Why do men lie? ( Archived) (81)

Jan 17, 2013 6:58 PM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
pureenglish: not all men lie and from my experience i could say the same thing about women. Some people need to lie to make themselves more important or to give them a bigger meaning in life or even just to get what they want. Dont give up, hold true to your own beliefs and you will find that man you want. I have to beleave in that, its what keeps me hopeful


bless you :) and all who posted....i agree that it depends on morals rather that gender....It's just that in my experience, it is always men...
I know a lot of women lie too, I am not that naive...as I say it is my experience...

I just want to know why.... dating sites for example, have a option of 'just for fun' or 'no long term relationship'.....

or meeting someone they tell you face to face that they "don't want to be messed around anymore.." ....once they get their rocks off, they are gone....sad but true....they got what they want and are off.... I get that....

but it's the one's I meet i real life I really don't understand....
1 was asked "Is this your wife"....his reply was "one day"

another was asked by my aunt...."Is this the real thing?"....his reply was " Hopefully"....2 weeks later he calls it off....
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Jan 17, 2013 7:00 PM CST Why do men lie?
shaaz_khan
shaaz_khanshaaz_khanglasgow, Pakistan5 Threads 2 Polls 306 Posts
I posted more than allwriting
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Jan 17, 2013 7:01 PM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
L_B76: u brung me someone good on talk...
leave him in front of me and let him talk...
lets see the elapsed time between he start lie to me,and i start kick his BUTT


LMFAO

the guy I'm hung up on hasn';t relied or sent a conversational e mail for 2 months..
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Jan 17, 2013 7:03 PM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
shaaz_khan: I posted more than all


you did! and thanks! Maybe I meet the wrong men and you, the wrong women!
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Jan 17, 2013 7:08 PM CST Why do men lie?
L_B76
L_B76L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK8 Threads 1 Polls 1,117 Posts
Md4HIM: LMFAO

the guy I'm hung up on hasn';t relied or sent a conversational e mail for 2 months..

well i do not have the lightest idea which kind of men u met...
but i assure u
if one of them was me...
in the case things worked well
no lies from my side...
be a bit more smart.. and keep open ur eyes...all the times
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Jan 17, 2013 7:48 PM CST Why do men lie?
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
Rumple4skin: Man has to lie or he has to call out female self-delusion - which is tricky, the female ego is not prone to self-criticism and to find the woman that both knows and admits that she isn't perfect(and why)is a very rare find indeed.

It's a bind, the current narrative insists that we live with these lies and in doing so insult her integrity - such as pedestalising women, telling them they are “your everything” is the heartbeat of poetry down the ages. But she is not your everything, and if she is, she will soon not be anymore.


Well, well, I don't know about all women, but many have enough self-criticism to admit they are not perfect. If I think about all women I know there would be few that would always blame others, but most are sound in their minds. I would say more down to the earth than many guys who imagine themselves to be heroes they are not.
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Jan 17, 2013 8:21 PM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
By the way, as I am new to threads I have no idea....
can I change to title to why people lie???
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Jan 17, 2013 8:24 PM CST Why do men lie?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Md4HIM: By the way, as I am new to threads I have no idea....
can I change to title to why people lie???




You'd have to start a new thread.
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Jan 17, 2013 8:33 PM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
Ccincy: You'd have to start a new thread.


Oh righto! Thanks....then it is as it is!!
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Jan 17, 2013 11:24 PM CST Why do men lie?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Why do men lie?.........because they r humandevil
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Jan 18, 2013 6:00 AM CST Why do men lie?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
Md4HIM: Every man I have ever met, lies.

They say they really like you, even love you...

They say all sorts of future promises, and say it enough to convince me... then the inevitable happens....no contact, not even a goodbye sometimes; and I'm left thinking what was the last conversation we had, going over it and over it...and there is nothing I have said nasty, in fact usually the last thing said was complimentary.

It's not just relationship wise either, every man has lied, as I have found out later on. The only man I can discount is my own dad!

Why??? If I can't figure this out I will never find a man


You are not alone. The same happens to men by women. True love does not lie. Plain and simple. False love, always does. That simple.

