ignorance (107)

Nov 28, 2012 4:52 PM CST ignorance
the_whistler
the_whistlerthe_whistlercastlebar, Mayo Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 618 Posts
Ive given up..lol I rarely send messages anymore.Whats the point when people dont reply.Nah doesnt bother me but confused , why do people sign up if they just aint interested in making an effort to reply to a message. I find it really bizarre as Id talk to the grass. Ive a friend who encounters the exact same .

So whats the story ? Ive a feeling its just an ego boost to receive a message and not bother to reply..frustrated confused mumbling ha ha
Nov 28, 2012 4:56 PM CST ignorance
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
the_whistler: Ive given up..lol I rarely send messages anymore.Whats the point when people dont reply.Nah doesnt bother me but confused , why do people sign up if they just aint interested in making an effort to reply to a message. I find it really bizarre as Id talk to the grass. Ive a friend who encounters the exact same .

So whats the story ? Ive a feeling its just an ego boost to receive a message and not bother to reply.. ha ha
pal these sites work for serious dating for the odd few! Don't get ur hopes up! get out and mingle with those lovely mayo ladies grin
Nov 28, 2012 4:58 PM CST ignorance
the_whistler: Ive given up..lol I rarely send messages anymore.Whats the point when people dont reply.Nah doesnt bother me but confused , why do people sign up if they just aint interested in making an effort to reply to a message. I find it really bizarre as Id talk to the grass. Ive a friend who encounters the exact same .

So whats the story ? Ive a feeling its just an ego boost to receive a message and not bother to reply.. ha ha


No point in wasting time talking to strangers that you have no interest in...that's my view on it dunno
Nov 28, 2012 4:58 PM CST ignorance
jenny68
jenny68jenny68Kildare, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 1,375 Posts
Well from a womans point of view, I recieve very few msgs from anyone in Ireland...But get loads from the States all who write like english is a second language, plus there all widowed looking for their soul mate and distance doenst matter...One even told me I was a beautiful raven haired goddess rolling on the floor laughing his copy and paste went astray somewhere...
Nov 28, 2012 4:59 PM CST ignorance
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
The big one to besides attraction is distance!
Nov 28, 2012 5:04 PM CST ignorance
fast_and_furious: pal these sites work for serious dating for the odd few! Don't get ur hopes up! get out and mingle with those lovely mayo ladies


well if the mayo men are as shy as the mayo men then we will all be here a long time wave
Nov 28, 2012 5:04 PM CST ignorance
the_whistler
the_whistlerthe_whistlercastlebar, Mayo Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 618 Posts
jenny68: Well from a womans point of view, I recieve very few msgs from anyone in Ireland...But get loads from the States all who write like english is a second language, plus there all widowed looking for their soul mate and distance doenst matter...One even told me I was a beautiful raven haired goddess his copy and paste went astray somewhere...
ive far away messages blocked coz its just scammers ..id rather not get their mail, i aint that desperate ha ha
Nov 28, 2012 5:10 PM CST ignorance
the_whistler
the_whistlerthe_whistlercastlebar, Mayo Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 618 Posts
if it was all about visual attraction why doesnt everyone have a pic up ? Ive been on here a fair while and see that most of the people are on here a long time too , just curious thats all , as i say doesnt bother me , just highlighting the fact that i think a non reply is ignorant
Nov 28, 2012 5:13 PM CST ignorance
the_whistler: if it was all about visual attraction why doesnt everyone have a pic up ? Ive been on here a fair while and see that most of the people are on here a long time too , just curious thats all , as i say doesnt bother me , just highlighting the fact that i think a non reply is ignorant


I totally agree, it shows ignorance, i always reply to mail but have the overseas ones blocked.
Nov 28, 2012 5:25 PM CST ignorance
Serenity4two
Serenity4twoSerenity4twoDonegal, Ireland22 Threads 4,645 Posts
the_whistler: Ive given up..lol I rarely send messages anymore.Whats the point when people dont reply.Nah doesnt bother me but confused , why do people sign up if they just aint interested in making an effort to reply to a message. I find it really bizarre as Id talk to the grass. Ive a friend who encounters the exact same .

So whats the story ? Ive a feeling its just an ego boost to receive a message and not bother to reply.. ha ha


Hello Whistler ..
you can probably guess my response --and that is there is absolutely no excuse for ignorance or bad manners -
I think it's incredible rude that some people haven't replied to your messages ,
but i would say , , don't loose heart , and don't stop messaging --there are still some polite women out there thumbs up
I wish you all the very best in finding your special lady in the near future thumbs up
Nov 28, 2012 5:26 PM CST ignorance
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
Pal I said it before and ill say it again, women are unbelievably fussy on the net and I don't mean with looks when it cones to dating!do u mail mostly mayo women
Nov 28, 2012 5:29 PM CST ignorance
fast_and_furious: Pal I said it before and ill say it again, women are unbelievably fussy on the net and I don't mean with looks when it cones to dating!do u mail mostly mayo women


have to agree
demanding things like manners, decencey & intelligent conversation
these women, they have some nerve!!!!
girls huh girls
i just dont understand them
Nov 28, 2012 5:31 PM CST ignorance
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
WadeWilson: have to agree
demanding things like manners, decencey & intelligent conversation
these women, they have some nerve!!!!
girls huh girls
i just dont understand them
ye Wilson thats it
Nov 28, 2012 5:34 PM CST ignorance
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
WadeWilson: have to agree
demanding things like manners, decencey & intelligent conversation
these women, they have some nerve!!!!
girls huh girls
i just dont understand them


Oh, but we do understand you Wade... wink
Nov 28, 2012 5:35 PM CST ignorance
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
KNenagh: You're right then, if someone writes me a nice message with a bit of effort put into it, I do mail back, thanking this person for a nice message.

Don't loose heart, you need a tough skin on here.
u need a brain transplant if using here for serious laugh
Nov 28, 2012 5:37 PM CST ignorance
KNenagh: Oh, but we do understand you Wade...
Nov 28, 2012 5:37 PM CST ignorance
KNenagh: Oh, but we do understand you Wade...
Nov 28, 2012 5:38 PM CST ignorance
KNenagh: Oh, but we do understand you Wade...


if only i could meet someone as intelligent & pretty as yourolling on the floor laughing blushing
Nov 28, 2012 5:41 PM CST ignorance
the_whistler
the_whistlerthe_whistlercastlebar, Mayo Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 618 Posts
KNenagh: You're right then, if someone writes me a nice message with a bit of effort put into it, I do mail back, thanking this person for a nice message.

Don't loose heart, you need a tough skin on here.
i aint a bit disheartened ..really !! but my point is why bother if no progress ? same people here for years, pure waste of time , if people were more open minded maybe we wouldnt be here seeing the same people in a year time ..ha ha but if people dont give each other the chance , its a no go for anyone.
Nov 28, 2012 5:50 PM CST ignorance
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
@ the whistler and kit:
When I started I met a good few for a coffee. Outcome of that: 2/3 of the guys just tried for a ONS even though I made it clear beforehand that I had no interest in that, 2 guys lied with their age (1 could have been my father uh oh), some were just plain weird. blues And then it has to click with someone as well. dunno I did meet 1 nice guy, just bad timing.

I'm just not going to waste my time anymore sitting through one more evening like that.

It did work for other people, I wish you 2 best of luck.
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