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jac379: Ahaa...so your trust issues go back farther than your ex.
So, it might be possible you picked someone untrustworthy to share your life with because you were on familiar territory and it was less scary that spending your life with someone trustworthy - maybe you simply don't know how to deal with that, eh?
Because what you're doing with this this rant is identifying yourself as someone vulnerable to untrustworthy people and untrustworthy people won't mind copping your distrust, resentment and bitterness becuase they'll be on familiar territory, too.
Step off the moving stairs and try a different path...
So, it might be possible you picked someone untrustworthy to share your life with because you were on familiar territory and it was less scary that spending your life with someone trustworthy - maybe you simply don't know how to deal with that, eh?
Because what you're doing with this this rant is identifying yourself as someone vulnerable to untrustworthy people and untrustworthy people won't mind copping your distrust, resentment and bitterness becuase they'll be on familiar territory, too.
Step off the moving stairs and try a different path...
Are you a qualified psychologist to make these assumptions?
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lankycrewman: You could be right, but at least I am trying to find someone different. I have always took the hard way around, in life, the easy road is to easy and I have seen a lot of marriages break because it was given to them, and yes also because of the green backs.
Well, if you can take the skinny butt kicking you've taken in this thread and use it to your advantage, there's no reason why you can't take your other life's experiences and use them to your advantage.
Take the learning, leave the crap behind, go join in some silly threads and/or debates and start a new phase of learning, eh?
It can be hard work reprogramming your mind, but a helluva lot of fun, too. :)
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jac379: Well, if you can take the skinny butt kicking you've taken in this thread and use it to your advantage, there's no reason why you can't take your other life's experiences and use them to your advantage.
Take the learning, leave the crap behind, go join in some silly threads and/or debates and start a new phase of learning, eh?
It can be hard work reprogramming your mind, but a helluva lot of fun, too. :)
Take the learning, leave the crap behind, go join in some silly threads and/or debates and start a new phase of learning, eh?
It can be hard work reprogramming your mind, but a helluva lot of fun, too. :)
It has been fun and I see that there is more out there than what I am used to. The first thing I have to do is shut down, reboot and start from scratch, which is easier said than down. You have been a blast and I am happy to call you a friend, and would like to converse with you when we can, on here of course. I can always used a swift kick to get me jump started, lmsao.
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I would imagine she´s just someone giving an opinion and trying to help a fellow human being.
This is just a friendship site......trying to understand other people´s problems. If someone needs professional help I am quite sure it is available in their own surroundings.
This is just a friendship site......trying to understand other people´s problems. If someone needs professional help I am quite sure it is available in their own surroundings.
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hoolet: I would imagine she´s just someone giving an opinion and trying to help a fellow human being.
This is just a friendship site......trying to understand other people´s problems. If someone needs professional help I am quite sure it is available in their own surroundings.
This is just a friendship site......trying to understand other people´s problems. If someone needs professional help I am quite sure it is available in their own surroundings.
Thank you and all I was doing was letting off some steam, so maybe I can find a very decent lady. Sometimes the best Drs are closer than a few words away.
Again, Thanks for the concern.
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I personally think,"Jac", has analysed and advised the OP,to the best of her ability,and has nothing to do if her assumptions are,from a qualiffied psychologist or not.
butterfly0123: Are you a qualified psychologist to make these assumptions?
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butterfly0123: Are you a qualified psychologist to make these assumptions?
Don't worry, I'm not charging for my time and expertise. I'm on a dating website forum.
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lankycrewman: It has been fun and I see that there is more out there than what I am used to. The first thing I have to do is shut down, reboot and start from scratch, which is easier said than down. You have been a blast and I am happy to call you a friend, and would like to converse with you when we can, on here of course. I can always used a swift kick to get me jump started, lmsao.
I think you're going to find this place fun. Welcome aboard.
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Never mind her axe,,,her meat cleaver,am scared off.-
montemonte: As long as you're not grabbing that axe that you have on standby, we will be safe.....I think...
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chris27292729: Never mind her axe,,,her meat cleaver,am scared off.-
It is only a knife, but now a metabo with a metal cutting blade on it I am scared of but also respect it.
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lankycrewman: Chopping up things that wilt, nice thought and a very vivid picture.
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montemonte: Jac, what have you created.....
A very cut loose monster, and loving it, now I am on my way.
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montemonte: Jac, what have you created.....
Mayhem.
Did you expect something different...?
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jac379: Mayhem.
Did you expect something different...?
Did you expect something different...?
Is this any better than when we got started, because this feels good, lmsao
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lankycrewman: Is this any better than when we got started, because this feels good, lmsao
Just the ticket, old bean.
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jac379: Just the ticket, old bean.
I might be old but now I am filling up with joy and laughter, I just needed a jumpstart, or a swift kick to get me going again, and you done that part. Now to enjoy the ride.
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lankycrewman: I might be old but now I am filling up with joy and laughter, I just needed a jumpstart, or a swift kick to get me going again, and you done that part. Now to enjoy the ride.
Oh my, you animal.....
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montemonte: Oh my, you animal.....
BAHHH, do you like me now, lmsao. I wonder how many people will enjoy this, lol.
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jac379: Mayhem.
Did you expect something different...?
Did you expect something different...?
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So, it might be possible you picked someone untrustworthy to share your life with because you were on familiar territory and it was less scary that spending your life with someone trustworthy - maybe you simply don't know how to deal with that, eh?
Because what you're doing with this this rant is identifying yourself as someone vulnerable to untrustworthy people and untrustworthy people won't mind copping your distrust, resentment and bitterness becuase they'll be on familiar territory, too.
Step off the moving stairs and try a different path...
You could be right, but at least I am trying to find someone different. I have always took the hard way around, in life, the easy road is to easy and I have seen a lot of marriages break because it was given to them, and yes also because of the green backs.