"Of course when they are old and gray and need someone to take care of them, they will be devoted, sincere, honest and compliant." "they need someone to change their diapers"
Good one Cyn,
I doubt I will be devoted, compliant or I will be in need of someone to take care of me. As to someone change my diapers, I won't be around to see it. Better go with dignity than suffer living the life of a vegetable and being a burden on someone. Being friend with someone is a choice. Some people are desperate or emotionally needy, can't take rejections and others live an unattached life. They know what they want and it is only a matter for the other person to voice their choice. Difficult to lump everyone under the same label with a stroke of the pen, or few keystroke. There is a block mode in the mailbox OP, use it freely. Much ado about nothing, so to speak.
May 4, 2013 3:33 PM CST Why do men falsely presume you are trying to jump-start a relationship just because you are being fr
justme1301brierley hill, West Midlands, England UK2 Posts
justme1301brierley hill, West Midlands, England UK2 posts
and some men get confused between flirting and friendship it depends on the people whether they both understand each other prior to flirting or friendship starting .... i suggest you spend a little more time getting to know the MAN !!!
fallen_wolf: I learned that few days ago. We're only mail back n forth n chat. Sometimes I just flirt but I dont anything by it. And he sent excessived msgs. and somehow in that less than 48 hours he thinks he owned me or something. He used dif ID's to see if Im online or not? so this fake ID kept sending me req add b on messenger which I kept rejecting. and then to my curiosity I ask if he doesnt explain who is he, dont bother requesting!. And then using his real ID he went nuts on me cus Im was online but hiding from him. So he started insulting me, calling me names under the sun, calling me a scammer and made a threat that he gonna call the company that I'm gonna work with so they re-think twice before I start the job.
I know he got some problems comprehending things, and the "tunnel vision" he had in mind, arguing with him is pointless. My mistake was ignores the red flags from the start Im such an idiot
No you're not an idiot he is. Don't let one moron stop you being yourself.
mrpebbscentral highlands, vic, Victoria Australia60 posts
KIBALUV: I've had many men avoid me just because I was friendly but I had NO interest in having a relationship with them. Are men so egocentric that just because you talk to them as a person they presume "you wanna be startin' somethin'?"
ive made heaps of friends on here, good friends but I have no intention of being in a relationship with someone off the internet.Thats too much of a generalization .
KIBALUV: I've had many men avoid me just because I was friendly but I had NO interest in having a relationship with them. Are men so egocentric that just because you talk to them as a person they presume "you wanna be startin' somethin'?"
Wow! Maybe you already know the answer and are just playing "devil's advocate". Or may be you are a heart breaker who starts trouble and then runs. In any case lots of people end up looking for love in all the wrong places. Just forgive them and get out of Dodge as fast as you can.
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