HexagonKeySet: I guess the TA must be some sort of born again n again n again n again bossyoleschoolteacher?
Perhaps TA, you might get lucky if you weren't so dead keen on handing out 'F' for Fail and 'R' for reject ?
There may well be some decent guys who get a bit tongue tied at first approaches, maybe even some who've read 'dating advice' that says 'keep it light at first'
maybe if you didn't place so many conditions ahead of having a conversation ... yanno, leave a guy thinking 'maybe he does have a chance of getting somewhere ( phone no, email or whatever)
You can always say NO not yet, or you could 'just leave the request unanswered' or say 'let's talk here a while till I feel OK about that!
That's my two cents, I'd offer a full dollar's worth, but I know your ilk, and it's enough to waste two cents talk when I know you ain't ever gonna listen!
Waving across the pond
Can you please not categorise teachers as judgemental? I answer ALL messages....I feel a polite 'no thank you' takes no time at all. However, I DO block if they start to beg!
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Perhaps TA, you might get lucky if you weren't so dead keen on handing out 'F' for Fail and 'R' for reject ?
There may well be some decent guys who get a bit tongue tied at first approaches, maybe even some who've read 'dating advice' that says 'keep it light at first'
maybe if you didn't place so many conditions ahead of having a conversation ... yanno, leave a guy thinking 'maybe he does have a chance of getting somewhere ( phone no, email or whatever)
You can always say NO not yet, or you could 'just leave the request unanswered' or say 'let's talk here a while till I feel OK about that!
That's my two cents, I'd offer a full dollar's worth, but I know your ilk, and it's enough to waste two cents talk when I know you ain't ever gonna listen!
Waving across the pond
Can you please not categorise teachers as judgemental? I answer ALL messages....I feel a polite 'no thank you' takes no time at all. However, I DO block if they start to beg!