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Mar 18, 2013 4:17 PM CST Emotions=Feelings=Complications
Uguriph
UguriphUguriphPort of spain, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago1 Threads 1 Posts
Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave
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Mar 18, 2013 4:19 PM CST Emotions=Feelings=Complications
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Uguriph: Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave



Different people have different love languages. For me it would be ok, but others may feel unloved not hearing those words.
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Mar 18, 2013 4:27 PM CST Emotions=Feelings=Complications
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Uguriph: Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave

I'm not sure relationships work well entirely by prescription.

I think people should make their own rules.

If one person is not comfortable saying certain words, or performing certain actions, that's no problem, as long as they can communicate why they feel uncomfortable fulfilling their partner's needs in a particular way and as long as they can find a compromise together of fulfilling both their needs.
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Mar 18, 2013 4:54 PM CST Emotions=Feelings=Complications
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
jac379: I'm not sure relationships work well entirely by prescription.

I think people should make their own rules.

If one person is not comfortable saying certain words, or performing certain actions, that's no problem, as long as they can communicate why they feel uncomfortable fulfilling their partner's needs in a particular way and as long as they can find a compromise together of fulfilling both their needs.


you finally said something i like and agree with! hug
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Mar 18, 2013 5:10 PM CST Emotions=Feelings=Complications
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
Uguriph: Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave



Its easy to say words,actions are what count to me.
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Mar 18, 2013 5:18 PM CST Emotions=Feelings=Complications
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Glatlol: Its easy to say words,actions are what count to me.



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Mar 18, 2013 7:31 PM CST Emotions=Feelings=Complications
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
jac379: I'm not sure relationships work well entirely by prescription.

I think people should make their own rules.

If one person is not comfortable saying certain words, or performing certain actions, that's no problem, as long as they can communicate why they feel uncomfortable fulfilling their partner's needs in a particular way and as long as they can find a compromise together of fulfilling both their needs.


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with good communication and non judgement (no blaming) hopefully partners help each other meet the needs of the 'We', by having each partner's needs met...and a few wants as well... laugh
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Mar 19, 2013 1:13 AM CST Emotions=Feelings=Complications
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
In response to: Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave


How do you feel since he doesn't say I love you. Do you tell him I love you when you feel like it or has it reduced you telling him I love you.

With me, I like to hear it.

Have you asked him? Maybe like some of the CS people before me, it's fine that he doesn't because he shows he does - actions speak louder than words.

I was going out with one guy and he said it. I said it back. Then he stopped. I would say I love you, and he would say thanks or some other answer. That is when you know something is up. It ended, I was hurt but also glad not to be seeing him if he could change so fast.
I am glad to be free again.
He was also too neat, his place was huge, and almost looked like a museum inside. I am an Artist, I decorate inside with things that appeal to me. I could not picture my things at his place if we got married.



The Dobe
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