Listen to that small inner voice. Don't listen to guys sprouting on an internet chat or dating site.

True love will always be there for you. You will have to have faith, risk touching some thorns to find, reach and pluck the rose.

True love is patient, true love is kind, true love is never wanting things at your expense. Keep looking, try some blokes that most women don't want to know because they ain't "Hugh Jackman". The cover does not always tell what the book is like. But also, don't settle for 2nd best. Wait for the right man. He is out there. He is out there and he will be brought to you. Pray about him. You might just be surprised.

Don't put out for any man though. Let him marry you first. That will test how much he really loves you and not just your body.....

And don't give any man you money. These things are not love....
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Jan 18, 2013 10:50 AM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
Halv0: You are not alone. The same happens to men by women. True love does not lie. Plain and simple. False love, always does. That simple.

Listen to that small inner voice. Don't listen to guys sprouting on an internet chat or dating site.

True love will always be there for you. You will have to have faith, risk touching some thorns to find, reach and pluck the rose.

True love is patient, true love is kind, true love is never wanting things at your expense. Keep looking, try some blokes that most women don't want to know because they ain't "Hugh Jackman". The cover does not always tell what the book is like. But also, don't settle for 2nd best. Wait for the right man. He is out there. He is out there and he will be brought to you. Pray about him. You might just be surprised.

Don't put out for any man though. Let him marry you first. That will test how much he really loves you and not just your body.....

And don't give any man you money. These things are not love....


I love this reply...thank you hug
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Jan 18, 2013 10:50 AM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
Halv0: You are not alone. The same happens to men by women. True love does not lie. Plain and simple. False love, always does. That simple.

Listen to that small inner voice. Don't listen to guys sprouting on an internet chat or dating site.

True love will always be there for you. You will have to have faith, risk touching some thorns to find, reach and pluck the rose.

True love is patient, true love is kind, true love is never wanting things at your expense. Keep looking, try some blokes that most women don't want to know because they ain't "Hugh Jackman". The cover does not always tell what the book is like. But also, don't settle for 2nd best. Wait for the right man. He is out there. He is out there and he will be brought to you. Pray about him. You might just be surprised.

Don't put out for any man though. Let him marry you first. That will test how much he really loves you and not just your body.....

And don't give any man you money. These things are not love....


I love this reply...thank you hug
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Jan 18, 2013 10:52 AM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
check_mate: Liars or just people very good at saying what the other person wants to hear?


Sounds like the same thing to me!..
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Jan 18, 2013 10:56 AM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
pureenglish: not all men lie and from my experience i could say the same thing about women. Some people need to lie to make themselves more important or to give them a bigger meaning in life or even just to get what they want. Dont give up, hold true to your own beliefs and you will find that man you want. I have to beleave in that, its what keeps me hopeful


I didn't say All men lie.....just all men I have known....maybe I have an aura about me that attracts them? If I do what is it? How can I change it?

I won't give up...don't you either! hug
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Jan 18, 2013 11:05 AM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
damshoppin: I try not to lie, I try to be honest but sometimes the truth can be brutal and it's better to say nothing..


Absolutely agree! There is such a thing as tact, if that fails, then say nothing....
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Jan 18, 2013 11:09 AM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
chris27292729: Cannot help it,am a compulsive one.


Hmm, thanks for that, I will be wary of you roll eyes
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Jan 18, 2013 12:41 PM CST Why do men lie?
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
Md4HIM: I didn't say All men lie.....just all men I have known....maybe I have an aura about me that attracts them? If I do what is it? How can I change it?

I won't give up...don't you either!


I have that same aura. Always been lied too. i think it the type of person I have always been attracted too,
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Jan 18, 2013 12:49 PM CST Why do men lie?
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
I am headed that way in the spring too, by the way!
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Jan 18, 2013 3:09 PM CST Why do men lie?
Md4HIM
Md4HIMMd4HIMBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 62 Posts
michael63ca: I have that same aura. Always been lied too. i think it the type of person I have always been attracted too,


Yeah...I wouldn't say I am attracted to them.....as all the men are in different situations....married, colleages, friend of friend etc
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