Mar 18, 2013 4:17 PM CST Emotions=Feelings=Complications
UguriphPort of spain, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago1 Threads1 Posts
UguriphOPPort of spain, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago1 posts
Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave
Uguriph: Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave
Different people have different love languages. For me it would be ok, but others may feel unloved not hearing those words.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Uguriph: Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave
I'm not sure relationships work well entirely by prescription.
I think people should make their own rules.
If one person is not comfortable saying certain words, or performing certain actions, that's no problem, as long as they can communicate why they feel uncomfortable fulfilling their partner's needs in a particular way and as long as they can find a compromise together of fulfilling both their needs.
jac379: I'm not sure relationships work well entirely by prescription.
I think people should make their own rules.
If one person is not comfortable saying certain words, or performing certain actions, that's no problem, as long as they can communicate why they feel uncomfortable fulfilling their partner's needs in a particular way and as long as they can find a compromise together of fulfilling both their needs.
Uguriph: Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave
Its easy to say words,actions are what count to me.
jac379: I'm not sure relationships work well entirely by prescription.
I think people should make their own rules.
If one person is not comfortable saying certain words, or performing certain actions, that's no problem, as long as they can communicate why they feel uncomfortable fulfilling their partner's needs in a particular way and as long as they can find a compromise together of fulfilling both their needs.
with good communication and non judgement (no blaming) hopefully partners help each other meet the needs of the 'We', by having each partner's needs met...and a few wants as well...
In response to: Would you stay in a relationship with some 1 that makes you happy ,does everything a man should do/be 4 you,everything you desire in a man and your relationship is full-filled,your in love!...Still with me? Ok,here's the catch, he never says he Loves You! Would you stay!/Leave
How do you feel since he doesn't say I love you. Do you tell him I love you when you feel like it or has it reduced you telling him I love you.
With me, I like to hear it.
Have you asked him? Maybe like some of the CS people before me, it's fine that he doesn't because he shows he does - actions speak louder than words.
I was going out with one guy and he said it. I said it back. Then he stopped. I would say I love you, and he would say thanks or some other answer. That is when you know something is up. It ended, I was hurt but also glad not to be seeing him if he could change so fast. I am glad to be free again. He was also too neat, his place was huge, and almost looked like a museum inside. I am an Artist, I decorate inside with things that appeal to me. I could not picture my things at his place if we got married.
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