to look for an eventual "family home".
Compared to what seems to be facing us some days - a wheelchair? That's easy.
I think its hard to know how you would react unless you are faced with that situation. Some people can't handle it and some don't see it as a problem.
The other thing that I wanted to point out is that it could happen to anyone, whether it be from a car accident or be struck down with a disease or illness (God forbid). Its a morbid thought but its true. I wouldn't like to think I would judge someone on the basis of that.
I don't want to sound flippant but it's all relevant to situations - I have 2 small kids and my partner has 2 stroppy teens and an older child. Plus the ex'es and the families. And we live opposite sides of Ireland, trying to look for an eventual "family home".
Compared to what seems to be facing us some days - a wheelchair? That's easy.
sally101: I don't want to sound flippant but it's all relevant to situations - I have 2 small kids and my partner has 2 stroppy teens and an older child. Plus the ex'es and the families. And we live opposite sides of Ireland, trying to look for an eventual "family home".
Compared to what seems to be facing us some days - a wheelchair? That's easy.
Compared to what seems to be facing us some days - a wheelchair? That's easy.
Exactly
Life is full of obstacles. I think its how you deal with them is what counts.
There was a regular poster on here in a wheelchair. I met her at one of the meets and she was funny, witty, intelligent and gorgeous. Run off the site unfortunately because of a troll. Can't remember her handle ?
Hard to know what I would do Uno but I would never rule anything out.
Hard to know what I would do Uno but I would never rule anything out.
vinny1967: There was a regular poster on here in a wheelchair. I met her at one of the meets and she was funny, witty, intelligent and gorgeous. Run off the site unfortunately because of a troll. Can't remember her handle ?
Hard to know what I would do Uno but I would never rule anything out.
it was flick vinny, lovely girl all settled down now i believeHard to know what I would do Uno but I would never rule anything out.
vinny1967: There was a regular poster on here in a wheelchair. I met her at one of the meets and she was funny, witty, intelligent and gorgeous. Run off the site unfortunately because of a troll. Can't remember her handle ?
Hard to know what I would do Uno but I would never rule anything out.
Hard to know what I would do Uno but I would never rule anything out.
I know who you mean - really pretty girl - flick something?
jimbo79: it was flick vinny, lovely girl all settled down now i believe
yup shes all settled down and has a baby on the way now too 
DUBLINGUY1973: Exactly
Life is full of obstacles. I think its how you deal with them is what counts.
Life is full of obstacles. I think its how you deal with them is what counts.
Yeah - Manchester United fans would agree with you.
salanky: yup shes all settled down and has a baby on the way now too
yeah delighted for herYeah Flick
Ah that's brilliant as I thought she was lovely with a cracking sense of humour. Delighted for her.
In saying that she cant have been all there being a ManUre supporter
Ah that's brilliant as I thought she was lovely with a cracking sense of humour. Delighted for her.
In saying that she cant have been all there being a ManUre supporter
I no another lad who was disabled and he commited suicide! Couldn't cope with the illness at all and just ended his life! guess some people can cope and some cant
vinny1967: Yeah Flick
Ah that's brilliant as I thought she was lovely with a cracking sense of humour. Delighted for her.
In saying that she cant have been all there being a ManUre supporter
shes a smashing girl alright, delighted its all going well for her Ah that's brilliant as I thought she was lovely with a cracking sense of humour. Delighted for her.
In saying that she cant have been all there being a ManUre supporter
salanky: shes a smashing girl alright, delighted its all going well for her
that is great to hear.
salanky: yup shes all settled down and has a baby on the way now too
Ah, absolutely delighted for her, top girl and a looker, dead sound even though she is a Biffo like,,,
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I dont think so.