why is it so hard for me to find a loving caring man that is honest and passionate and would love me for me not about money or my looks or me living with my parents
O dear O dear! thats a tall order. To begin with self-pity is very unattractive. Start working on your self-esteem. Then consider what YOU bring to the table. I dont know about you, but I want a partner to be independant and stable. I would imagine men look for the same. I know I wouldnt become involved with a man that was unemployed and living with his parents, I couldnt blame anyone for not wanting that.
Work on yourself first. Become a healthy, happy person and that is what you will attract.
i am happy and its not really self pity cause im used to guys rejecting me cause im in a wheelchair and me living with my parents i still have faith that i will find somebody that would love me
bluedolphin3280: why is it so hard for me to find a loving caring man that is honest and passionate and would love me for me not about money or my looks or me living with my parents
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
bluedolphin3280: why is it so hard for me to find a loving caring man that is honest and passionate and would love me for me not about money or my looks or me living with my parents
bluedolphin3280: i am happy and its not really self pity cause im used to guys rejecting me cause im in a wheelchair and me living with my parents i still have faith that i will find somebody that would love me
Sorry I wish you had clarified your situation a bit more. I jumped to conclusions. I thought you were one of those peeps looking for instant love.
In that case I applaud your courage in getting out there. You have much to contribute to the world! I have several disabled friends and I get that its much tougher. I do have a friend who trained and became a 911 operator. He makes great money and met a women in a similar situation (also in a wheelchair) They have had a relationship going for about two yrs now.
I think there really is someone for everyone. No matter the circumstances in our lives. I hope you find your partner.
bluedolphin3280: why is it so hard for me to find a loving caring man that is honest and passionate and would love me for me not about money or my looks or me living with my parents
Isn't this about your third try with a different screen name for the same purpose?
Just about every woman wants an honest and passionate man. Men and women fall for the shell first....immediate gratification. When men get past seeing your wheelchair they will know the good person that you are. I would suggest that you surround yourself with people in wheelchairs or who are disabled in some way. Also, you might want to think about joining a website for people who are disabled. Good luck to you Dolphin
nah nobody cares about that. Its all about looks. Investing time and seeing the worth?. Wanting to be an upstanding partner who values and ads value?. Apparently not. Hence better off alone.
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