Do you think it's love at first sight? ( Archived) (26)

Mar 23, 2013 5:22 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
kristal00o
kristal00okristal00owaerftghjkl, Armenia1 Threads 9 Posts
Ok am usually the very analytical,cautious and time taking,get it right type but i just met this one guy that really sums it up for me.Problem is he is MARRIED! But doesn't seem happy and kinda trying to get out of it?!

Am smitten,he feels the same and i can't think clearly....i need help?!


Help!roll eyes confused
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Mar 23, 2013 5:27 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Just forget about it until the ink is dry on the divorce papers. You will be the only to suffer from a relationship like that.
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Mar 23, 2013 5:38 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
kristal00o: Ok am usually the very analytical,cautious and time taking,get it right type but i just met this one guy that really sums it up for me.Problem is he is MARRIED! But doesn't seem happy and kinda trying to get out of it?!

Am smitten,he feels the same and i can't think clearly....i need help?!Help!



There is no such thing as love at first sight, its lust. It can turn into love alright but if he is married you shouldnt allow it to IMO.
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Mar 23, 2013 5:40 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
kristal00o
kristal00okristal00owaerftghjkl, Armenia1 Threads 9 Posts
Jillll: Just forget about it until the ink is dry on the divorce papers. You will be the only to suffer from a relationship like that.


I know but why does it feel this right right with the wrong person or at the wrong time?....Its like once blue moon?!
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Mar 23, 2013 5:44 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
kristal00o
kristal00okristal00owaerftghjkl, Armenia1 Threads 9 Posts
kristal00o: I know but why does it feel this right right with the wrong person or at the wrong time?....Its like once blue moon?!


Awie...why does the the wrong one love me right!!
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Mar 23, 2013 7:07 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
kristal00o: I know but why does it feel this right right with the wrong person or at the wrong time?....Its like once blue moon?!



It's lust at first site, not love. Respect yourself and hold out for someone who can really be there for you.
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Mar 23, 2013 7:11 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
kristal00o: Ok am usually the very analytical,cautious and time taking,get it right type but i just met this one guy that really sums it up for me.Problem is he is MARRIED! But doesn't seem happy and kinda trying to get out of it?!

Am smitten,he feels the same and i can't think clearly....i need help?!Help!



What do you mean by He's kinda trying to get out of it?
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Mar 23, 2013 7:21 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
kristal00o: Ok am usually the very analytical,cautious and time taking,get it right type but i just met this one guy that really sums it up for me.Problem is he is MARRIED! But doesn't seem happy and kinda trying to get out of it?!

Am smitten,he feels the same and i can't think clearly....i need help?!Help!


You need to take a step back and think this through carefully. This man is not available and you are being set up for disappointment. wine
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Mar 23, 2013 8:07 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
freesparrow
freesparrowfreesparrowHarlingen, Texas USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,162 Posts
If he is cheating on her, he will cheat on you.
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Mar 23, 2013 8:32 PM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
Sliprywnwt
SliprywnwtSliprywnwtMissouri, USA37 Threads 15 Polls 211 Posts
freesparrow: If he is cheating on her, he will cheat on you.


thumbs up

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Besides, if he REALLY loves you, he'll divorce his wife to be with you.
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Mar 24, 2013 4:55 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
kristal00o
kristal00okristal00owaerftghjkl, Armenia1 Threads 9 Posts
Ccincy: What do you mean by He's kinda trying to get out of it?


Well its been two years and she won't agree to divorce!
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Mar 24, 2013 5:00 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
kristal00o
kristal00okristal00owaerftghjkl, Armenia1 Threads 9 Posts
Sliprywnwt: Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Besides, if he REALLY loves you, he'll divorce his wife to be with you.



We are always really fast to judge,he has been trying to get his life back for the past two years and that was not for me either!
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Mar 24, 2013 5:11 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Run.

Now.

Something's gone very wrong if you're not running.

If you get the chance, get his wife out, too.

Unless of course, you insist that this bog-standard routine manipulation of his (its been done a gazillion times before) is genuine.

PS. Learn to analyse better.
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Mar 24, 2013 5:20 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
Attraction and lust in first sight yes but love?doubtful..why would u go with a married man if u can find a single man,when did cheating become right?
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Mar 24, 2013 5:20 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
freesparrow: If he is cheating on her, he will cheat on you.
good chance!thumbs up
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Mar 24, 2013 5:27 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
MarieLeveau
MarieLeveauMarieLeveauSt. John's, Newfoundland Canada103 Posts
The married part is a red flag. Me, personally, I wouldn't want to be a part of tearing someone's family apart. If he's unhappy he should try to get out of his situation and THEN find someone to be with. Place yourself in his wife's shoes. Would you want to be wearing them? If he was such a wonderful man he wouldn't be out trying to find "someone" else. I agree with one poster..you will be the one hurt from all of it.
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Mar 24, 2013 5:33 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
He is a very good con-artist, he is conning you and his wife, he will con others after he's spat you out.

It will be a learning process for you, mind. You will learn a lot from it.
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Mar 24, 2013 5:34 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
2intrigued: You need to take a step back and think this through carefully. This man is not available and you are being set up for disappointment.
besides,might getting Legal Repercussions,judging from the Country she's residing in!
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Mar 24, 2013 5:40 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
Sliprywnwt
SliprywnwtSliprywnwtMissouri, USA37 Threads 15 Polls 211 Posts
kristal00o: Well its been two years and she won't agree to divorce!


I'm sorry, but something smells fishsy here to me to me. Are you SURE you know what you're doing? Maybe he hasn't even asked her for a divorce and he's just stringing you along. Just saying....
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Mar 24, 2013 6:11 AM CST Do you think it's love at first sight?
Sliprywnwt
SliprywnwtSliprywnwtMissouri, USA37 Threads 15 Polls 211 Posts
So I am confused, are still seeing/dating him or not?
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